SEC-S10W5 | The Patience.
Introduction
Hello and welcome to another interesting contest week. I am here to participate in Season 10 Week 4 engagement Challenge with an interesting topic by Scouts and their Friends community titled “The Patience”. Below is my view on the topic according to the contest rule.
Do you tend to lose your temper easily or do you control yourself all the time?
Everyone has a state in life where he/she cannot longer hold his patience, whenever our emotion is drilled and pushed against our wish, we react or sometimes even cry out.
The truth Is that I am the kind of person that gets angry very easily some years back, that act of easily losing my patience has affected me in a lot of ways and after I must have reacted over something I later regret every bit of my actions. Knowing the effect of losing my patience over everything has helped me to learn a lot in life.
I therefore trained myself to highly control my reaction and decision to be more patient at all things, I built a habit of considering every event that turned out not to favor me. I try to grow both in age, thought of mine and maturity and improve my act of tolerance toward others.
Therefore, I control myself at all times because I don’t want to repeat the same mistakes of the past. Patience has helped me get more opportunities and improve my personal relationships with people around me, so I control myself and not act whenever I am upset. I do not react when I am angry and do not make promises when I am happy. To be successful in life we always have to be patient.
What despairs or stresses you the most?
Repeated failure makes me lose hope or patience in most cases because sometimes, I don’t get things as easy as I thought I would get them, this is where my patience is put to test. I get stressed out and frustrated seeing myself struggling over one thing. I am mostly tempted to lose patience at that point.
I also get stressed out around people who don’t know when to get serious and joke. Some of my friends' actions get me angry that I am losing my patience at some point and I may end up shouting at them, it hurts to be around people who do not understand you.
How do you avoid losing patience?
What I do to avoid losing my Patience is that I try as much as I can to react or make decisions whenever I am angry and I try to leave that point before I lose it. Sometimes, there is a limit to which we can control our emotions and patience and no one can clearly define his actions when he is upset, so it is better for me to stay clear off than to lose my patience.
When you lose patience how do you act?
What I do when I lose my patience is to take a deep breath and take a heavy smile to relieve myself of the tension. Reacting or taking decisions is the last thing on my mind so I try to avoid anything that will make me lose my patience at that point.
I also try to be calm whenever I am about to lose patience because when I allow my temper to control me, I react which may turn out to be a fight or giving up. I don’t allow my emotions to direct my actions.
What can you advise us regarding patience?
I came to believe the saying “The patience dog eats the fattest bone” There is a reward for being patient in all things, and never allow yourself to be controlled by your emotions especially when you are angry.
I advise everyone to always be patient because with patience you will grow more mature, improve your relationship with others and also help you to stay out of trouble, it is good to be patient always.
In conclusion, I see patience as a habit. If someone lacks that habit, he loses it at any small provocation, learn to build your habit of patience at all times. thank you for reading and I wish to invite @yakspeace @ishayachris @josepha to join the contest
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La paciencia es una cualidad que debemos cultivar debido a los problemas el estrés y otras cosas que se suman,podemos perderla con facilidad pero también podemos aprender a controlarla.
Yes dear dreind. We can lose patience but at the same time we have the power to also control ouself because it is left for us to control our emotions.
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Cuando somos personas como dice usted que suele perder la paciencia con facilidad solemos arrepentirnos después, debemos aprender a calmarnos a respirar y luego actuar o decir las cosas con la cabeza fría.Y tienes razón, debemos aprender a construir el hábito de la paciencia.
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Thank you for the support. Patience is realy a vortue and habit we should adabt. And thank you for organizing such a wonderful contest.
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He who has power to control his emotions when patience are drilled out has a lower chance of saying HAD I KNOWN to his actions. It is a good thing to learn that you don't longer loose yourself even when things do not work your way. Thanks for the beautiful write up.
Thank yoi for the comment. It is true that with patience, we will not stand to regret our actions. To be patience is very important and i thank God for the grace to learn how to be patience at all time.
Because we are not born with patience, almost everyone started off this way. So, you weren't alone on this.
Leaving the stage if possible is the best. I agree with you on this.
It takes a truly mighty man to be able to do this but it is possible. I have been training myself on this too.
Thank you for your great entry. I wish you success
Thank you for reading and for the wonderful analyticle comment ma'am.
It is tru that we all at some point are tempted to lose oir patience but learning to control it is very important.
I totally agree with you aswell in your opinion to just leave the stage when we are pushed harder because every one have a lomit to which they can hold thire patience.
Thank you for the comment ma'am.
Pues si, solemos perder la paciencia con mucha facilidad pero no es a mejor opción mi estimado amigo, ya que, nefastas consecuencias puede traer esto, incluso hasta de salud. Saludos y éxitos en tu entrada!
Than you for the comment . Loosing patience is actially not the best option, decisions taking oiy of patience may be bad but whme we always calm down we make the nest decisions.
¡Saludos amigo!🤗
Perder la paciencia con facilidad es peligroso porque, sin darnos cuenta, nos convertimos en personas agresivas ya que, la impaciencia nos altera al 100% nuestras emociones por lo tanto, si no queremos vivir la vida en un constante arrepentimiento, debemos aprender a desarrollar la virtud de la paciencia.
Un fuerte abrazo💚
Thank dear friend.