Why did I stop following TRENDS on Steemit and rather focus on TOPICS I am interested in, looking for REAL PEOPLE
I love music, art, photography, architecture, cultures and REAL PEOPLE!
I make sure I always surround myself with good, down to earth, fun, real people, who always keep me grounded. Sean Kingston
I can't get along with narcissists, men who think they are better than others. Bright red colour enters my brain and boils up when I meet " Show-Off's ". I had to learn how to calm down and shut up, knowing it is not my duty to confront them. Let them find out alone where life will take them with a repulsive attitude.
“Sometimes glass glitters more than diamonds because it has more to prove.” ― Terry Pratchett, The Truth
I became a member approx. 2 weeks ago when Tara skyrocked with her girlpower make up post. Those past days I became an addicted slave for my devices, resulting in sleepless nights reading, learning and eating it all up, so much overwhelming information in such short time.
I commented , up-voted , posted like a manic, tried to pay forward, signed up on various chats like slack chat -steemcolab, rocket chat and got to know many new interesting characters but today I had to make a decision questioned myself why did I come to this platform leaving my familiar faces on facebook.
For the first time, I had enough,I admit that I felt discouraged after following the newest controversial discussion about a new member, a so called celebrity in a positive and mostly kind community. Yes, I felt disgusted in what manner advice was given to become a steemit-millionaire, a man who is "throwing" his dollar bills in your face like nothing else would make you wanna stay on steemit but money. Good marketing ? Ok, I understand but please don't stuff it in my mouth.
Yes, we are all here to earn little cash , invest in a very promising future for creatives, more and less talented but I do not wish to deal with soul-less robots. Weird enough that a stranger to me threw me off my positive balance for a minute. I made 200 in 2 weeks, more than I ever made in years on Facebook. I am damn happy with my few little cents & & $$$$ I earned with my stories. Money is not my personal motive to choose such promising new platform but I feel I am one of the pioneers of a decentralised future.
GET THIS BOOK/DIGITAL TEXT - If our mental picture of the world is like the pointy-haired manager in the Dilbert cartoons, we’ll tend to favour institutions where knowledge comes from the knowledge frontier,and is then moved to the central office where the managers sit and cogitate.The managers then push stupid orders back to the frontier.And that pretty much describes the way collectivists want to organise the world.They don’t want there to be peer-to-peer consent because they think they can save a bunch of time and cost if everything can be centralised.
I am born in the late 50's and I am newbie in this field of crypto but open to learn about new ways for a better world my daughter could live in . I am a beginner in the blogging world, even though I have over 15 000 followers on various platforms through my music promoter activities in the past in Indonesia and SE-Asia. I found a new hobby and its wonderful to learn how to express myself with words and pictures . Sharing a part of my exciting life with everybody who is interested.
Don't misunderstand, I do respect everybody's success and their advice for the ones who value it. The picture of my idea being successful looks very different. Steemit inspired me to write and also read more again, even though I might fit into a sarcastic - "DO NOT Write about how to paint a fence " category . So what !
I don't know any whales other in the ocean as I wrote in this post
I prefer not to waste my time to figure out who they are or why they do not up-vote for me. I respect those masterminds behind scene. I would never dare to tell anybody what is right or wrong. That's rude ! I rather continue my adventure here in my own ways . I am on a mission to become a writer. I have the opportunity to practise.That's my goal.
“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing. The worst thing you can do is nothing."
There is an "artist within us all "( This book helped me a lot )
The Artist’s Way is the seminal book on the subject of creativity. An international bestseller, millions of readers have found it to be an invaluable guide to living the artist’s life. Still as vital today—or perhaps even more so—than it was when it was first published one decade ago, it is a powerfully provocative and inspiring work. In a new introduction to the book, Julia Cameron reflects upon the impact of The Artist’s Way and describes the work she has done during the last decade and the new insights into the creative process that she has gained. Updated and expanded, this anniversary edition reframes The Artist’s Way for a new century.
I admire the quality of humble men and women who show their "human" side, their skills without bragging how great they are. Their stories say IT all ! I hope that nobody in this community feels discouraged, nor will loose their passion and motivation to contribute for all authentic Steemers and for ME .
YOURS
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Love the post! For a long time, I felt that game was a virtue, because everyone wanted to get famous while growing up. It wasn't until the past year when I really started to understand the value of being humble. Now I don't bother with superficial marketing for the sake of marketing. I only active spread what I believe to be important messages.
Very nice to hear ! These are the kind of people I am interested to know because I had a lot of ups and downs due to wrong choices with superficial business and life partners , a few years of experience as well . I know finally what I do NOT NEED in my life . Sheeps who follow some illusions are out of my sight . Feels good ! Stay humble ! It's much more healthy and also attractive !
I think at times, we have expectations of steemit as a great platform to spread our well-intended messages. Sometimes, when our messages don't spread like for example what i have here https://steemit.com/nature/@coinbitgold/nature-has-no-voice-and-how-steemians-can-speak-for-them
I become very disappointed. Deeply.
But this post of yours motivated me and i would like to say thank you :-)
Aargh! Disheartening to see you like this.... I can totally relate to that feeling.. And I'm sure things are going to get better.
I'm glad @mammasitta post motivated you..
She better continues writing such awesome valuable posts !!
There's definitely an underlying political debate on Steemit. Steemit behaves with a "Free Market" ideology. It's not a good platform if you take away money, there's a handful much better than this (Reddit, Medium).
If only money and whale votes matter here, it's a matter of time it collapses or becomes something I don't want to be associated with. Great content is here and it's not being appreciated. Controversial and nonsense will always have an edge, just read any news site nowadays, it's all about clickbait headlines and stupid top 10s.
That is the major problem the current Steemit system has in my opinion. The second one is that it's the most refined self-censored social media. It's hard to truly voice out opinions because a whale downvote will end your reputation. At the same time, people continue to upvote posts that know are mediocre but whales upvoted. They earn their curation rewards and that's it, they are happy with that even if mediocre content ends up in the trending page.
Some of my views here:
Unfortunately, the fact still lies that everyone here is for the money. Let's not deny this. Great content is subjective because it is also a social network. There is no definition of unique and great content here. The fact that it is a social network network means that who have more friends, who wins. This also means who have more friends at the top. But this also means selectively choosing the "right whales" to work with, the whales whom you feel share the common ideals about steemit. I am working with a few whom i think are actually awesome whales. I don't want to say who because i don't want things to become political. I work on #academiaspotlight with them. Figure out yourself. I don't blame them for not voting on my posts because first, i don't promote my posts to them, other than #academiaspotlight. Second, maybe they see it and don't think is a good post, i don't know. I think I am also not the type of great marketer and promoter by shoving my post everywhere.
Believe it or not, when i joined early June when there were no daily payouts, steemians are still not totally sure if it was for real, i think back then the mentality of steemians was more like doing it for fun. And indeed, it was fun. But soon, i noticed all posts were about steemit. I got really tired and went on a first hiatus. Because of that hiatus, i missed the chance to become the fat dolphin but i did not ever regret it. I could actually if i just want to blog on steemit in every post. But by choice, i did not. After 4th July payouts, i noticed the market got really crowded.
The flagging should really be clear. Right now, it does not seems clear and yes, it seems unfair to some people. But trust me, there are whales flagging but i have also seen kind whales who helped to unflag. I have even seen kind whales taking the time to translate chinese posts, actually reading it and upvoted but they totally did not have to.
Just some of my take. There are kind whales and dolphins here. But you have to make the effort on your part to figure it out . Cheerios.
You got some valid points here . I getting tired as well looking at various discussions I find absolutely boring , same for some so called popular people but I made a choice for myself and continue supporting interesting people I appreciate . I enjoy my ride meeting great ones like all of you who took time to even look at my posts so far. I refuse to get into anymore discussions , nor will I write about whales , dolphins or steemit .There are so many here who have something very valuable to share . I find them
This was a bit sarcastic :) https://steemit.com/video/@mammasitta/dare-to-jump-whales-and-dolphins-belong-to-the-ocean-in-lombok-indonesia
This is such beautiful comment and now you encourage me as well . It's more worth for me to know that my words effect somebody like you . You see ? That's what I am here for ! I will read your article now . 🍷👯🙌
Xie xie ! Thank you too !!!!
Dank sehr auch lol
Well-written.
I had some interesting responses to those posts today, too... first read the critique - and then the original post. Could understand both sides. Though not so happy that the critque got a couple grand rewards for dissing someone, and not all accurate. Though do see points in there about the DV's approach that may be a bit out of integrity - but even saw reflections of myself in there and how I'd been writing similarly, trying to teach people how to rake in cash - rather than just being fucking real.
A very interesting journey this cyberspace provides.
There are surely some trending articles worth reading - though understandable how you feel fore sure...
No no no you better don't dare to compare yourself to this typ of man . He smells fishy and you might be surprised to hear other stories about him . I don't know the truth , so I rather be quiet and keep on floating but I usually have good instincts about people . I really like this world of justice and injustice at the same time . It's a mad cyber space is the place indeed . I'm hooked 🙈🍷
Another inspiring post of your. Bragging about your 15 000 post is not nice at all. I saw his interview with the founders and you could tell that he wasn't informed at all. Come on..you can at least know the difference between steem dollars and steem power. I don't fully understand all aspects of cryptocurrency but I learned that one from the start. Anyways I loved watching Dilbert; the cartoons were funny. I agree with you! Don't mind the trending page and mind your own posts! :)
#justsaying :) You got my upvote for your comment because I appreciate your opinion and loyal support
Where can I see this interview ?
You can see it on his second post dollarvigilante .:)
Ok , I saw a few fun scam videos from you tube @moonjelly posted .
I see where you are coming from and its a great article, i think its important to follow things that you are passionate about and that you like! :) You have done really well with your following and I believe that you shouldn't give up. Whales are people with more power and when they up vote you get more moneys. Just be consistent with your posts and it will happen!
This is very kind of you to take so much time to read and comment with encouragement . I never give up and as you said I am passionate about so many things that I wish I would know how to write it down fast enough 🍷 I wish I could come to the London meeting but Europe is on my list end of September again . Nice to meet you amy and I am so happy to see you are doing well #girlpower :)
I really need to get that book, The Artist's Way. It keeps popping up into my life and reminding me it's a necessary tool for my enterprises and art.
It's one of those books you must read at least once :) Thanks so much for stopping here in my page
Hi mammasitta close your eyes and imagine, that's me giving you a big hug CUPCAKE. X
Oh that's so sweet ! I just imagined and enjoyed all . Good moooorning coffee :) The cake hugs and also your support
To upvote ! 🐣
good post, mammasitta!
Oh oh I think I do remember you 👯 You are one of my 209 people I follow Hahaa thanks for stopping by
Beautiful post @mammasitta. Excellent insights that resonates with many of us. Well said!
Oh, and thanks for the book suggestion. I will check it out! :)
you are one of my loyal 36 steemers now :) means a lot to me that you always take time to comment . Enjoy the book .Helped me a lot
I truly feel honoured to be held amongst the ranks of such fine people! Thank you!
I'm happy that I've been able to help in some way.
Rock on @mammasitta!!