It is not age that determines the mind; it is experience
I feel like the posts that I wrote doesn’t match my age. I’m just twenty-three years old, but the posts that I wrote feel so old.
I often feel that I had seen through life. This is not a bad thing for me. Just that for some people who are the same age as me, they need to live through some stages to see through life.
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These perceptions won’t just come when you reach the age. The key or the experience of growing up on the road determines the order of maturity of the mind. These experiences will come uninvited. They are the quality of being; they are there for you.
Each soul carries its own body, which is independent and dynamic. The living space of the independent individual is affected by the large environment. The environment encompasses the rich and poor of the family, the parents ' own qualities and the education for their children, as well as the living environment around the individual.
These are the factors that determine the speed of growth in life, and this speed is not much related to the age.
"Children from poor family mature early." The "poor" not only refers to the amount of money, with philosophical thinking, but is also to say a dilemma. "Mature" naturally not only refers to the daily necessities of life but also the spirit of breaking the limits of the old routine.
It is undeniable that these precocious children's growth mood came harder than those who grew up without worry and happy family children. Because of this, these children are more aware of their life than their peers and even older people.
When God closes a door, he will open a window for you. Straight from the door, is the shortcut, is stable, is safe. Jump from the window, is bumpy, is a long way, but also full of beautiful view.
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A person, after gain a lifetime of experience, the life will become smoother, or becoming the life you want.
Some people, their whole life is a uniform forward, this process will always be slightly perfunctory. Some people, on the contrary, will have a bumpy road at first, but the rest of the lifetime is already see through life.
Everyone lifetime experience will not be the same, and the number will be different. But it is roughly the same to reach the mindset. You have to go through that to understand it.
These things include emotion cognition, life cognition, self-cognition, and philosophy cognition. All aspects of everything, whether it is lies, betrayal, broken faith, cowardice, jealousy, injury, or comparisons, flattery, loneliness, loneliness, depression, suicide ... These sharp negative cognition will come early.
This shows that what determines the mind is not the age, but the experience of life. The more the experience, the mind will naturally become more mature and sophisticated, it is easy to find the essence of things to people naturally.
Your post very good. Thanks to share.
"I often feel that I had seen through life." - this was exactly my feeling at my 23 :))) Now I think, that probably it's not only about the experience itself, but rather about the conclusions you make based on your experience and wisdom you get from it.