How to Deal with Negativity.. 🙇 3/3

in #how-to6 years ago (edited)

Final words on who is @kenistylesconman..

What is good friends? Happy Sunday, as always let's start by setting the mood and intention. What does your smile feel like today? Go on give it a beam, press play, get comfy and comment me below!

Addressing this trolling situation for the benefit of my readers. Full context here.

Ok so this is the third in my short series inspired by @kenistylesconman. I wasn't sure if I wanted to shine any light on him at all to be fair, they say don't feed the trolls right? However after sitting with it for the past week or so, I've come full circle to see his blessings.

Thank you for inspiring me to create yet more uplifting and positive content. Thank you for being the contrast that teaches me balance and for re-minding us all to never stop loving ourselves to the highest power! 😍

So if you're a curios cat 🙀 reading this then check the first and second parts for more tips on defeating negativity! Also since this is the last time I will address this, unfortunately for my admirer his loong backstory and any further evidence will be here.

This series is for the benefit of all my readers and my best effort to help this angry person release some pain. I only ask that you all use your own inner guidance and resist being influenced by his smear of my reputation.


Feeling Down? Exercise More & Consume Less..

My last 3 tips on how "I" deal with negativity:

PERCEPTION: Has negativity already made itself at home in your space? Well now I ask, is it actually "yours"? Did you create it, claim it or invite it? If you did then why? If you didn't don't own it. Could it simply be a projection put on you from someone else? If you're carrying a thing only you are the one to drop it. Are you bearing the burden for another, regretting a past event or fearing the future? What we see is who we be, so let's choose our best feeling world (view).

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CONSUMPTION: Yes we are what we eat too, physically, spiritually and energetically. Are you consuming fear, neglect, abuse, slavery, imprisonment, death? Aren't we also made of what you think, watch, read, hear and feel too? Why do we play music to set a mood? Why do we prefer calmer spaces for reading? Why does being outdoors in nature feel better than staring at the inside of our boxes? Is your environment supportive of how you want to feel? If not you better get out there, go connect with the stability and sureness of the Mother Earth. Bare foot on the ground and face up to the Father Sun, there is no greater refresh and reboot!

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EXERCISE: As you know, self love is the first love. Let's take action and be the change we want to see, be the love we wish to feel. Working out is not always about getting hot and sweaty, it's also creative and the blame game leaves little room for growth. So create movement, create space, create ease and create solutions. The You-niverse shows us exactly what we're focused on, whether we like it or not. Exercise, exorcise and expand for everything you really want and honor your word in creating new actions.

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So if you're feeling less connected with your happy vibes at the moment, be mind full of what you're feeding into it. Addictions and distractions are merely band-aids while conscious and subconscious sensory overloads further perpetuate more stress and pressure right?

Take a time out for you.. the original one! 💯

Man can't see no haters, another troll vlog.. more at Kenicamz.com

I am not attempting to take anything away from power of negativity. Sadness, sorrow, depression, shadow work, the dark night of the soul and ego death all play vital roles in the fullness of our lives. It's just that getting forword on the path to feeling better can simply mean cutting down our intake from other sources and turning up our own voice. Though of course that's not always a walk in the park.. or is it?

Ok on that note that's all I've got for now, we ARE all in this together, the good, bad and ugly too. We all have highs and lows, we can all learn to ride the waves and we all have our own styles and ways of going about it. So let's get it done, are we ready to switch it up and focus on what serves us? Here's to Health, Happiness, Freedom and Oneness!

Has this series helped you shift anything? What are your own best practices for getting out of a self imposed slump? Will we share in the comments for future readers and actually.. for me too. Thank you and be easy on yourselves! 🙏

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Right now there is lot of negativity in my life. I'm a undergrad student and trying to get a job. I sat for about 30 companies. But didn't get through. I worked very hard . There are people who did nothing yet secured a good job. Donno what's happening in my life . But I'm feeling little positive after reading your article.

Many of us were lead to be life that "working very hard" will get us to a place of happiness right? Well what happens if we can be happy right now? I'm not saying don't put yourself fully into something, perhaps just re-member why you are doing it? Passion or profession, which is more powerful or important?

Surely if you find something you enjoy, can feed yourself and family and fill your day with desire for what you create. Then you got the best occupation you could ask for right? I know my words may not help you find that dream job, however I only hope I can help you feel better along the way.

What is more important than how you feel right now? Feeling positive is the best way to walk into any interview that's for sure! So perhaps build up that feeling, know what IS happening is that you are creating your reality and take it easier on yourself bro! 👍

Best words! i'll store them for my future.

Not sure why Keni is labeling me as negativity. The guy and his partner stole money from me and he's trying to deny all responsibility. the guy is a scammer and his readers (you guys) seem to be blindly buying all the bullshit he's claiming, which he even admitted on the comments on his previous post was untrue. He admitted to taking the money and yet still wants to pretend like I'm the one who's negative... Right, like that makes a whole lot of sense..

Great post - simple, clear and effective. Especially like "consume less". :)

Thanks Michael, I appreciate you and the feedback.

@kenistyles Still waiting for you and your partner to return the money that you brazenly stole from me. When will you own up to your thievery and send the money back?

Yeah.. great post that fails to address any of the allegations leveled at @kenistyles. This guy and his partner stole money in the most obvious and egregious way and wants to evade the consequences and grandstand to his followers on steem... and apparently his followers want to blindly eat the shit he's feeding them. Great post though... /s

Now if he'd only write one addressing the topic of theft...

Exercise more......and then eat more ;) nom nom

Haha yes this.. then I should have added steps 4 and 5.. eat well and SLEEP IT OFF! 💤

Despite what @kenistyles may claim, he did in fact steal money from me and is doing everything in his power to not own up to that fact and send the money back. Apparently it will be necessary to file suit with this egomaniac as he can't seem to come to grips with the hypocrisy of his own behavior. Oh well.

Well said @kenistyles, bad thoughts, and bad wording is just triggering more negativity to the one who uses it. Better to be higher than that it will reflect on your health, emotional and energy state.

Hey thanks for stopping by @ricko66, you're absolutely right! Thoughts lead to words and words lead to actions. Who wants to live that draining life eh? Here's to self healing and aligning with good health and positive energy! Appreciate you brother.

Good honest wee vlog ..at the end of the day we can only try to observe our thoughts and actions and yes we are all mirroring all each to some extent and that’s all well and dandy .
It is outragious the paedophile statements and he seems really hurting ,,but at the end of the day fueling the fire of his pain no matter what your good intentions are .will just send him off to be more unreasonable ,,so I would suggest just to cut all links and communication with him ..he will soon run out of fuel and set his target elsewhere .
The bottom line is we cannot save the world ,,the world will run its own course ,,so gather your own small group of like minded and cut thenlinks with others

Thanks brother, you said it well. I feel complete on this issue now and although I have left an avenue open for him to further discuss this with me at the relevant thread. You're right, attention is what he craves and feeding into his ego is not going anywhere good. The best I feel I could do was offer my suggestions for self healing and be as transparent as possible for the sake of my readers. Thanks and as your name suggests.. LIFE IS GOOD!! 😄

Sure, keep on buying Keni's story. As if he's not trying to evade responsibility for illegally making off with my funds. As if that aligns with the supposed ethical behavior this guy supposedly aspires to... Yeah, as if..

I'm now 61 years old and it has recently been impressed upon me how important it is to detach. There are myriad things in this life that are important enough to steal my peace of mind. But about which I can do nothing. Geo politics, injustice of all sorts, people that I love who seem intent on destroying their health. I could go on and on. I care so deeply about so much that I am helpless to remedy. It actually was causing me heart problems.
These days I am trying to learn to let those things go while still keeping my empathy and still helping where it will help. But none of us can stay healthy while carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders.

Truth brother. I like to say wholeness is balance, so in honoring all paths we can practice less judgement and accept that every one is on their own path and purpose. Not saying it's always easy, it's a practice and we're all learning to be better right? Thanks for commenting man :)

Not saying it's easy to what? Walk away with someone's money and then deny and attempt to avoid responsibility? What exactly is hard about that?

"...getting forward on the path to feeling better can simply mean cutting down our intake from other sources and turning up our own voice." And your voice is crystal clear with intention and positivity!! THAT is what I hear. Love and blessings. Be good to you. Kudos for your transparency and generosity of spirit.

We all been there in those dark times and places right? We've all sought to blame others and push our pain to anyone willing to take it. For me it is a practice of forgiving my past errors as well as forgiving others who project negativity upon me. There's always a lesson and a thank you, being transparent is all I can offer. Much love 💞

Still waiting for you to return the money, Keni. Maybe this negativity wouldn't follow you around if your karma wasn't so far in the dumps.

I wouldn't refer to Keni as transparent. If he were transparent then he would take responsibility for his theft in front of a third party. Instead, he's clearly got a lot to hide and prefers to take the route of slandering me to avoid the repercussions of stealing my money.

But yeah, his "generosity of spirit," is quite profound, isn't it? /s

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