How to extinguish jealousy of the older brother of the new born ???

Your child is very jealous of his new little brother, is a common problem, You may make you a state of despair, But do you know that you can prevent bouts of anger that afflict since the birth of his brother, With a little know-how, This is what guides you Psychological specialist Lin Hepkin, Of "Mather and Baby".

This feeling dominates The eldest son,Flops in psychological cases And it requires you to help and understanding,Often I see children, a brother or a new small sister that they were told it's a wonderful,But they realize that this little creature, when it arrives,Not useful, not amusing, he can not play with him, And it will take you a lot Of your time and your interest,This may make him feel that he suddenly became Outside the exclusive relationship that was him alone,In the meantime, you are busy breastfeeding and hugging Change diapers small child,And even when You are not preoccupied with it,You will probably be tired,Then wake up born again and screaming.

Thus the familiar habits change suddenly,And the time to play with him and the special time you spend with him,It may seem to him as if there is not enough love for them together.

This feels Your big son Need reassurance about his status in the family,And extent
The reliability of your interest in him, Do the following:

1 - Let him feel reassured, and spend with him a special time every day.

2 - Give him more love and hug,Remember to praise all his good behavior, especially towards the new baby.

3 - immediately prevent any hostile behavior, and do not scream.And try to explain to your child alternative ways to express his feelings.

4 - It may be useful to an expression of his frustration without Tlomeh,For example, if you say: «I know you feel angry when your brother gets kisses from Mama, But I have a lot of kisses enough for both together »!!!

5 - Let him sit near you When you are with Born And Helps you In some simple tasks,
He will soon realize that he still has a special place,And that his little brother is an amusing addition to the family.

Mother experience
We have involved them from the beginning
Jane, 43, the mother of Aisha, three years, and Daniel, 11 months, says:

When I discovered I was pregnant, I worried about the response Aisha did,They are very demanding,So I wanted to make her accept the idea of having a brother before he arrived.
This was meant to see her picture of the fetal ultrasound,And to talk about the idea that a child joins the family,When she gave birth to Daniel, she left her to recognize him in her own way;So I felt it was on her terms, But Daniel's feeds coincide with Aisha's desire to have a drink In playing,Or entering the bathroom, then changed her mind.
I know it is seeking to get attention;So she was careful not to reprimand her But I ask them to bring me clothes or wet wipes When I change Daniel's diaper Then I pay tribute to her assistance, We still do this so far,This helps her That you feel It's an important post Which made them very emotional towards him,We also spend special time together playing while Daniel sleeps;So you know they still have a special place.

My advice is to involve the child in what will happen since the beginning of pregnancy,And encourage him to be patient, waiting 5 minutes to play will not hurt him and will reduce your sense of pressure.

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