We need to be brave, not perfect.
Have you ever give up a chance to get better because you don't feel you are good enough?
Have you ever give up the position that you could have because you feel that you are not strong enough?
Have you ever give up the speech that can make you shine because you feel too small?
Are you afraid to love someone who is unreachable because you are not perfect?
I had many experiences like these, because of my imperfect, lack of self-confidence, I gave up a lot of opportunities. Not dare to talk on the stage, not dare to chat with strangers, not dare to confess to the girl I liked. Just because I think I'm not perfect.
We have been taught to be a very powerful person, then you will have more opportunities, but we have misunderstood a truth.
Yes, we want to be a strong person, but before this, if we do not know how to seize the opportunity, how to achieve our own leap?
We always thought that we need to be good enough to be able to contact a new thing, but we do not know that the first step is to accept new things and grow in the process so that you can complete your own metamorphosis!
You think you are unimportant, imperfect, so cringe in your little world, and you become timider.
But we don't have to be perfect, because everyone needs to grow up in a new environment.
The first step we have to do is to have the courage to tell ourselves: I am very important, I am very confident!
Our position may be humble, our identity may be small, but this does not mean that we are not important, imperfect.
Importance is not synonymous with greatness, it is the promise of life to the soul!
Sometimes some bad mood is not our enemy, is our friend, we should thank them for making us better, help us experience the infinite wonder of life.
So when we have these bad emotions, we must first have the courage to accept ourselves and then have the courage to take the first step and try something new!
We need not be perfect, but brave!
Most of us do not feel confident, the reason is that we think we did it wrong, not perfect, so we choose not to take the first step, always think that either perfect it or accomplish nothing.
We have been solidified by adults to be cautious to become a perfect person.
Even when we start to be ambitious, trying to do something, taking the first step, others will ask you to do it perfectly, making us not dare to start because of the risk of failure or imperfect.
We can’t change other people's thoughts, but we can begin by changing our own thoughts.
There are so many wonders in life, so many surprises, if you don’t try, how will you know that you won’t become someone that people envy?
We do not need to be perfect, remove the label others put on you and accept your imperfections, begin to become a shining person!
Don't worry about how others see you, just do it!
Maybe you will bring a miracle, maybe you will bring growth, but these are all good thing!
Isn't it?
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