When Changing, Growing, Expanding Yourself... You May Go Through Negative Times

bitdollar (60)in #life • 7 years ago (edited)

Expanding Ourselves May cause Some Destruction

As we continue to grow our intellect and expand our world, we go through a process of destruction and rebirth. This is you destroying old belief habits, patterns, and challenging your mind to stick with a change you want. That is often one of the main hurdles, you will combat your mind as it will try to prevent you from changing.

We are all programming machines, in the case of our brains. Whatever we take in, we absorb and apply to our lives. It is very important that what you let inside your mind, body, vision, and everything is what you truly want. Great values, morals, habits, patterns, controlled thinking and what have you.

The mind gets used to what it knows and wants to function. This will create some disruptions as you fight your mind to reprogram it into the new way of thinking. You could want to read every night but the old pattern and way of thinking will prevent that maybe by telling you your tired, not comfortable, you want to do other things now, ect.

Old Mind Patterns Will Try to Keep You Stuck

Once you have accomplished your own mind fighting itself, you will now start to "fight" or "challenge" other people's belief systems because it is challenging your new belief system. The reason this happens is you are now in acceptance of this new way of thinking and you know that hearing other incorrect ways you want to live or believe, will effect the progress you are making.

It is very interesting how we go through these waves of push and pull or positive to negative. Even though negative does not really equal negativity. It is just a vibration giving you clues to make changes. We sometimes miss the message at first and get swarmed into some negative energy that is not beneficial. We must just take the lesson and learn immediately. Time is the only commodity we all have.

My Realized Set Backs

Here is one cool example that took me a little while to realize, about a year. I was on my journey of self development and putting in a couple years of work on myself. I knew what I was doing was correct and the more I did it, I would achieve whatever I wanted in this world.

I was making changes to everything for the positive. Clearing negative energy, reading and focusing on what I should, cleaning my rooms I work in, putting in real tress in my room, adding spiritual artifacts to my home, and everything that had "positive benefits" attached to it. During this time, everything I was doing was failing. My businesses all failing, my luck not there, relationship problems, health problems, you name it!

I asked myself...How is this possible? Everything I do is beneficial, this does not add up or doing whats right does not work. Then one day it struck me like lightning. During this whole time, subconsciously I was thinking everything wasn't perfect or "positive", my environment is negative, if I don't have fresh nature it's negative, if I am not reading it's negative. I created this perception that if I am not doing those positive or beneficial things, then it is negative.

This is why nothing was working. During this very positive, enlightening, and progressive time I was actually creating a ton of negativity. What I realized is I should of done or thought of it in a better positive way by thinking everything already is absolutely perfect! I will just enhance this beautiful life with things that could be improved. Now nothing currently is "bad" or "negative" everything is in harmony and perfect and I can now add and improve whatever I like without the consequences of negative energy.