The way you treat time will make you who you are

in #life6 years ago (edited)

Nowadays, the internet technology is more and more developed, especially the rise of some internet companies, a lot of information can be mastered in the first hand.

And more and more people are inseparable from mobile phones.

According to the survey, today's society because of the popularity of smartphones, more and more people spend time on the internet, and they spend an average of more than 6 hours on the Internet per day.

This data is just a conservative statistic.

From this, we know that more and more people have been fully controlled by the mobile phone.

To be exact, they are controlled by some apps on the phone.


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There is a large part of the people, during their free time at work, they will go to Youtube, Netflix to watch their favorite latest TV dramas.

There are also people who after work, turn on the computer, surf Amazon, to check out the recent items on sales, they need to add some of the daily necessities, so compared the items' price, but after a blink of eyes, the time is gone.

There are also people who surf the social media every day, to follow what their favorite star is doing now, and even some people have been silently following the stars, always feel that this star is their own world, and he (she) will eventually belong to themselves.

I am not saying that these are a bad way of entertainment, just feel that these types of entertainments, two to three times per month is more than enough, don’t have to do these every day.

If you are what I mentioned above, then from now on, you have to learn to manage yourself and manage your time.

Because of how you treat time, time will shape you.


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Some people will ask, time is there and keep on passing, how do we manage it?

It is true, whether you like it or not, the time will go on, and all you have to do is make good use of it, in the dictionary of time, to be friends with time.

So how do we make friends with time?

“It's far more important to do the right thing than to do things right.”

In fact, at this point, when we do anything, we must ensure that the correctness.

Only in this way, you will not go the wrong way.

You have to know which things are "the right thing".

As I said above, "surfing Youtube", "watch all kinds of TV series", "following the Stars" and so on, I dare not say these things are "the incorrect things", but one thing at the very least is:

These things do not have much help on your own growth.

They can give you a moment's pleasure, but in the end, it will only make you more and more deeply, and you won't get anything.

Like an "addiction", every night during your free time, clearly know if you do this thing, will only waste your time. You may also have a momentary feeling but there is no help for your own inner growth.

But we just can't control ourselves.

It is like a cigarette addiction, we know that smoking is harmful to health, but we still smoke and become more and more serious.


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How we should do "the right thing" to make our time worthwhile

First of all, we have to understand the nature of this thing, clearly know that it is wrong, do not have to chicanery, and also adhere to our "pleasure", feel that others are unreasonable.

The first thing that can be changed is that we need to be able to recognize the matter.

I have a friend, he clearly knows that every night around 10 o'clock, he will watch some news, although a lot of news is repetitive reading, but the title is compelling, there is no actual content, just that at the end of the article, related to the title of the article.

Although he knew that this does not help him in his promotion, and will only wasting more and more time.

But in the end, he is still motionless, and same as before, at most, just in the self-friction.


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"The right thing" is to build on self-improvement, pleasant feelings, relax ourselves and other aspects conducive to self-health development, learning ability to improve things.

In my case, I think these are some "right things":

Reading, writing, running, make friends, summarizing and planning, individual monthly goals, annual goals, etc.

Once we know the "right thing", it is up to us to do it.

In fact, in this whole process, the hardest part is to execute.

Because a lot of people are drawn by the habits of the past, do not know how to break the habit.

Here, I would like to tell you a method to cure "procrastination", that is the "5-Second Law", which is a method created by a famous American writer:

When you want to start doing something, start countdown 5 seconds: 5,4,3,2,1.

And then you're going to finish this thing.

Another method is to create a memo.

In your work and living place, especially in the eye-catching position, write down the task on a paper so that you will not forget, this will also help do thing better.

Finally, it's a replay.

Replay, as the name implies is to do a summary.

Many successful entrepreneurs will look back at the big things they've done all day, to see if the details are not done, where there are improvements, and work plans for the next day.

Make friends with time, let the time leads us, to a more excellent self.

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