Don’t try to change anyone-everyone is unique

No matter what we say or do,people do not change.Keep trying as long as you want.Us....now if themselves want to change,that’s a whole different thing.

Not to mention that is is not nice to try to change someone.It is like as if you are showing him that he not good enough and that you would love,or like him under conditions.

The truth is that we all have both positive and negative elements.Sometimes,however we should remember that these positive and negative elements are interrelated.

We love for example in our partner,that is always attentive and good looking,which shows that he/she is taking care of himself and in the same way takes care for us,but we are annoyed when he spends a lot of time in the bathroom and cannot decide what to wear.

I can bring up a thousand examples but I think you got my point.

These are two sides of the same coin and you can have one without the other.It is not possible to love only the outcome and trying to change all those leading to this.It is like saying that you want chocolate without cocoa.It is not possible!

It is not love to constantly try to change someone by placing conditions or dilemmas.Nor are the relations field exchanges.

I will do this for you if you do the other for me...
It just doesn’t work like that.

I do not think we should be adjusted by making concessions.More i think he/she must be aware of himself and his priorities,to love himself above all,so that it can be seen objectively the degree of compatibility with the other.

Whether we are talking about relations or friendships,or even to our relationship with ourselves,it is much more fair and proper to know our limits and to respect those of others...

When you know yourself is much easier to quit from something that has stopped filling you up and to remove from your life people and situations that don't offer anything to you. With the same logic it is even easier to find people who you really suit with and spend quality time with them.

Nobody gets trapped in a situation like this without his own will

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