We shape up our Life
Something that we have always been told that Suffering is a part of growing up in life, but I do not agree to it completely. This is a conditioning that has been done over ages, that we pay our karma through our sufferings. Not always necessary that we have to pay our karma only through sufferings, but for this to change in our life we need to alter our life patterns completely and that will only happen when we understand our life patterns. If there is a suffering in our life constantly in one area, we need to understand where this suffering is coming from and break that pattern. Most common are sufferings over relationship. When we keep having broken relationships in our life one after another then there is a deep-rooted problem within us only and not with anyone else around us. We may be carrying some destructive patterns that do not allow healthy relationships in our life. Always unhappy at job or always struggling with finances, understand where are those patterns coming from in the life and work on them and you will see how the reality also gets altered.
Blaming destiny for everything is not the right attitude. Saying things like I do not have luck in Love, money, job because I am not lucky in it or that my destiny wants me to go through this pain, and things like that which are self destructive patterns we create for our own selves and if we continue doing that we will never come out of the loop.
Life is what we make of it with our own thoughts first and then actions. Our thought play a very important role, action comes at a later stage but first it all starts with a thought, and if our thought patterns our negative we are going to keep manifesting the same in our life, that also does not mean that suddenly you start thinking positive and positive things will start happening. It is a lot of self-work to break these negative destructive patterns from our life and it's a transition in which we will keep going back and forth end number of times.
We do not always need to suffer to grow in life, we can grow gracefully by keeping our spiritual side active all the time, by being conscious of what our thought patterns are, by being conscious about our actions. This life what we have is very unique, in the entire Universe yet no other human life has been found or no other planet like Earth has been found, so it's all so unique and we need to enjoy this experience of life rather then making it miserable with our self defeating beliefs and patterns. Do not get caught up in misery, always think how can I be happy and happiness will flow in to your life.
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I so resonate with this post @nainaztengra <3 on more levels than I can even begin to explain!!!!
As someone who came from a pretty "old school" upbringing... I know well how this approach to life has been indoctrinated into us. "Life is hard" is pretty much the one liner that sums up everything the older generation was taught, and it is so wrong - well, at least in my opinion it is.
Our greatest failures as people are "doubt" and a mindset of "scarcity". Sure, life can be harsh sometimes - brutal even - but there is nothing in nature that carries doubt with it and there is nothing in nature that operates from a position of scarcity.
This is something which most people never even give a minute to think about... and they really should.
I am very "pro" turning that all on it's head and embracing a mindset of abundance - to look for the good in everything, everyone and to seek the lessons of growth from adversity of any kind.
Life is meant to be lived and loved, not loathed and feared... and yes, we very much make our own path! xxx
So true, over the past many generations we have been conditioned in this manner, that life is difficult and we have to fight for survival and to grow in life. This is all the mindset of fear and lower energies where we are stuck and it keeps getting passed on.
When I look around me, I feel life is so beautiful and every experience is an opportunity to grow and become a better version of ourselves.
Where there is a problem, there is always a solution, the universe is always supporting us, so why then fear and remain stuck in these lower densities.
BINGO!
And you know what the crazy thing is... is that most people don't even question it. They just continue to follow it blindly like sheep, because that is what they know... or what they were taught. It is RIDICULOUS
That is how things SHOULD be! <3
You are "doing life right" @nainaztengra :)
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