You are a failure if you can’t walk out of your comfort zone

walkinharmony (66)in #life • 6 years ago (edited)

What is a comfort zone?

In the simplest terms, it is the range that makes you feel comfortable.

This range can be space-like: Staying at home is more secure than being in public.

Of course, this range can also refer to the inner range, such as: sitting under the stage is more comfortable than speaking on the stage.

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Many people do not live the life they want, didn’t become the person they want to be, not because they are incapable, but because they are not brave enough, not confident enough.

You obviously have the ability but dare not to challenge; You obviously very insightful but dare not to communicate with people also self-proclaimed silence is gold;

Obviously, you are going to break through the ego but give up at the last seconds.

Feel lucky because always able to escape from difficulties, habitually, escape become legitimate, always live in your comfort zone ...

These are the real reasons why you can't live your self.

I always felt that it is very mean to use the word "failure" to evaluate a person.

However, in this post, I want to be a mean person.

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Why do I say that people who can't walk out of comfort zone are a failure?

The reason is very simple, the so-called walk out of the comfort zone, means you just have to take a step forward, is it really that difficult?

Your heart has been calling you: "Step out, be brave, step out!"

But your brain tells you: "No, I am afraid, I’m not brave enough."

So, in a tangle, you miss the opportunity to exercise and grow again.

Clearly, as long as you have the courage, you can change your current status, but you comfort yourself: "It doesn't matter, there is always a next time."

But next time after next time, how many next time do you need?

If you can't persuade yourself to change and break through, then no matter how many times you've been brave in your heart, you're just a coward loser.

In fact, you know all the truth, but you are still not brave enough.

You want to change, you imagine in your mind countless times you have changed.

However, when the opportunity in front of you, you are afraid and hesitate.

You feel overwhelmed, you even feel disappointed in yourself. Slowly, the thought of you wanted to change is gone, only left with deep inferiority and infinite panic.

You panic, you fear that you will never change, so you want to change, but when the opportunity arises, you fear, hesitation, escape again.

You see, you've been wandering around in your comfort zone, but you've never been out.

You want to step out, but your heart tells you: "No, I don't have the courage."

You see, your life is such a failure.

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No matter how big your comfort zone is, you should understand that expanding your comfort zone is the only way to grow.

It is better to just enlarge a centimeter than to stand still.

Many times, as long as you have a little more courage, you will have enough strength to push out of your comfort zone.

I think no matter who you are, you should maintain a positive attitude towards life.

Life is so long, you don't always have to confine yourself to a small circle.

Don't hesitate, don't be afraid, be brave to break through yourself, try to improve your enthusiasm, exercise your guts.

You will find that it is not so difficult to get out of the comfort zone, but it is difficult to overcome the inner demons.

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