Steem Women club Engagement Contest 1 | My Elder Sister is the most important person of my life | Dolphin Loading 🐬

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There were a lot of important people in my life but few of them are not alive. But the most important person that is the lifeline is my elder sister. I love her very much because she is the one which raised me by playing in her lap.

Elder Sister (An important Person in my life)


My elder sister is the most important person in my life. It was only a few hours when she took me in her lap. From the time of my birth to till the day she is like my mother, friend, teacher, and sister too. I am with her for 21 years and we have spent a lot of quality time with each other.

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Her name is Zaib e Nisa. The diamond of our home and precious one too. She is almost 15 years old but I think she still looks younger than me. She is the mother of a little princess.

Her Importance


As I said she is a mother, teacher, friend, and bestie too. She is so sweet, loving, and caring person. We belong to a highly educated family and she has also done a doctorate. I wanted to become an MBBS doctor since my childhood.

But due to negligence and poor performance in MCAT tests, I didn't do well. But she was the one that supports me at that time and asked me to become a doctor but choose another way. Then she was the one who support me while studying at a university that charges the highest fee in Pakistan.

She supports me in paying my fees and she loves me more than any other sibling. She didn't even touch or slap me even in hard times. She take care of me when our father and brother left us alone with so many responsibilities. She is so hardworking and gives this lesson to us that we can get anything due to our hard work and consistent work.

Memories With Sister


There are a lot of memories with her that I can't explain to everyone but I will share a few of them. There are so many wonderful memories that we spend on our sibling's weddings and birthdays. She is the one who always remembers my birthday and sends my gift to me even though she is far away.

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The most beautiful memory that I didn't capture was during my childhood when she went for her higher education to another city and I got fever due to her few days absence. I cried a lot when she came on that weekend and then I become well. I was happy that she came for me and take leaves from her university. I was only 6 to 7 years old at that time.

Then memorable moments but not happy moments when she takes care of me after our father's died. We both were in hospital and I know how she handle that situation with courage and wisdom. I was upset at that time because of the youngest child at home and I love him so much that I can't express it in words.

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She always gives me good suggestions during hard times and she stands with me. When I was stubborn that I only do MBBS and I was not interested in doing any other degree. She helped me at times and support me morally as well as financially.

Unfortunately, I do not have many photographs of ourselves because our parents allowed us to use mobiles when we are far away from them otherwise there is no need for a cell phone. We know its harmful effects on student life and we were brilliant students so, also don't need such things to waste our time.

Conclusion


I think elder sisters are the reflection of the mother that they loved us a lot and we also loved them. I pray to God that she always remains happy and healthy. May Allah bless her with happiness and peace in her life. Those people are blessed that have an elder sister and she loves like a mother to you.

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You have such a beautiful bond with your sister, MA. We need women like your sister who supports other women and lift them up. Sisters like yours, who always stay with you and take care of you through every thick & thin are a biggest blessing. No matter how far she lives, she is always connected to you spiritually ❤️
May tou both continue with the same bond forever and may this bond get even stronger. Loved reading your post!
Best of luck for the contest ❤️

 2 years ago 

I feel luckiest person of world by having an elder sister like her. May Allah bless everyone with an elder sister like mine. Inshallah this bond will become stronger day by day and I always try to help her if she needs. Thank you so much for visiting my post.

Dios bendiga enormemente a su hermana, que lindo amor que hay entre ustedes, los hermanos mayores representan un lugar muy importante en nuestras vidas, linda participación, suerte y bendiciones para ti 🤗

God bless your sister enormously, what a beautiful love there is between you, the older brothers represent a very important place in our lives, nice participation, luck and blessings for you 🤗

 2 years ago 

Yes older sisters are the best part of our life. Thank you so much for your kind words and wishes.

 2 years ago (edited)

Masha Allah, your sister is really important for you, and offcourse you love her too, her support and help might help you in your future life, and you will get more and more success. But one thing is important be consistent in your effort, it does not matter you did not qualify for mbbs, You selected you for something else. May be he rewards you more in your career life. You know it was mine dream too to be doctor, but i did not too. Allah has selected me for something else. My prayers with you. You will be very successful in your future life. And i also love my younger sister so much.

 2 years ago 

But one thing is important be consistent in your effort, it does not matter you did not qualify for mbbs, You selected you for something else. May be he rewards you more in your career

At first, I didn't understand this thing but I understand this after my sister convinced me otherwise I will be still waiting for my admission. She is so humble and nice. Ameen Sumameen. Thank you for your support dear.

It's wonderful to see how you two compliment each other. I also have an elder sister and I can totally relate to your post.

Elder sisters are a blessing. They also save us from our mother lol. Sometimes they take our mistake over them and save us from being scolded. My sister did this a lot for me. Now she has her baby and i so really appreciate my niece. I try my best to take care of him.

Elder sisters make your life easy by sending you tips to do a lot of things lol.

Best of luck with the contest. After reading this, I am now gonna spend some time with my sis <3 Thankyou.

 2 years ago 

Elder sisters are a blessing. They also save us from our mother lol.

Haha that's true but I think I am not being much scolded by my mother. I also love my niece she is so pretty Mashallah. Thank you for wishes and it's good that you will spend some time with your sister because after elder sister's marriage it's difficult to meet them every or every month.

 2 years ago 

Having a loving sister is a great treasure dear. You are so lucky. I also have a young sister. Thank you for inviting me dear. I already did.

 2 years ago 

Thank you for kind words. Oh I have not check your participation and I will visit your post too.

I think elder sisters are a blessing.
By reading your post I completely agree with you that

elder sisters are the reflection of the mother

You are truly blessed to have a sister like her. She is very caring and very supportive.
And I am damn sure she is lucky to have a brother like you.

May this brother-sister bond keeps forever.

Evil eyes off.

 2 years ago 

And I am damn sure she is lucky to have a brother like you.

Thank you for kind words but we both are sisters and we have strong bonding as a sisters not as brother sister bond :XD. Ameen Sumameen.

Ops really sorry....
ashkhan
I thought your are male
i apologize

 2 years ago 

No it's ok. ❤️

 2 years ago 

Yes , big sister always play her role like a mother. She never complains to her young ones siblings , She always wants to see her siblings happy and prosperous in their lives.May Allah strong your love 💕 bonding each other's. MashahAllah you shared beautiful memories too about your elder sister. 👩‍❤️‍👩

 2 years ago 

Elder sister face all the hurdles of her life but didn't get to know you. My sister is also like that. May God bless you too and thank you for wishes and prayers.

 2 years ago 

May Allah Pak bless you and your sister as well. Sisters are such a great blessing of Allah Almighty. We can share talk fight even wear clothes of each other. So you should always thankful to have a sister.

This is such a sweet write-up. I don't have a sister and neither did I feel the need for one in all these years. But after reading your post, for the first time, I felt that I'm lacking something.

May your bond be always this strong forever. Loads of love and prayers for you. <3

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