YOU Belong Here - "RUN YOUR OWN RACE"

in #steemit6 years ago (edited)

Plenty of us are struggling not only on Steemit but in real life, family, children career etc. Not earning much on Steemit?  It's not the end of the world yet. Like what I've said on my previous blog. I crawled when I started it here. I'm still crawling and learning.

In my story the "THE LOST BUG IN THE STEEMIAN FOREST." CLICK HERE It was my journey as a lost little bug confused,  hungry and homeless. Along the way, some Big Bears, guided me and supported me. The Steeamin Forest is not perfect, now and then you will encounter a lot of drama's. It's normal I guess. Sometimes you feel behind, alone, lost, no friends, no family, no community to support you. BE PREPARED!! 

Steemit is like a a roller coaster. They ride with you, sit beside you, scream, laugh, make you go around and around, sometimes you want it to stop and get off. And then you try again until you throw up. Enjoy the ride because this is only the beginning. It's not easy. All you need is determination, because YOU BELONG HERE!!!!

Money! money $$$$ Power! More POWER AND MORE $$$!! Yeah everybody needs money. But Steemit is not all about money. If you think that, then you won't survive that long. Some get lucky, others not. But I'm sure they work really hard on it.

"STEEMIT IS NOT A SPRINT BUT A MARATHON." 

GET INVOLVED
Don't get stuck with one community. If your community is supporting you then stay as long as you're happy. But if not, don't feel bad though it is very painful. We all have that cry and agony. Unfair contribution and favoritism, abuse of power it's everywhere. Try to move on and focus more on your own blog and not the wallet of others.  Explore and experiment what works and doesn't work. 

 GENUINE FRIENDSHIP
I invited my friends, family, neighbors to join here, thinking that we could support each other, some came but most of them left. They couldn't stay any longer. You will survive on Steemit by making real friends, some are fake and some are not. Jealousy and envy are always there. Use it in a good way to improve your crafts.

YOU ARE UNIQUE
Everybody has talent and special charms. 

KEEP GOING
Even you only have zero income. I was jumping when I earned 2 cents, sometimes "bokya"means zero, nada,, nothing. But keep blogging even you feel like giving up.

TALENT TO BE DISCOVERED
Believe me, I'm sure you have more and a lot more to be discovered. You haven't  maybe discover it yet. "Oh I'm not a blogger" me too "I'm "jologs". (means chessy lol) Start believing in yourself. How are you gonna know if you haven't try it?  

SHINE AND STAY WITH THE POSITIVE ATTITUDE
We all have this kind of frustrations, sometimes we lose our control and the positivity because of the negative vibes around. Stay motivated. Hang out and laugh with your new friends and encourage one another. 

I'm  half year on Steemit and still a newbie. I dont know everything. I'm only sharing my experience with you. Below is my article "My Steemian SURVIVAL KIT". I want to share it with you again. I met lots of wonderful newbies these days and I'm trying to help them in a small way. Papa Bear @paradise-found started a #gratefulvibes community and a NEW COMER SPOTLIGHT SECTION on his blog ATTITUDE AND GRATITUDE. Feel free to visit, ask or comment. He's an amazing guy with a big heart like a WHALE! 

How I survive  On Steemit And Still Surviving. 

1. Be yourself. Never imitate somebody. You are unique.
2. Share from your heart. Share your talents.
Can you cook? Can you sing? Dance, can you write?  
3. Love what you do. You won't go wrong.
If you love your work, you don't feel like it's  work.
4. Leave a real comments from your heart, people can feel if you're copying and pasting a comment.
5. Be consistent, post regularly if you can.
6. Do not force yourself to be successful right away.
7. Avoid using "follow me back" or advertise your posts on the blogs of others especially if it's not related to the topic. Respect the author.  (kung magkaibigan kayo ok lang kasi kilala mo)
8. Do not get hurt if they don't follow you back. You can unfollow them if you want, it's your choice.
9. Develop your crafts. Learn to count your blessings instead of counting the blessings of others.
10. You don't get noticed? It's painful but that's fine. Don't rush.
11. Be grateful for whatever earnings you've got.  
12. Do not compare yourself to other Steemians. This is a trap!
13. Focus on your wall/blog.
14. Respect the elders, old Steemians who have been here for a long time.
15. Do not get jealous or envy others. If you are, that's ok but do it in a positive way by improving your skills. Again this is a TRAP because you become focused on them, not on your own blog.
16. Don't give up. Keep trying.
17. Make friends, lots of friends. I met alot of funny, loving and crazy friends:) I'm surviving because of them lols
I'm truly grateful for this.

Read also:  Ultimate Reason Why You Think You're Struggling on Steemit And How To Beat It @rye05

 My journey on chasing the $$$ Why do we chase the $$$? @joalvarez

If you want to be inspired and get motivated, read the blogs of inspiring Steemians. Aside from your original content and your talents, it is very important to have a positive attitude. Yes, attitude is important than your impressive work. 

Share from your heart....Encourage one another. You cannot please everybody. Some people will like you, some will not. Just be yourself.  

        "RUN YOUR OWN RACE,  BECAUSE YOU BELONG HERE" 

Enjoy reading and have a wonderful time.  #GOODVIBES

 Please continue to support @surpassinggoogle
If you haven't vote your witness yet, vote Terry now!
Write @steemgigs >>>https://steemit.com/~witnesses

 

Yours truly,
The village girl @sunnylife in the Steemian Forest


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This is very helpful article for everyone who is struggling on steemit, financially and emotionally.

I think you covered a lot of things that steemians should learn about how to be better on steemit not just the technical side of it.

Thank you for being one of the best Steemian friends I've ever met. I look forward to seeing you in person.

You are strong, let's be strong though my heart is pounding and pouring in tears right now and I cannot put my thoughts in writing, you know what I mean. It's really tough sometimes but hey tomorrow is a new day, right?

Thank you for always being here. Love you!

Switie. This comment is very valuable to me. No "tears" goes to waste and moreso now, we reward every and each tear

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how sweet and encouraging

Thank you so much @purepinay!! YEsss, tomorrow is another day:)
You are also there to help newbies non stop.
You're my first bff here and I was sad when u left for a while....
But you taught us to go on.@emonemolover @bonjovey
Then I met lots of amazing Steemians:) and you came back, stronger!
We already met in person hehe we felt connected from the beginning (sakit sa bangz)
We struggled, wala ligo haha steem and steem and keep going.

Hugs for you and for your love to this community.
Stay strong, know it's not easy but you are doing a wonderful job!
I know they can make it too!!

WE BELONG HERE!

Love you more and Keep shining!

xoxo

Great post sis! Yes I belong here and I keep going hehe :) ginagawa ko na nga lang Diary yung mga blog ko para pang forever na talaga :D gorabels!! Xoxo

yes we belong here!! diary ng babaeng gala pak na pak lols
enjoy ako sa mga blog mo Lence, goraaa lang.
KAkayanin natin yan!

Wow @purepinay reading you too had struggles and yet now you're toooo popular always inspires me to better my craft.

She had struggles too, it wasnt easy. I'm glad she came back so, Keep steeming!!

Nice story, so inspiring. This gives me hope though. Thanks

There is much hope for sure

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Beautiful post @sunnylife.

I absolutely love it and I love all the tips for the new people on steemit.
I love what you said, "Steemit is like a rollercoaster". I totally agree with you on this one and that is what makes so so interesting and fun and this is what makes us to challenge ourselves because "No pain, no Gain" I don't mean physical pain, but just doing things right and working hard is what pays off at the end.

thank you soo much my beautiful friend.
I hope some tips that I shared can help them a bit, because they are very talented people
PApa bear is doing great with his new comer section for newbie.
No pain, no gain. It's a challenge so true!!
Can i link your blog
My journey on chasing $$$$? it's very inspiring post.
https://steemit.com/money/@joalvarez/my-journey-on-chasing-the-usdusdusd-why-do-we-chase-the-usdusdusd

Thanks so much. xoxo

Of course, you can, sweet lady.

thank you my beautiful friend:)

All well said

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Thank you so much @surpassinggoogle for your beautiful heart and of course for those beautiful teardrops tokens.
I loved your post on the @teardrops. You are awesome and a great role model for this community @surpassinggoogle

That's really nice to read.. and inspiring sis.. ♡♡♡ im so thankful i didn't give up ! and still steeming :) 😙 Have a nice day sis... Tc always

Giving up is not the answer.
You are here and you will stay.
You belong here.
thanks ganda, waley na ko sp whaha dalaw ko sa blog mo baka a
abutin pa ng bukas huhu

steem on!

thats ok sis... I charge muna lol .. para may kapangyarihan ka ulit ahhahahahahha...

thanks lampas kalahati na hahah
kili kili powersss too haha

ang baho niyan sis lol.... 😂

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Patience is a must in survival. Very insightful article. :)

True

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thank you sis.
We will survive:)

This opis very true as u can easily give up on here if you do not hold on and keep steady. Also making friends and getting out of ones community (comfort zone). Thank u for this , lady!

Have a wonderful day, night, morning,, hahaha coz i dont know what time it is where u are. Bless!.

I saw you in the Cebu Meetup video or wasn't that you?

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Of course it was, am surprised u noticed. God Bless your heart.

Thank you too and stay beautiful

xoxo

Great tips, and very true indeed. Everyone is unique, and sooner or later whatever their talent and passion might be, it will be discovered and rewarded by others. The thing is to be persistent, to interact, and not to be invasive, and everything will fall to its place eventually. Thanks for sharing. We wish you all the best.

Yes and let go and be deep-rootedly you, unshaken by events. Then play and shine

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thanks so much and keep shining.

Power na power steeming on sis!😍😄
Pano maging ikaw sis @sunnylife!😍
Dami ko natutunan sayo sis @sunnylife😘
God bless you always sis😘😘😘

Keep on keeping on

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Salamat po @surpassinggoogle!😍
Pwede pa po ako sumali sa contest mo? Okey lang po ba tagalog?

kaya natin yan sis, im so happy you didnt give up!
kaya mo yan, ang hindi ko kaya mga luto mo haha
kakagutom sis!
ayayay!

Oo sis kayang kaya natin to gorabels lang nang gorabels! Masarap sa sa pakiramdam kahit sa ganung way ay makapagbahagi ako kasi yun lang talaga kaya nang power ko sis!😂😂😂
Maraming salamat sayo sis anjan kapa rin parati😍💟

babaeng itoy nakakamangha
ikaw lang ay magtiwala
lahat tayoy pinagpala
gora lang ng gora , tara! ratsada!
tagumapay iyong matatamasa

so inspiring sissum @sunnylife
❤️❤️❤️

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gora pushh lang ng push!
you belong here too!
Keep shining! xoxo

Tama sissy! 😀😀 Enjoy Steeming! 😀 Love much! 😀💖

Tama talaga. Much love

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Tama talaga kuya Terry 😀 💖 I am very grateful of every little I have. Actually, during my early months of stay I thought of quiting. But because of the awesome people like you and sunnylife who inspired me continue being an awesome Steemian as well. Charot! 😀 The #untalented curriculum helps me to be the Real Me. I may not have the talents to share as I know myself I don't have any. But with #untalented being Me as Steemian is a talent you reveal in the Inner Me. Your Big Love opens the Inner Me that I have this Big Love inside of me. I thanked you so much Kuya Terry for showing how powerful Love is. May @teardrops have so much space and is prepared for the overflowing tear drops right now as I releases the pains, sadness and embracing joy, love and happiness.
Love much! 😀💖

salamat sis, kahit nde nakadalaw sa blog mo huhu
cge push yan sis. Gorabels!!

No worries sissy. 😀 it's because of the growing group. Go go go lang.

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