Symptoms of spoiled child

Auctioneer Spoil the child, and deprivation also spoil, Therefore, the mother must be careful in her behavior with her son; Because excess pampering is corrupt, But the maternal emotion does not feel it, Unless you notice that they are acting in a certain way, Resulting in reactions from her child to these behaviors, You know that it is distracted in the pampering that will affect the personality of the child, The mother destroys it without feeling.

So we asked the psychological specialist Professor Saada Zananiri - Psychology of the House of Sciences Cairo - The most important of these actions, was as follows:

• The mother buys her child a lot of games that he does not need sometimes; To express her love for him, may be with gifts without suitable, But the child will interpret it as a bribe to him; In order to satisfy the mother And it has become a lack of conviction Satisfaction and constant resentment, These symptoms Auctioneer.

• Do not use the word «No» with your child, and you think it is still small; In order to reject what he requests, This unfortunately leads him to Auctioneer Excessive The bad consequences.

• complain And complain a lot, this is the worst sign that your child spoiled, The value of things is not appreciated and that's not bad for you, but will offend him; Because he will not feel the feelings of others.

• Your child looks to those who are less than him with a blank look without feeling, It does not display To offer them help, So you spoiled your child, to the point of transcendence.

• is pretending to permanent sadness and depression,The reason it is no longer find fun waiting, All this makes him a child spoiled a failure in the future.

• There are some signs that may mean that your child is spoiled Such that the child be selfish and be convinced that the wishes and desires above the needs of everyone.Know that selfishness may be a natural stage in a child Especially in the child reaches two years of age stage. The progress of the child in the age and maturity stage, those selfish start to finish However, if the mother supported the selfish behavior of the child.

• If you respond to all the permanent wishes of your child The child will continue to demand more and more Keeping in mind that when things come very easily to a child it will not be appreciated. And the mother to know that if the child felt responsibility, it will be satisfied and will not become a spoiled child.

• A child who does not respect the rules and does not respect those who are greater than him And it refuses to give up and argue constantly gets everything he wants
All of this means that the child is spoiled.The mother must be well aware that if she is lenient with her child in a continuous manner This will prepare the child for a life of failure in various aspects.

• If your child continues to have fits of anger after 2 years of age This means that the child behaves in a pampered way You have to learn that the child is acting in that way to try to control others. If your child's requests are exaggerated and if they are accompanied by tantrums If you are not responding to his requests it in that way be a child spoiled.

• The nature of the child is an innovative and can play simple purposes of an extended number of hours So, if your child has many games and purposes But he feels bored and persistent, this means that the child is spoiled He does not know how to enjoy his time alone and needs someone who always likes him.

• The spoiled child usually treats his friends, family and relatives in a way that does not taste or respect the situation In mind that such behavior is due to the selfishness of the child and the mother's indulgence in dealing with him.Know that your child If bad behavior And spoiled He does not deal tactfully with others He will not possess a lot of friends Others will not like the wrapping around it.

• The mother must know that placing the child's wishes in a critical place is a continuous process It will teach the child that the whole world revolves around him Which will also teach him not to care about the needs and desires of others. The important thing is that the child learns how to be a donor Otherwise, it will face a lot of frustrations. If your child is in the selfish behaviors continued after reaching two years of age You have to sit down with the child and talk to him.

• Be a role model for your child and make him watch you as you act with others with wisdom and patience You should also teach your child how to be patient and that his wishes will not always respond to her immediately.

Source 1 : http://www.sayidaty.net/node/312016/%D8%B3%D9%8A%D8%AF%D8%AA%D9%8A-%D9%88%D8%B7%D9%81%D9%84%D9%83/%D8%A3%D8%B7%D9%81%D8%A7%D9%84-%D9%88%D9%85%D8%B1%D8%A7%D9%87%D9%82%D9%88%D9%86/5-%D8%B9%D9%84%D8%A7%D9%85%D8%A7%D8%AA-%D8%AA%D8%AE%D8%A8%D8%B1%D9%83-%D8%A8%D8%A3%D9%86%D9%83-%D8%AA%D9%81%D8%B1%D8%B7%D9%8A%D9%86-%D9%81%D9%8A-%D8%AA%D8%AF%D9%84%D9%8A%D9%84-%D8%B7%D9%81%D9%84%D9%83

Source 2 : https://forum.sedty.com/t771820.html

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