Ulog No. 14: "When God doesn't answer my prayers, it doesn't mean He's absent"
After work today, I was approached by a fellow teacher, whom I fondly call Auntie K. because she's a lot older than me and in her 60's. I love that Auntie K. is a mother-figure to me. I love her with all my heart. She always wants to connect with me, asks how I am going, and not because she wants to be nosy or anything, but as a genuine person who seeks God on my behalf. When I need prayers, Auntie K. will stop what she's doing immediately to pray with me.
In my previous post, My Thoughts on Confiding in Someone, I wrote that we must confide only in people who walk according to the principles of God's Word. Auntie K. is that person for me, one of the trustworthy people in my life and I know she will pray to God and will give me godly counsel anytime I need it. She will only speak the truth in love with me and will call me out when I need reminders, or sometimes, even discipline.
So today, as I was leaving the staff room, she asked me how I was going. I said that I was all right. Auntie K. said, "It's okay to say you're not if you are not actually fine at all." She also said that our connect group leader told her that she was worried about me because I was feeling a little bit down the last time we had our home group meeting.
Anyway, I explained that during the home group meeting, the topic was about suffering, and people might think that I was happy but deep down inside, I was also hurting and suffering. I felt like God wasn't answering my prayers. That I was going through times when it felt like God had moved and He could not be found.
I asked questions like:
"What is God up to?"
"Why does He not respond to my prayers?"
"The fact that my prayers are still unanswered, does it have anything to do with my past, my guilt and my sins?"
"Am I being condemned?"
Auntie K. listened to me and reassured me that God is a Sovereign God and He knows what is going on. He has set a purpose for my life and that I was born to carry out a mission. Jesus already dealt with guilt and condemnation, and that I should not listen to the lies of the enemy because the devil's only mission on earth is to try to break us apart and separate ourselves from God. When I have feelings of unworthiness, that I don't feel like I am worthy in His eyes, there can be a part of me that just wants to hide because I am ashamed of myself, and so the result is, I run away from God, instead of running to Him.
Just from that short conversation with Auntie K., I have learnt some important messages.
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Silence does not mean God is absent.
Sometimes, God says to me, "Be still, and know that I am God." (Psalm 46:10) Just like when you are really secure with somebody that you can just sit quietly with them, it's the same way with God. Silence can build a level of intimacy where words are no longer necessary. If I want to be comfortable with God, I have to meditate on His Word and have "silent fellowship" with Him.
Silence does test my faith.
I remember the first time I learnt how to ride a bike without the training wheels. When I was 10 years old, my father would pick me up from school using his pushbike. He would let me either sit in front or stand at the back.
"You are not alone!"
One day, I asked my father if I could ride the bike myself. My feet could not even reach the ground yet, but I could already balance myself, just with my feet on the pedals. My father let me ride the bike. I was quite surprised. I realised now that at that point, he trusted my capability. He put his confidence in me. I knew that he was walking behind me ready to catch me if I'd fall, but still the fact that I was the one controlling the bike on my own, that was like liberating for me.
Then, suddenly I felt the nerves kicked in, and I lost my balance instantly and fell off the bike. I got hurt and cried, probably not from the physical pain but because of embarrassment thinking that I was not too big enough to ride the bike. My father consoled me and said that I rode the bike quite well, but he saw how nervous I got towards the end, which made the bike wobble. He said that I should not have gotten scared because he was right there behind me anyway.
At some point in my life, God takes His hands off my bike and even lets me ride it on my own to see how far I have progressed. It can either be a steady or a wobbly ride. When it's wobbly, that's when I show how far I've come and where or whom I am placing my trust.
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ALL prayers are answered. They're answered yes, no, or wait.
Yes, that's true, and that we should accept whatever the answer graciously.
I really get that part, sometimes when God is silent, we all tend to do as we like, on most occasion it's under the influence of the devil and results to regret.
Or maybe we don't communicate with God often as we should that's why we don't hear from Him, and so we thought that He's silent. We listen to and dwell on the lies more when we should not be doing that at all.
Silent sometimes, means a time of reflection.
Amen, my friend.
I guess knowing what prayers we are asking has something to do with what God is doing or how we look at a delay.
I have found when God seems distant He is just calling me closer. He is also showing me He is still there at all times even if I don’t feel His presence He is Faithful. God seems to continually be teaching us absolute trust in Him. No trust in ourselves. One thing God always wants to give us and that is more of Himself.
God bless!
Great post!
That's right, more of the Father and His Son Jesus, and less of me. Thank you for your comment, Daddy William. I really appreciate it.
My pleasure! Blessings!