Jump out of your circle

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What is circle?

Each of us has our own circle, friends circle, family circle, study circle, work circle, life circle ... Every day we walk through all kinds of circles.

The most common circle is the online social circle. In here, we will know the lives, the interests, the work, concerns of our friends. Happy or sad, they will share with you, because you have a common topic or interest together, mutual influence, and mutual companionship.

You may also have a circle, which is the work circle, in this circle, contain the colleagues you are working together with. You all are doing the similar work or have some connections at work, because of work, you are together.

What the work circle brings you may be the improvement of your work skills, the gossip in work, and of course, some part of the work circle may overlap with your friend circle, and some of them are both friends and colleagues.

You may also have a variety of study circle, gaming circle, travel circle ...
In the study circle, we learn from each other; in the gaming circle, we play games, have fun; in the travel circle, we travel together, share travel stories.

In these circles, there are familiar people or things that make us feel comfortable and carefree. Gradually, we have a fear toward the outside world, accustomed to our own circle.

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Why you need to jump out of your circle?

In these circles, you can sift through a lot of information to get some kind of connection or help for yourself.
Like Facebook, Quora, and even Steemit, when you log in, you're going to pick your own area of interest, which is called personalized customization, and what appears on your screen during the subsequent is what you choose.

I have to say that this is good because personalized customization can filters out what you like. But on the other hand, it limits you and limits what you know and interested in. This leads to what you see, what you learn, and what you have always been in the circle.

The world is big, why do you only want to see the things in your circle? When you stay in the circle for a long time, you will inevitably get bored. Why not jump out of the circle to see the outside world? If you stay in your own circle for too long, is like a frog in the boiled water, gradually, you will die inside this circle.

Like Facebook, Facebook will recommend you what you are interested in, but sometimes, it will also share something out of your interest, help you notice other things other than your interests.

Jump out of the circle, and you will find that the world is very different. It gives you a different view, allows you to be more relaxed when facing changes and allows you to truly achieve your self-worth.

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How do you jump out of your circle?

First, learn independent thinking.
A person who thinks independently is often sober enough to know what he wants and what he doesn't want. Not to blindly accept everything in the circle, not afraid of the things outside the circle.

Independent personality and thinking can help you to realize your flaws, so that there are some breakthroughs in action and become a better self.

Second, try to do something new every day.

In this constantly changing world, there are new things that happen every moment, and doing something that you never tried before will help you keep a curiosity at all times. For example, if you have not touched classical music before, you might as well listen to it today; If you have not tried traveling alone before, then let's start now and go on a trip alone.
After one month, you will find that you have changed far beyond your imagination.

Third, find someone who can lead you out of your circle.
There is someone come with the light, his/her body is full of energy, constantly attract your eyes, so you will also change for him/her, he/she is your spiritual power, his/her changes will also lead you to change.

Jumping out of the circle doesn't mean leaving your existing circle, but looking at the world outside of your circle helps you look things from a different objective perspective.

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