STEEM & FRIENDSHIPS: The "Hidden" Factor For Success On This Social Media

in #motivation6 years ago

Hello STeemians,
Look at this Picture from SteemFest 1. Can you spot people that have become longterm friends here? Can you spot whales?
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Real friendships are not affected by steem prices or market value or post payout. They are built by making "emotional connections".

I was ruminating on this quote and the potential meanings it holds. As the steem prices dropped recently, the activity of steemians has dropped as well.

Many people have abandoned their blogs. Many have left their favourite bloggers without commenting for a while now. What about friendships? Should it drop too?


I have come to understand that alot of people associate friendship with Steem power. Or friendship with upvote value. Or friendship with whats-init-for-me? kind of mentality.

So you will notice some people only being your "friends" when they think you have something to offer and then backing out as soon as they get a "better deal". Life & steemit doesn't work that way.

Allow your friendships to grow. This platform is for the long haul. People are going to be millionaires & billionaires here. Every friend you make now on this platform is a great potential for the nearest future. Don't joke with that.


I'm happy with the good people I have met so far. They are just so many with very good potentials. I don't ignore them or back-down. I try to keep everyone on the path of success because tomorrow we will all be whales.

It will be a thing of joy when we all succeed together. The biggest mistake some people make is thinking that the Steem blockchain is a contest. Nope! Its not. We are all running a race. Not against each other but against our own selves.

We are all running in the same direction. SO I can as well help you reach your target and you help me reach mine. Success is enough for all.


Don't forget...

WE WILL ALL BE WHALES SOMEDAY!

This is exactly why you may see some top steemians voting each other and you may say they are circle-jerking. Nope! If you check their history you will see how far they have all come. They actually started from the very bottom together. Dont hate on them.

Find & form your own formidable relationships that can stand the test of time for the long-term. Don't follow people or comment on people's blogs or pm people because of what you think you can get. Make long-term real friends for a lifetime.

Remember;

WE WILL ALL BE WHALES SOMEDAY!

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Hello @nairadaddy,

We gave a token
Keep writing good post.

Yes, true friendship matters a lot.
And a plus, if it's for a long-term.
And this is what I was planning to talk about tonight on clinic fm to assist @annieben

I love all my leaders and friends from @Air-clinic, @stach, @steemit-uyo and @abuja-steem, you guys rock! And to my invisible friends @futurethinker and @greenrun. We're doing long-term. Shout out to @surpassinggoogle and @azizbd.

And you @nairadaddy, we are in together , I'm following you back to back😀

Lolx. You are following me back to back?
Hope you are not one of my village people
Kikikikkikiiki!
Keep steeming dear!

I am the leader o😀

Hey @jeline , I will love to join if I can. it seems midnight when it happen and sometime I can't manage time for it. Miss you guys. Will check and please don't hesitate to DM if I am there on discord.

@azizbd, clinic fm misses you, but I miss you more. Check your DM, I did that months ago. I'm happy to hear from you.

@nairadaddy thanks for this motivation...

The biggest challenge most minnows have is that they want to become whales in a shorter time forgetting the most important ingredient... Making solid friendships first...
This to me is like bondage. Lolz..

But thank God I got my freedom from this mindset.
Right now I'm just so grateful for the amazing friends I have on steemit. No day goes by that they don't make me smile and even forget about my worries..
Sooner or later, I know we would all get to that peak we all want to reach. In that light I want to give a shout out to @abuja-steem @jeline @oredebby @olawalium @seunnla @tyrex to mention a very few... You guys are amazing and I appreciate your friendship..

Your friendship means so much to me , and i am glad that i met you. Keep being awesome @kingernie

Aaaaawwww.... Thank you so much too...

Anytime cutie.

My steemit baby, I appreciate you dear.
XOXO 😘

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Awwwwnnn kizzez sugar baby @kingernie

Back at ya darling 😉😉

Hey @kingernie,

Lolx @ living in bondage. Btw; thats the name of an old movie.
Friendships, connections, relationships is the way to grow here.
Keep steeming!

😂😂. Now that you say it, I kinda feel like I know that movie.....

Thank you so much @nairadaddy for being the awesome you.. And I'm definitely going to write about the power of friendship to one's success on steemit

Hmmn
This is a good for thought
Standing the test of time is the utmost because tough time never last but tough people do
Well said!

Totally amazing
This is certainly the truth.
My best post of the week.

Hey @stephenpaul,
Thanks.
Endeavour to make friends here and keep steeming!

This is so true. A lot of people haven't discovered that steemit is also social media. The only difference is that it rewards you for posting among other things.

Interacting as well as building relationships are important for growth and success within and outside this platform.

I'll site an example, I happened to develop a rapport with someone on this platform, at the moment, she has nothing to offer me in terms of Upvoted because she is just a couple of weeks in. The interesting thing about our relationship is that she was able to offer solutions to issues I had been struggling with.

It's important that we value relationships.

Thanks so much @nairadaddy

Exactly @korexe,
We are on a social media afterall.
There's a popular saying that should explain what we must do here:

Come for the money, stay for the community

*Keep steeming!

I love this post... Never forget those people who add more contribution, value and growth in your life and also on this network... Enjoy and remember every moment you share together

Hey @felixdrex,
Yes! Value is the word. Once a person adds value to you keep him/her.
Keep steeming!

Find & form your own formidable relationships that can stand the test of time for the long-term.

That is it o making lasting relationships and when we all grow @ my fellow minnows oh yes we will circle jerk lolz cause we paid the price of patience and content.

Thank you for this write up

Hey @adorablechi,
Lolx. Circle-jerking can be so sweet actually especially when you all worked hard for it.
Keep steeming!

You totally nailed this sir. This is not in anyway a contest. Every man will run his race, and we will all become whales one day, with consistency. Time might differ, but we will get there. Thank you for this amazing post. Making friendship has been key for me. I have lost count on the number of people i have come in contact with, and it has nothing to do with their wallet or steem power. I am a whale on the inside, and it will soon manifest on the outside.

Yap, true building friendship, the secret of success here on steemit.

Hey @yaanivapeji,

You cannot exceed the circle within which you operate.

Know your friends and success here is guaranteed.

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