How to be Overcome Shy and Fearful Children

Children do have different characters, ranging from the brave, like to talk, shy, timid, and so forth. One of those who needs attention from parents is the nature of shy and shy children. Children With shy and shy nature tend to do its own activities because they feel less confident or inferior when moving in public or with friends Surely the parents must be aware of the nature of this child and try to help him out of the zone.

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As for some ways that parents can do to eliminate fear and shame on the child :

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1. Calming Children
In the face of cowardly and shy children, you should also not respond with fear and shame. This will only make the child more difficult to eliminate these bad habits. If children are always shy and afraid of something, as a true parent or counselor, you should respond positively and calmly. With a routine habit, the shame and fear of the child will fade.

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2. Engaging Activities with Others
Children The shy and afraid of being overweight can be given mild therapy by engaging them with others, both adults, and peers. The more often the child interacts in public, the easier it is to get rid of shame and fear. Limiting the time children play outside the home is a bad thing. So, Shy and shy children can be given little freedom to play, of course below your supervision

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3. Do not talk about the bad
Talks about the ugliness of the child to others, unrelated to fear and embarrassed or not, will surely make them feel angry and even more Inferior Especially If you talk about it directly in front of the children. Discuss it The ugliness in some way mocks it will only aggravate his condition and that very discouraged. Because, since the age of toddlers, children are able to understand the topic of less good talk.

4. Give Praise
The character of shy and shy children is often caused by lack of confidence. To wake him up, you can always praise him, both small and big. Give Praise as he wants to greet his friends when they want to give a little help for their peers, and other positive attitudes. Never hesitate to say praise to shy and shy children.

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5. Do not be embarrassed by his attitude
If you feel embarrassed by his attitude and do not give support, it will make him more inferior. Avoid apologizing to others for your child's attitude. Instead of being inferior to shy and shy children, you have to look for the upside. For example, behind the shy nature, they have such good habits diligent reading books, studying diligently, like helping you in the kitchen, and so forth.

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6. Hug the Children often
The way to generate confidence in shy and subsequent cowards is to often give hugs. This will build good relationships with children and make them feel calmer. Perform this action when they encounter situations that make it less comfortable. Plowing them with hugs of affection is the most powerful act of allaying fear and shame within him.