So what! Atheist~Christian. Abortion. Child abuse. Feminism. Empathy. Meaning.

in #atheism6 years ago

This is a continuation of the conversation with the Christian @abolitionist, continued from here.

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You start by repeatedly asserting that all my opinions are to be ignored. If that's the case, I don't see the point of us having a discussion, do you?

I'll respond to what you said though...

See, I live amongst living, breathing, feeling human beings. Being part of a social set, they have feelings of empathy and love and caring. When they see abuse, it causes them to have EMOTIONS. These emotions are how HUMANS regulate their own behaviour. We don't need a silly old book to guide us.

Psychopaths have blunted or flattened emotions and can commit atrocities because they don't have this inbuilt 'thermostat' to regulate themselves. They don't care. Their response to suffering is: 'So what!' or 'This is entertaining!' They will be incapable of empathy, even after reading your silly old book.

It seems that reading the bible has caused you to blunt any emotional response that would be normal for most humans. You've handed over moral decision making to your leader, a bit like Nazi soldiers did in the death camps. The leader is perfect, therefore everything the leader says must be perfect. Don't question it. Obey.

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Do you consider this a loss of your humanity? How is life as an automaton?

As humans, we share opinions and, as a result, will modify our own as we go along, recalibrating after considering new facts, issues and opinions. We evolve.

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You, on the other hand, are set in a rigid mindset that is thousands of years out of date. You have denied yourself any feelings of warmth or empathy for people suffering abuse (except, apparently, foetuses... more on that later).

So, you've handed over all moral responsibility to an imaginary being whose morals would embarrass the likes of Stalin, Hitler, Pol Pot, Ted Bundy...

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Abortion

Here's my hypothesis. Having enjoyed a bit of time with you, it seems you have no respect or empathy for human beings, just like the god of the bible. It got me wondering why you are so opposed to abortion.

Why champion the rights of a cluster of cells when your God clearly has no problem wiping them out on a massive scale? Why intercede for foetuses when your response to a fully-developed victim of abuse is SO WHAT? Then, I remembered that the bible really doesn't seem to like women. Women are property. Women are the root of all evil. Women caused The Fall. Women should be controlled. Women should be PUNISHED!

Abortion is a choice some women make. There are all manner of reasons which, of course, are irrelevant to you and, frankly, none of your business. What gives you the right to bully women into making choices YOU want? What makes your opinion on abortion weigh more than theirs? It's their body, after all; not yours. What if they are victims of rape or incest or the foetus is so severely damaged it would suffer on birth? What if the pregnancy puts that woman's life at risk? Why does a cluster of cells get more empathy than a woman?

What about the woman's god-given free will? Would your god want you to interfere with this? Surely it's all part of his divine plan? The woman makes her free choice. God gets to torture her for all eternity. Fun stuff.

I wonder if your response will be SO WHAT? again.

What importance does empathy have among random results of undirected natural processes? No hell below us; above us only sky. Imagine it.


IMAGINE ~ JOHN LENNON

I love that song. He's from the same city as me. Maybe there was something in the water that made us less vulnerable to lies and fantasy stories.

Empathy

If we go back to your bible, we know that one of the worst punishments for a person was ostracism from the community. A person would have a very hard time surviving if they were turfed out of their group and left to fend for themselves. Selfish, antisocial types would be cut off because they served only themselves, bringing nothing of value to the community.

Empathic people formed mutually beneficial relationships with others. As a result, they were able to pass on their genes more successfully than psychopaths (psychos have their purpose too but that's another story). Anyway, empathy helped our species survive. Empathy helps us all, collectively, live lives that are safer, more enriched and fulfilling. That's the importance of empathy.

Supernatural water source

First of all, LOL. Water sources are natural, not supernatural. Remember, people liked to make up stories back in the day. Hagar found water (lucky girl) and said that God did it. What makes you think she was telling the truth? Could she – an ostracised woman on the edge, carrying an infant, desperate – be making up stories to wiggle a bit of empathy from listeners, get a better position? Is it possible she was doing whatever a desperate person would do in her position to survive? Perhaps she'd consider manipulating highly superstitious, potentially dangerous strangers, planting the idea: God's on her side, we should look after her. Don't piss Him off!

Is life meaningful for an atheist?

Maybe you believe a god gives your life purpose and meaning. I give my own life purpose and meaning.

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I know my time is limited and that I must seize the day and make the most of it. I spend time with my loved ones, write, do crafts, listen to music, read wonderful books, watch movies, walk my dogs, have a laugh. I learn, think, evolve, and try to help others when I can. I find meaning and purpose in developing good relationships with my family, friends, neighbours and my dogs. The meaning of my life is to live as fully as possible. I don't need to insert myself in a fairytale to find meaning.

Will you just respond with SO WHAT! WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR OPINION? again? Let's see...

Human laws

Some laws are deeply flawed, written or inspired by self-interested despots. Sound familiar? I prefer to follow my own law, the one that's internally regulated by my thoughts and emotions.

So before humanity existed, humanity both existed and didn't exist? The sun was both hot and not-hot? Since there was no logic?

Humans invented logic. Before humanity there were no humans to think or care about whether the sun was hot or not hot so that's irrelevant isn't it.

Humans invented gods too.

And finally...

Let's have a recap to make sure I'm not missing any points...

According to your version of Christianity:

  • human opinions are irrelevant

  • child abusers and rapists are no worse or better than people who eat broccoli

  • if people whine about rape or child abuse, the best response is SO WHAT! WHO CARES?

You make Christianity sound soooo appealing. Where do I sign up?

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A lot of anger in this post since our last exchange. You cite several passages from what is referred to as the "Old Testament", but then lump Christians into the object of your disappointment. Christians follow the "New Testament" which has a much more passive and compassionate message with a focus on social justice. The New Testament requires Christians to "mix it up" with non-believers to demonstrate the positive life changing message that focuses on loving others at least as much as you love yourself. Again, you cited barbarians from the past that used religion as a hammer to destroy rather than to build. The message of Christianity is love, peace, and tolerance. If Christians have a mandate it is to not resist people who do wrong. So you have nothing to fear by attacking the Christian faith. How about Islam. Do you have the courage to specifically attack them as you have Christians? I've read the Quran. They have no requirement to passively accept criticism. Venting anger is easy on people who you know won't fight back except with a few words in a post.

Hiya Chuck

I'm not angry in this post. Frustrated is a closer description, probably. I'm frustrated with Abolitionist's illogical nonsense and dishonesty. He refuses to acknowledge that atheists are anything but a collection of random molecules, or something like that. He keeps asking me questions then, when I reply, he responds with SO WHAT! WHY SHOULD ANYONE CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION!

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I know Christians say they follow the New Testament. But lots of this is 'enhanced' by dipping back into the Old when it suits them. Jesus himself said that he subscribed to the Old Testament laws:

'Verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, on jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.'

He was a fan of the Old Testament. Before Jesus, people could suffer in their mortal coils, but their suffering ended with death. Apparently, that wasn't good enough for Jesus. He added everlasting torture in hell. That's not the best way to make friends. Follow me, or else!

I know you think the message is love, peace and tolerance, but that's just the PR. Anyone who's really read the bible (not just the bits the priest points out) knows there is plenty going on that is anything but love, peace and tolerance.

Islam. I despise all religions, Islam included. An ex-husband of mine is Muslim so I have a fair bit of experience. I've challenged Islam plenty. They follow a paedophile prophet who was bent on taking over the world. They say they're a religion of peace but that's just PR nonsense too.

I see you're accusing me of being cowardly, attacking defenceless Christians. Ok, if it makes you happy:
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He also encouraged the rape of virgin prisoners before their execution. Why? So they wouldn't get into heaven.

On the bright side, his dead body was stripped naked by mourners on telly so at least there was a bit of poetic justice.

Religion gives sick, evil people the excuse to do terrible things. Anyone can manipulate passages to mean whatever they want them to mean. They can find justification to commit atrocities in the name of God. That's one of the reasons I despise most religion... not just Christianity.

Yes, Christians do dip back into the Old Testament, especially when they don't know enough about the New Testament to support their arguement. And I know you are above holding the opinion of one person against a group of people. If any one DOES NOT WALK IN UNISON it is Christians. At last count there were over 200 denominations. The quotes of Jesus flip back and forth from literal to metaphoric without stop signs or turn signals leaving it hard to follow and easy to abuse.

You look at the Bible in such an interesting way! "Follow me, or else!" Calling you "cowardly" is much too harsh for my demeanor. When the Vietnam war was raging I did not have the courage to volunteer, but when I was drafted I did my duty to the best of my ability. Even leaving the country to escape military service took a degree of courage. Besides no coward discusses topics like religion. I had forgotten that you were married to a Muslim. Shame on me : {

Religion also gives decent people a reason to do good for others. At least the Christian religion is unique in that Jesus is quoted saying "do unto others as you have them do to you". Think of how different the world would be if we all embraced and adhered to that one principle!

I heard an interesting statement from a lovely young lady earlier today. She said that in Jesus "you love other people first before you like them". The love part comes into play in that you will risk your life to save strangers and you give money and time to help people you will probably never know. The like part comes from the relational emphasis of the New Testament rather that the rules oriented emphasis of the Old Testament. As a follower of Jesus you have to love everyone, but you don't have to like them. This is bassackwards to the way we normally think of relationships.

Thank you for this splendid reply and the upvote. I wish we were not an ocean apart. It would be great to sit in a street cafe' and chat about this and other things.

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I like following this discussion, so thank you for continuing it. Life has no meaning.......

Thanks Eon. Lol no meaning :P

Hey there,
I haven't had time yet. Sorry for the delay.

No worries, no hurries. Had a busy weekend, no doubt, eh :)

I've been a bit off lately so we can resume whenever you're ready.

cheers
Anj

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