Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 2 (Week 4)| The Worst day and the best day of your life - A true life story!

life is a process to achieve a long-term vision, but to achieve that vision is not an easy thing so that on the way it takes consistency and integrity, sometimes not a few of them stop pursuing their dreams because they often fail, even though failure is an important learning phase, meaning learn every mistake and weakness made and then turn it into a new energy through a more mature concept.

I feel interested in being one of the contestants on the theme "Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 2 (Week 4)| The Worst day and the best day of your life - A true life story!" because I have had many difficult phases and happy moments till now. This is an interesting theme and many users will be interested to be a part of the contestants.

The best day of My life

Everyone has a different paradigm about this, which I think is the best but otherwise it will become commonplace for others. In this topic I had some wonderful experiences and became the most precious days of my life.

1. Completed Education, Diploma, Bachelor and Professional Education

My family's difficult financial background made me have to work part-time to get a diploma at that time, in 2001 when the prolonged conflict between the Government of Indonesia and the Free Aceh Movement demanding independence had implications for all sectors of life, limited income greatly affected human resources. , but I have many dreams that I have written down on a large sheet of paper pasted to the wall of a house that is starting to rot with age.

I enrolled in one of the campuses by taking the nursing profession and finally with strong integrity I was able to complete this education within 3 years even though I had to work at night to pay for the very expensive tuition fees.

In 2004 the Tsunami struck the province of Aceh, which is where I live, right on December 26, 2004. Actually, on that day there would be a graduation procession for graduates, but we had to give up our intentions because thousands of people died and buildings were razed to the ground.

All countries turned to Aceh, they came and provided assistance, this disaster gave me wisdom, I also got a job in two world institutions, namely the World Food Program and American Red Cross with a position as a health worker. This is an unforgettable moment, finishing college and getting a decent job with an international standard salary.

In 2017 I completed my Bachelor's education and professional education in 2020 with funds that I fully obtained from steemit, I was active in 2016 and saved a number of assets for education costs. It's like a dream, but this is reality, integrity and consistency have given the happy days of my life so that the impossible becomes a reality.

2. Getting Married and have 2 children

The age of 30 is a vulnerable age in my life, because at that time I was not married while I should have had 1 child in that age range, but God said otherwise, I met a woman who was 10 years younger, I also married him on 26 july 2017.

This happiness continued to exist when my wife graduated as a contract teacher at that time, and a few months later gave birth to a beautiful daughter who I named "Rhania Al Thafunnisa", we lived happily and spent every day full of love.

Happiness came back to us when the wife was pregnant again when the first child was 17 months old, this was indeed a very big gift when visiting an obstetrician during the 2nd trimester of pregnancy, the doctor said "congratulations, from the results of the ultrasound examination you will get a baby boy. Still 9 months pregnant, on August 18 2018 my second child was born with the name "Fayyadh Al Kaisan".

Happiness came back to us when our second child was 3 months old, my wife graduated as an employee of the Provincial Government as a chemistry teacher in a public high school. This is a very happy moment, since we got married and until now happiness continues to be between us.

Fayadh	Rhania

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The Worst day of my life

Bad events are inseparable in my life, whether consciously or not, wanted or not, it is an unavoidable destiny. As an entrepreneur in the automotive sector since 2007, both 2-wheeled and four-wheeled vehicles, I have been in this business without any problems. But everything changed when I sold a used car to one of my brothers, I trusted him because apart from having a steady job, he also has a strong integrity. He paid half of the price of the car I sold him, and the rest has not been paid off to date.

This is the worst moment in my life, when I have to try to find him every day but can't find him, because he has run away from debts that are close to 1 billion. My feelings were crushed and the trust I had placed in them was simply ignored.

Every living thing will surely experience death, and this became an important lesson in my life, both parents died. My mother died 2 years before I got married and my father died when my wife was only 3 months pregnant. It's a sad thing when my children ask, "Father... where are your grandparents?", I can only answer that they died when you weren't born yet.

What contributed to that worst/best day experience?

From the two aspects above, both of them have a big role in living the process of life, I know how efforts should be made to achieve happy days so that they can become references for friends, and lessons for my children in the future.

Then it becomes an important element in carrying out every series of life, entrepreneurship, giving trust and this will be an indicator that other people should pay attention to, that trust is a very valuable item so it should be maintained and cared for properly.

Devotion to parents who are still alive is an important thing to note, considering they have given us life, provided a proper education and protected their children from the growth phase to adulthood.

What did you get wrong or right on that day?

I had everything well organized, planned carefully and it all happened, in conclusion I just need to really get to know the other person when giving credence. My biggest mistake is giving full trust to other people even though it is my big family.

What lesson(s) did you learn from that worst/best day experience?

• Integrity and consistency are the initial capital to achieve success, nothing is impossible if it is carried out properly.
• Be grateful for the results obtained and try to get better again
• Wife and children are heirs, should be a priority in life
• Learning from bad experiences is very valuable so don't make the same mistakes
• Birth and death are destiny, should be accepted with gratitude and grace.

Thus this short post, hopefully it will be a reference for other users. regards...