The biggest surprise in regard to men feelings was when I started to dance, and, later on, to teach tango. In tango you need polarization: man has to lead, woman has to follow. If no one is doing his or her job, then there is no dance, no dynamic. It's dull.

So I met a lot of men who were actually afraid to lead and a lot of women who were very much resistant to following. On the surface, they all looked masculine and feminine and even in the social games they were playing their part ok. But once you put them in this specific context, of dancing tango, there is now way to avoid the problem anymore. It's clear as daylight.

Now here are the answers:

1. a) gratitude
   b) enthusiasm

2. I am 8 and 10 on that scale. 8 because I do have emotions and I don't repress them.

3. As a tango teacher you must know both roles: leader and follower. It was always funny when I practiced with men, me playing the role of the follower, in order to check their abilities. A lot of fun looking at their faces.