We Should Be Mature And Be Care Full Always
Hello Dear friends what i am going to explain today is about the kids Future Present and past!
Most of the time we missing the main points of the management that we miss manage things.
Most Important:
We need to make our kids special in our eyes we should take care of them and we should listen to them in every way of life if we ignore there dreams and needs and desires we missed the love from them!
What kids can expect from us Love and care and thinking about them! What In my country people are doing they are pressurizing there child to do what there parents need for them they never allow there Kids to manage there life and needs !
When you force someone to do a work they cannot done that work with accuracy they cannot eve concentrate on such work which he really need to finish on time ,you will found them lazy during the work.
Most of the time i have see many students that they are under pressure BY there elders at home to get admission in a specific filed or in a subject which they are not interested in and when they think that they are not fail and there family will more pressurize them they cannot understand and due to become victim of depression they Attempt suicide !
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Most cases in making a relation to a family and a girl parents pressurize their son or daughter which result hater in there heart and when they marry there are two possibilities founded !
One case the boy and girl leave the home after few months because the Boy start thinking about girl and the hater he had for his parent girl take advantage of that and the boy get force by his wife to make a separate home for her and they leave there mom dad alone.
Second case after sometime they do not understand each other and they were not able to manage themselves and cannot have understanding and they broke up !
3 : we should control our feelings In many cases?
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When you think that your kids are not mature and they now understand what are good and bad for them then you should me more care full to them that you will not be rude to them and never show anger on small things that will make them enemy of you and their mind is not that strong that they will think about you that how you will live with out them when they leave you in the middle of your life and you last stage you will have to live alone with out kids!
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Certainly friend. Today, educating children is not an easy task. These times are very conditioned by social networks and I share with you the need to be very aware of children, their feelings and needs. Orienting them and giving them love will make them happy and take on life with a positive attitude. Greetings.
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Alot of this is local to an individual I feel. Pressure is just one tool in a parents toolbox, building on guilt and shame among others. But most children brought up in this situation not knowing anything otherwise, see the pressure shame and guilt as a hallow structure, because overtime that threat of immediate danger has worn off, as with the boy crying wolf. Now once external influence gets involved, in the form of classmates or street friends, etc... If attention is brought to that specific nervous tick a individual may feel, for whatever reason, it's also on the person bringing that attention to with a good kind loving mind to help provide tools to manage those expectations. Even saying something as simple as "it won't always be like this, one day it will be better. Not all parents are like yours" gives them hope if they suddenly get overwhelmed with the injustice someone else noticed in their life. It's like Plator wrote about in 'allegory of the cave',.. the ones staring at the walls and seeing shadows know nothing else....