8 tricks of charismatic people.

There are people who have simply unexplained magnetism. Everyone is drawn to them, they want to deserve their friendship, they try to be like them. But the most surprising is that the "magnetism" of such persons is not affected at all by their appearance.

We found 8 rules, which such "people-magnets" consciously or unconsciously adhere to. The main thing remember, that charismatic are not born, but become.

Individuality of the image

The image needs uniqueness. Listen to yourself, and you will find the necessary detail. This is something that even unfamiliar people will remember about you. The desired uniqueness is often hidden in defects and vulnerabilities. Features of mimicry, voice, intonation, gait, gesture, communication or wardrobe make a person memorable.

Charlie Chaplin remembered by mustache, canes and costume. Stalin - by the mustache, accent and tube. Churchill - for a cigar and fullness. Marilyn Monroe - by birthmark and hair color. Find your own distinctive feature.

Just having ambition and striving for them, and you can develop yourself and be of interest to others. A man without a dream is like a book without an idea. You can read, but is it worth it to waste time?

Self-confidence

A charismatic person always has great confidence. He can only rely on his own strength. He knows how to do without the help of others. This confidence is manifested not only in behavior, but also in speech. Avoid "unsure" words. No "can", "probably", "well", "I hope" and others.

One half of the listeners are indifferent to your problems, and the second is happy that you have them. Charismatic people are optimistic. They avoid criticism, complaints and negativity. Concentrate on good things and stop spoiling the mood for others.

Use sign language

The way you look, sometimes talks about you more than words. Do not slouch, do not finger fingers, lips and other parts of the body. Smile and look the interlocutor in the eyes. Learn the language with a gesture and apply what it says about your confidence.

Tell me interestingly

Someone believes that interesting storytellers are born, but it is not. You can always learn to express your thoughts more clearly, more clearly and consistently.

Know how to listen

For a pleasant conversation you need to be able not only to talk, but also to listen. Man always wants to speak on an interesting topic for him. Do not forget to show interest in other people by listening to their point of view. By this you not only make them pleasant, but also enrich your horizons.

"Mirror effect"

If the person you just need just to immediately defeat, cause him sympathy, then use this method. Repeat for the interlocutor his facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice. Talk in the same rhythm as he does. This secret subconsciously will cause the interlocutor to trust you.