Recieve my warm greetings my dear family and hope we are doing well.
My today's post is based on "life and domestic violence in our society.
Domestic violence can be define as the behaviour within a home typically involving the abuse of a partner or spouce and sometimes children especial those that are not directly from that home, sometimes within a community.
I always feel bad or sad asking my self a number of questions when i hear or see any form of domestic violence such as:

1. Do we have blood the same as the abused person😭 ?
2. Do we have a heart same like the abused😭 ?
3. Do we have breath same like the abused 😭?
4. Do we jude our selives before abusing someone😭 ?
5. Do we think about the effects of the violence to on the person😭 ?

FORMS , CAUSES OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND WAY FORWARD
The forms here include;

-Rape which can between the spouse, childern

-Beating of women or men, childern

-Hardworks which are not willingly done and under threats

• freedom of movement and speech just to name a few.

Domestic violence in our society today is cause by a numbers of factors;

1. Failure to understand a soulmate before and during marriage, today many focus on the financial , sexual parts forgetting morals, social, religious , Health and culture. At times both or one spouse think that beatings and qurrialing are the main activities of marriage forgetting that love, respect, protection, unity ,care, understanding and the most important one listening ear are suspose to the main actives.
   Some people compare spouse who fight as "animals" but for me i see it wrong because i have been with animals and one day i have never ever seen animals beating up their wives, husbands, they live together, eat together, and rather attack us because we want to harm them, WHY CAN'T WE FOLLOW THEIR EXAMPLE ?
   Spouse need to work together, help each other in every aspect.
   

1. Taking of drugs is one the causes of domestic violence. The level of drug consumption in our society contribute to domestic violence which are rape, beating up children and spouse with these the victim is upset, mentally disturbed and may lead to death or suicide . morals and education are the key words here. Youths today are lizzay to work and are mostly involved here because of lack of morals in their homes , society and communities.

2. It is true that all fingers are not the same and there is high level of poverty , parents have contribute greatly to child labour and the people involved now take advantage in all forms rape, child labour and they don't care about the well being and the furture of the child. It also occur because the relatives are death and self-fish interest, jealocy, hatrate. I always ask my self why is it that we can not be like flowers , i have never one day heard any flower telling another am beautiful more than you , i have a good smell more than yours, WHY CAN'T WE BE LIKE THEM ? they join together to beautify the environment with colours, smell and sizes.

1. Lack of communication and mannars of approach is one of the causes of domestic violence.
   Our mannars of approach in the society contributes to domestic violence and this is a serious problem there is no freedom of speech, and people think that only one voice must be heard and its only shouting, people do not listening to each other, we do not respect each other . A man thinks he is the head in everything forgetting that children and women contributea to that head and that is why domestic violence is becaming rampant. Every person has a role and functions in the community or home and we must sometimes help each other.

1. Another cause of domestic violence is lack of a forgiving heart, bearing of groggies . I have been with children and they are my best friends they easily forgive and forget, they have no problem disturbing them except they are not sound or hungery, they play laugh and at times if they are dying or in danger they will still be happy. WHY CAN' T WE BE LIKE THEM ?

#LETS SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

LETS EDUCATE OUR SELVES AND THE SOCIETY.

LETS SAY NO TO DRUG CONSUMPTION.

LETS SAY NO TO CHILD LALOUR.

LETS SAY NO TO RAPE.

Thanks my wonderful readers, i love you💓💓 am waiting for corrections and more light .
A blessed day to all.