Trying to achieve your dreams?

Dream, is something that everyone will ask since we were young, people always ask us, and we have been asking ourselves too.

When you were young, you were asked, "What do you want to be when you grow up?"
Almost every child can blurt out, "I want to be a teacher when I grow up," "I want to be a scientist," "I want to be an astronaut" and so on.

The answer is not really important at the time; it is important that everyone knows why they want to be that person.

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And some people achieved the dream of childhood, but some people were not able to achieve.

There is four type of situations:

The first type is always working hard and achieved the dream of childhood.
The second type is with the passage of time and cognitive maturity, changes their dreams, and then work hard, and finally achieve their dreams.

The first two are summed up as able to achieve their dreams.
The next two are those who unable to achieve their dreams.

One just says without taking action, in fact, did not work hard for it, and ultimately did not achieve their dream.
The other is as time passed, receive more and more information over time, and lose their dream.

The thought when we were young doesn’t consider as a dream, merely just a goal.
But we all know precisely why we have this goal.

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Last Thursday afternoon, I met with a friend for coffee.
I asked her: "What is your dream?"
She paused, and said: "Yesterday a 50 something-year-old friend asked me the same question."

I smiled and joked: "There is an old soul living in my body!"

She hesitated for a while, then said: "When I was young, I want to be a teacher, but now, I really did not think of this problem, don’t know what dream I have. So what is your dream?"

She turned the topic back to me, and I did not directly answer her: "Childhood dream is only a goal, can be achieved through efforts."

A dream is a hope for the future, a situation that must be worked very hard to achieve, a situation that can be said to be an ideal or an aspiration; The other is that it is also illusory, out of the reality, can never be achieved. This is a dream.

But no matter which case is it, a dream is something that makes you persist and feel happy about it, even it can also act as a belief.

Why when people grow older, they become melancholy, don’t know why they become the current appearance? How can people get older and not understand what they are doing?

Why when people grew older, they are getting more clueless about what they live for?

I often hear people complained: "I am so confused!" "That pain, tangled in the brow, written in the eyes, the mouth, written on the whole facial expression."
When you say this, you don't even know if you're really confused.

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From a human perspective, what is your dream? How will you achieve your dream?
First, we need to understand the three views, that is, your worldview, view of life and values.

What is the difference between world view, view of life and values? What are all these three things? What is the connection?

From the words, it is simply a person's view of the world, of life, and value.
The worldview divides into two kinds, the materialism, and the idealism. One is to look at the world objectively; one is to see the world subjectively.

The objective world is made up of matter, and from the knowledge system, it is the process of physics, chemistry, biology, history, geography, and politics.

The subjective world, starting from the ontology, from its own heart, the world is composed of a subjective consciousness.

Next, is the view of life, which also means philosophy, the purpose and the view.
Several representatives of the view of life are those "hedonism view of life", "communist view of life" and so on.

Values are our judgments about a thing, guiding our behavior. This involves principle. A principle is the basis of words and deeds of the criteria.
It is the principle that instructs us to do things.

So before you achieve your dream, it is necessary to explore your three views, which determines whether your dream is achievable or an empty fantasy and illusion.

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