Living in the life you want
Everyone has a life that they aspire to. Everyone's longing for life is not the same.
Some people yearn for flat, low-key life; Some people yearn for a thrilling and colorful life; Some people yearn for a romantic life; Some people yearn for a free life full of literary atmosphere.
Everyone has the life they think they want most, but how many people live for themselves instead of living for others?
In this society, we are all in the boundless crowd of bucket.
We are not like those scientists, educators, contribute their life to the great scientific research, and we are not like those national leaders worrying about national affairs, work for the whole nation, and we are not like those celebrity stars working day and night to bring people joy.
Most of us are just plain ordinary people. Come from an ordinary family, work in an ordinary job. Most of our lives revolve around daily necessities. Occasionally go for a movie with someone close to us, or a self-driving tour or something. Meet a few old friends, go to the bar, drink, and chat to past time. Our life is full of the people around us.
Nothing vigorous, but every day is practical.
Perhaps, this is the ordinary and simplest happiness.
Everyone is pursuing a lot of things in life. Fame, money, love. The fame you want from others, the never-ending money, and a lover who never leaves you. If all this is done, you will become the envy of all people and will be advertised as a successful person in the eyes. It seems that the greatest definition of a person in this world is success. The word success perfectly explains what everyone is working hard for.
But what is success? Is it how many houses you bought? Is it how many countries have you been to? Is it how many lives you have been saved? Or is it how many children you have?
Not at all.
The real success is about you really understand what to do in your life, and then according to your own will, live the life you want, not what others expect, this is your successful life.
Not the success that others have advertised in their eyes.
I think that success is difficult, and need a lot of courage and confidence.
Because it is possible that the thing you are going to do, is likely to make you deviate from the people who have great hopes for you, even the dearest ones.
Want to go somewhere far, but because the loved one, stay in situ; want to pursue your own inner dream, but because of the various in reality and choose to give up.
In fact, life is made up of countless choices, give up, regrets and some small fortunes.
Perhaps you cannot travel because of the loved one, but every day you are accompanied by the loved one, have your own little moments. Perhaps your dream stranded because of the reality, but you grasp the real life, as long as the dream does not extinguish, one day, the reality will give you your dream.
You may not be able to do what you want to do because of money, but as long as you have the heart, settle down and do what you need to do now, which is making money, believe that you will always get the life you want.
Reality will ask you to give up something, as long as you stick to the end, one day, life will give something back to you.
Because all the gifts in life, have been marked with a price by fate.
Life is a limited edition movie without rehearsals, and you can't redo again. Every stage of life, we have to step into the next stage, if we have been unable to complete the last stage of the life and live in regret, then we will miss a lot of things.
Like Tagore's "Stray Birds" once said, “If you shed tears when you miss the sun, you also miss the stars.”
Everyone comes to this world naked, will also leave naked. There is nothing to lose, and there is nothing to fear.
This way, whether it is blooming, or thorns, is only a different experience of life.
With courage in the heart, the future is possible. In this long river of life, what we should do is not hesitate, don't give up, don’t be afraid.
Just like Nietzsche said: "Be bold to treat your life, because, in the end, you will lose it no matter what happens."
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