Ten things I need to remind myself

If you want to achieve a goal or dream, put it in the bottom of your heart, on paper, and then silently work on it.

Do not make noise before you've done it, and keep a secret about what you are going to do and how you will be in the future.

There is no need to announce because if you were unable to achieve it, you would be ridiculed by people around.

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It is difficult to succeed if you keep on making a fuss. These people are only satisfied with the praise they received when they show their lofty ideals to others, and they act like they already succeed, but they refuse to put efforts into it.
When they failed, and use "unlucky" and many other excuses.

It's always easier said than done, everyone knows what to say, but it's hard to make it works.

When things happen, the solution is far more important than complaining.

Control your own emotions, no matter how miscellaneous the thing is, start from the most urgent and important task first, then finish it piece by piece.
Do not stubbornly complain, and don’t keep complaining to others when you’re unhappy, and put your unhappy onto others.

Can’t control your emotions is one of the low EQ performance.
Angry complain affects both your body and the people around you.
Hawking said: "People won't have time for you if you are always angry or complaining."

Even people who are close to you cannot stand you if you are always complaining.
Especially when they were busy, suddenly receive negative news, make them simply want to curse at you.

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Ask yourself what you want to be in five years, and do one thing every day that benefits you after five years.

If you want to better in writing after five years, read more books and practice writing often.
If you want to have a healthy body after five years, run 1000 meters a day.

Each of us looks wonderful and full of future, after decomposition, it’s another dreary moment.
What you want to get, the first thing you need to do is put some efforts.

Don’t try to explain to those who do not understand you or those who disagree you.

If someone told you: “What's the point of studying? The garbage collector earns more than you!” Do not try to explain to them the importance of study, just laugh it off, and continue to study."

If anyone questions your blog and ask you to give up, don't try to tell them how you love blogging, just keep blogging about it.

Not everyone can enter your life, a person's mindset is difficult to change, the different point of views, nor a conversation or debate can be crossed. So why waste time explaining to them?
Even if you won the debate, so what?

For such people, as long as they do not take the initiative to attack you, you can hide away from them as far as possible. If you really don't like being questioned and commented on at random, then put in good effort.
When you can live your life the way you choose, you won't be torn between them.

The world is so big, don't give up to the people you hate.

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Let it go

Based on my understanding, this sentence has two layers of meaning, one is not addicted to the achievements of yesterday, just like the admission of a good university cannot guarantee your future life.

The impact of one thing is at most five years, and in those three to five years, you have to have other forms of achievement or growth.

The second meaning is no matter what stupid mistakes you've made in the past, don't waste too much time on regrets. If there is a real regret for the past, then move forward and work harder in a new phase.

Every day is the first day of the rest of our lives, instead of thinking about the past, we should cherish the present and strive to be a better person.

Do not judge others' life.

Because it is bad behavior to randomly evaluate a life or thing that you have not experienced. In fact, if we were not in the situation, everything we said would be lightweight and irresponsible.

Do not think that you can empathy; there is no empathy if you never experienced before.

Everyone's experience, taste, and knowledge structure are different, and the differences are normal.
You can disagree with other people's behavior, but you don't have the qualifications to dictate others in a condescending manner.
If you can’t do it, you might as well shut your mouth.

Don’t be arrogant on something you did better than others

There was a girl in high school, she read a lot of books, and like to talk about everything like she knows everything, critic others people for not being as good as her, and make people avoid her.

Of course, when I was young, I have done a lot of things that I thought I was right and criticize others.

Even if your ability is better than others, the aggressive attitude of "I'm better than you" will make people hate you.
By contrast, people prefer and admire the wisdom of being both powerful and humble.

Please live earnestly every day.

Earnestly eats, earnestly wears clothes, earnest study, earnestly writes the post, earnestly sleeps ...
Not only work hard, but also take good care of yourself.

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Try to be financially independent and learn to manage your finances.

I used to spend so recklessly that I didn't know where I spent.
A large part of the reason is that the money comes from my parent because you will never know how to cherish what’s not earned by you.

In addition, learn to record and save money, remember nine words before buying anything: I like it, I need it, it suits me.

Finally, and most importantly, don't think too much and do too little.

Act, act, act.
Because if you know but not act, it means you don’t know anything.

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