Do you regret the decision you make?
There is no so-called right or wrong decision, just that after you choose one of the roads, whether you can insist and go willingly.
Do you know what's the scariest thing after making a decision? The kind that after you chose a road, not reconciled to the road, and keep looking at others road. One day, you will fall halfway down the road, and in the end, accomplish nothing.
I always feel that no matter which way, after you choose, if you can persist, you will succeed.
Just like the speech from a senior: "There many different types of happiness, it depends on which one you choose."
I think it's important for people to have a clear goal and direction. That way, you will save a lot of time compared with others, and also less trouble for you in the future.
Those who indecisive and look thoughtful, in fact, is the most painful and most tangled; Those that fail is often those who think a lot. On the contrary, I feel that stubborn people are good, at least they will persist in the one thing they believe. Yes, this seems to be a bit get into a dead end, but you can’t deny the clarity of their goals and the unwavering executive power.
The more you grow up, the more you experience, the more people you contact, the more you will find a lot of the words you've seen before are the truth, and hopefully, believe everything is the best arrangement.
The more you grow up, the more you think, the more you will want to go back to the past, those happy days is the most memorable when you grow up.
The goal when we were young is also much simpler, be good at study, get a good result is the ultimate goal of the year, and at that time, this ultimate goal is a pain in the ass, we want to escape from it. Because of it, we have less playtime, give up our favorite cartoon.
At that time we hated this goal, and eager to grow up. But, when we grow up, we realized that how good the goal was, and how much we want to go back to the past. Before, as if we are living in a one-dimensional plane, as long as every day moves in one direction is enough. But now, as if we are living in a 360-degree space do not know where to go, too many opportunities, too many directions, afraid to take a step.
In fact, sometimes it is good to communicate with people, not to be immersed in our own world. A person may walk quickly, but a group of people can go farther. Most of the time, when people slowly closed themselves up and went into the circle and doesn’t come out, mostly because of the lack of communication with the outside world. Make more contact with the outside world, exchange ideas with people, you will find that you actually know nothing.
Do more communication, you will find that the world is wonderful, the world is very simple, there is no one in your mind to give yourself the idea of what vague big philosophy or some melancholy plot, this is also applicable to depressed people.
Do not regret what you choose, and you don’t imagine the result before making the decision. There are so many If. You are still young, why are you afraid of failure? So what if you fail? Just start again.
Perhaps you will say, this will waste a lot of time. OK, let me ask you, at the same time when you are working for that goal, do you really have no gain, even if a little? If really not, then I can only say you have not worked hard for that goal, you have already failed from the beginning.
The final result is just to make you more aware of it.
As mentioned earlier, as the time axis of this one-dimensional plane, you will slowly find that many of the principles are true. Like what I'm going to say now, which I believe you've heard it before, “Young, is capital.” Yes, young is capital. You have nothing, so don't be afraid to lose anything.
You don’t have so much burden when you are young, your body allows you to take a lot of pain, of course, under the range of your body can withstand. And your ability to think quickly, and can accept a lot of new ideas, you can create as much as possible.
Don’t worry so much, don’t fear before you start, no matter it is surprise or fright, it is still wonderful. Everything is the best arrangement.
Finally, don’t wonder at the crossroads of choice, no choice is right or wrong. Each road has its landscape, the key is that after you choose, are you able to do willingly and persist without regret.
Don't stand on this road and think of another road, the grass is always greener on the other side.
There are many different types of happiness, it depends on which one you choose.
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