SEC13 WK2 “Life partners and their qualities”
Introduction
Love is the mysterious force that binds people to those around them. Love can bring joy, connection, and fulfillment to one's life. Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that has captivated humans throughout history. Love is a beautiful thing and everyone should experience it. Everyone deserves to love and be loved.
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Best qualities
My partner’s best quality is the fact that he is always ready to communicate with me. Before buying anything he asks for my opinion and I love how is so humble and calm( I’m loud enough so I need a calm man). He talks so calmly that even when he is angry at you, you can still feel the calmness in his voice. The fact that he knows when I'm sad from just my voice is everything to me.
Worst qualities
His worst qualities has to be that he gets angry over little things you don’t expect and that can make him isolate himself from you at that point. He can go mute on me for days and still come back to continue like nothing happens which makes me boil. He doesn't like anyone to win him in an argument(lol).
The quality to change is the fact that he gets angry over little things and can be too serious sometimes so you don’t even know when to play with him and if what you will say is something that can make him angry. He needs to work on his anger issues. I want to be able to win arguments(lol). He just wants to be the head, and boss, and the Odogwu attitude is what I want him to change.
The incident that made me love him was when I asked him to rent an apartment and stop staying in his uncle’s house so he could buy things for his house and know that these are his and also I would be able to visit him whenever I feel like and he took my advice and we started furnishing the house together. He would always send me pictures of whatever he wanted to buy for the house to know if I liked them.
So I love how he listens and acknowledged me with high regards.
Qualities I want to see in my partner
First of all, he must be Godly/God fearing as in someone who loves the things of God and goes to church and church programs.
He must be honest, calm like I already said, compassionate, considerate, kind, and a cheerful giver. He must be ready to compromise for the sake of our love. He must be supportive too. I know i can't get a perfect man but being 90% perfect is not too much to ask any man.
Qualities I don't want to see in my future partner
He must not be a womanizer or cheat, he has no business being an irresponsible man, and he should be able to control his anger.
He should not be authoritative. He should be able to leave third parties out of our relationship and should be ready to grow in all ramifications.
My dream life partner should be a man who genuinely loves me, and loves his family, he has to be family-oriented, he should be a cheerful giver, a responsible handsome man of Christ. He should be ambitious. He should be my partner in all areas( crimes, gossip, in bed, and others haha). He should be a man who seeks the opinion of his partner before executing plans.
Things he must do to melt my heart;
I love compliments a lot One of my love languages is words of affirmation that is why I want a man who listens so he can know what to say and when to say it.Then I love gifts. Like buying me something I’ve always wanted. He should surprise me always no matter how little. Those little things are what I keep more in my memory. I love it more when you buy it than when you give me money to go and buy it myself
I'm a baby girl and I need love and pamper. Make nobody carry stress near me.
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In Conclusion
Everyone deserves a good partner. There is nothing as good as having somone in your life that you can discuss everything with, tell each other how your day went, going for dinner dates, and doing so many crazy thijgs together. Its worth it. Find your Romeo or juliet today
I appreciate the time taken in reading this and I'm inviting @daar22, @emmy01, @sirexcellence001 and @bossj23 to participate in this wonderful contest.
Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 13 in the Steem For Ladies Community.
Saludos amiga
Que bonito leer que tu pareja te pide tu opinión al comprar cosas, en realidad eso debería ser asi siempre cuando tenemos pareja, creo que a nadie le gusta tener a una persona estresada al lado.
Haberte hecho caso al mudarse era una prueba de su amor por ti, que bueno.
Gracias por participar y suerte en el concurso.
Thank you for the review🤭
This one I have the gift of singleness already and you're telling me to find my Juliet, serious problem oh...😂. To be honest with you, I could read this post over and over again because of how it's structured, choice of words and the way it's written in general. Everybody needs a good partner no doubt. I know your kind of person and your kind of person needs an understanding man to cope with. Since marriage isn't just one-sided, both of you have to understand each other so as to avoid less problems. You that doesn't like stress in your life, hmmmm. It's good to know your kind of man is one who isn't irresponsible and will learn to control his anger.
Like I said, understanding would be a vital key as I'm saying this from experience. A man divorced his wife because of his uncontrolled anger over the wife pressing toothpaste from the top and not from the bottom. Thanks for sharing. I'm very much impressed. Looking forward to reading more of your posts. But I'll love to ask, in what sense don't you want him to be authoritative as the head of the house?
I will sure cast that spirit of singleness from you soon😂😂😂😂
Authoritative in the sense that everything doesn't go his way. If he say yes, there should be a compromise when there is need to say know at thesame point.
@bossj23 thank you for this wonderful comment. It means a lot
Make person no sha the command me because him be head, me sef no be tail😂😂😂
😂😂😂. Noted
My sister we need pampering ooohhh... Stress no be some man e name ooohhh. Ladies deserve to be treated well. We need the gifts each day oohhh. I love your sense sis
Love is a beautiful thing my dear and you've got a partner who loves, listens and understands you. This is actually good as it helps you build a good relationship. About his short temper and anger I suggest you go gradually. First try to understand him because people who are quiet are like that. They are very quick to anger and easily isolate themselves. Just know what to do that won't make him angry okay. Show him more love each day.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for the invite, I will gladly hop on this but..... Let the single breeef🤣
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Is this contest for suffocating Singlets???
You have written in very beautiful words about your life partner. You are right in saying that every person deserves a good partner but not everyone is blessed with a good partner. You have got a good partner, you will not catch anyone's attention. Good luck with the contest 👍
Hola @blessingogah-1, algo muy importante en una pareja es la comunicación el amor y el respeto y usted lo vive con su pareja.
En una relación siempre hay uno de los que tienen un carácter más fuerte y también una actitud de enojarse muy rápido. Pero el amor todo los puede cambiar y tener una bonita relación.
Let the single breeeeeet 😭...
Good day @blessinhogah-1. It was a nice time going through your publication on this amazing challenge.
Love is complex in nature. To make the concept love work perfectly, we need to play vital roles and let the presence of understanding and trust dwell in between.
For now I'm glad I'm single , but when the right time comes I'll be ready to mingle.
Nobody loves stress but I Know your own is more ... I know you as one person who doesn't like stress or to be stressed.
Well it is good to know that the kind of man you want in the future should possess the needed qualities which will suit you with emphasis on the basis of authoritativeness....
Nice post.
Ps-Thanks for the invite
@emmy01 thank you so much for the beautiful comment.
I will suffocate the single😂😂😂
Please don't 😂😂..... #justiceforthesingles
Nice entry, anger issues is what most men are battling with just like you said about your partner keep loving him don't be surprise that he may realise that it's affecting you and he changes.
Thank you ma
Hola!
Que tú pareja sea comunicativa habla muy bien de el y que te consulte en cualquier situación para tomar una decisión es muy bueno, espero que sigan juntos por mucho tiempo más. Exitos en el concurso.