This might help you when you are confused

walkinharmony (66)in #life • 6 years ago (edited)

The more I struggle, I feel that the meaning of struggling is not only to achieve goals but also for my dignity.

Those people who you look down at, gradually become better than you, you are all starting from the same starting line, but while running, they have gone further than you.

The relatives that you think have no culture, speak vulgar words in every sentence, but what they earn from their business, are more than you saved in a year, and you don’t understand why.

There are more people, driving luxury car, live in a house bigger than yours; you think they have no special ability, but they are still wealthy than you, their life is better than yours, they have a better qualification than you.

You might say that they are just lucky because they have rich parents.

Maybe it's true, but you don't have any of these, so what do you do? Just give up?

You want to start your own business, open a cafe. Why didn’t you? You say because of money.

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My company colleague, Jackson, can start his business because his parents gave him $500,000 as a capital, and I don’t have this money, so I had to give up this idea. Only can go to work and sigh when walk by Jackson’s cafe, if I have $500,000, I can start too.

However, you only think of that $500,000 and didn’t do other things.

You didn't research on the area cafe market demand, no planning cafe business model, no brand design, didn't think of cost control, all the assumptions are blank, only think of “I am short of $500,000.”

If you are serious about opening a cafe, as long as your plan is perfect, that $500,000 will not make many differences.

Capital will also look for opportunities. If you don’t have the money, others will send you money, shares into the profit bonus. (provided your plan worked out perfectly)

But you didn't do anything, just stare at that missing thing.

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If you are not satisfied with your job now, then change it. If you have the idea, be bold to do it, don’t be intimidated by difficulties before you start. Try your best to do it, do more than others, more deeply and diligently, the difficulties you encountered will naturally be solved.

Because in the process of continuous improvement, you have become a different self, you become better than before, more capable. The problem you encounter is from the past, with your current ability, you can easily solve it.

I always remember a monk said: When you feel that something is particularly tricky, pressuring you, making you anxious and hard to breathe, the best way is to do this directly, don’t care about other things, make progress step by step. Everything you do, your anxiety will be less, when your anxiety becomes less, your speed will increase, as long as you continue to push forward, there is always a solution to the day.

Be a man of action and move towards your goals.

If you haven't found your goal yet, take the time to calm down and think about why you're not happy and find where the problem is. Is it the job have no future or the rent is too expensive, or emotional disharmony.

After you understand, then find a solution. Don’t ask me what to do, because I don’t know what ‘s your problem, only you can save yourself.

I don’t envy those who live happily because their parents are rich. I cherish my young life and precious time.

Every second in life is precious, there is no reverse time, especially when young, you can use it to create a small business, to achieve small ideals; if wasted in the boring things, it is too pity.

If you are not satisfied, then change, don’t hesitate.

I believe if you are willing to change, even if it is very hard, the future will be rewarded.

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