How To Initiate Some Changes In Life

"You only live once -- No. You live everyday. You only die once." - JD Krishnamurti, philosopher, speaker, writer

You only have ONE LIFE; every moment, bit by bit should not be wasted. The most priceless treasure we have in this world is TIME, and yet there is no definite value to be placed on it. Life should be lived with the ultimate enjoyment with the infinite ways that allow us to wake up every morning with a smile. Just a smile, nothing more, nothing less. That’s just enough. Be grateful and thankful for every morning’s smile that you’re able to put on when you wake up and if you don’t, you need to start
initiate some changes or else your life will stay the same forever. Humans need to embrace changes, either for a greater good or lesser bad. So, feel free to read some steps below as you will finally see your life begin to change.

(i) You Live Your Own Dreams

The only dream you should be chasing is yours, not others. It is important for you to really ensure that you are driven by your own passion rather any non-definitive notions of what the simple and ideal life is. When you know you dreams are your main catalyst, this life will seems much more meaningful for you to know that you’re really living your life for something. Sometimes, it is kind of difficult to stray off the beaten path, but once you get your tempo, you will find that your dreams might not necessarily be in any line with what society anticipates and expected of you.

(ii) Be Wise And Plan Your Strategies

Tactical qualities are important. It is very important that you must not let yourself being outnumbered by your own work. You have to find the balance between completing the task at hand efficiently and completing your work at an applicable rate according to your own pace. Everybody likes to be lazy sometimes, and if you never give yourself a break, it might be inevitable that you will lose your passion to fatigue. Remember that, the main idea here is not to be bum and lazy but it is about working smart, getting enough to get yout job done well while at the same time reserving energy to engage in other pursuits simultaneously. You work hard. But you must also work smart. That is an A-bomb.

(iii) Be Kind Towards Others

Good deeds will be paid back by another good deeds. Being caring towards others will ensure a powerful and delicate mutually beneficial relationships in the present and mostly future. Like the old saying, if you scratch their back, they will scratch yours. And trust me, sometimes all you need is someone behind your back to keep your mind steady and strong in a time of need.

(iv) Expand Your Social Network

Some individuals don’t seem to understand that they cannot succeed singularly based on their intelligence and skills. There are so many intelligent, skilled and smart people out there. The competition gets tougher day by day. So what is your strongest card here? And what will get you the job by taking path of least resistance? Having a friend in the Human Resources department. Building relationship and connection with the CEO. Do not underestimate the power that any individual might have to offer in the future. Never burn bridges that can always ensure you big opportunities and try to be that person who are open to meet new people. We all have our own egos but this is not a jungle-thing. It’s a human chemistry. You must have a strong base to reach the highest peak. And that base is your connection and networking with people.

(v) Be A Risk-Taker

Have you ever found yourself surrounded and being terrorized by your fear? And in all those situations, when it turns out well in the end , does your fear seems like just a little mind disturbance and emotional turbulance that will not shake you again in the future? Do not let your mind hypothesizes the idea that taking any significant risk will be harmful and welcoming any danger to your future. In any positives or negatives situation, if it will not ruin your whole plan, crucial things that you are planning and working at the moment, it might be worth taking those risks. The worst thing you can do is fall and fail. And even afterwards, you know you will always have another opportunity to get back on your feet, stand up and try again.

(vi) F*ck fear, embrace failure

For you to succeed, you must embrace failure. Now this does not mean that you should settle for a string of failures. But it is important to note that failure is inevitable in some situations. What really defines the strength of your character is how you responds to failure. How you empower yourself to maintain your will toward what you want to achieve? Will you give up when you fall? Or will you get up and try again? Someday, you will look back and realized that all those failures are only the some misstep to a huge success you’re about to have.

"Ever try, ever failed. No matter. Try again, fail again. Fail better." - Samuel Beckett, Irish Novelist

(vii) Be Thoughtful

To be successful, you must first know what things that will make you successful, how you want to succeed, what measurable achievements must be taken into an account to make sure that you will get and reach your succeeding point; you must have a crystal-clear and thorough understanding of how you operate. Are you always hesitating or a doubtful person? Or are you a risk taker? Be aware and understand the way your mind operates and contemplate ways to combat the negative traits associated with your personality type.

No one is perfect, we all have flaws. But who says we are not capable at all of working on them.