Assalamualaikum dear friends. Hope all of you are very well & healthy today by God's grace .Alhamdulillah, I am fine and healthy. I'm so excited because season 11 has been started and today I'm going to participate in the Steem Kids & Parents Community contest. This is the first week and they chose a beautiful topic and that is . This is very interesting topic and today I am here with my article, hope you all will like and enjoy. So friends without delay let's start today’s topic.

Have you ever been embarrassed? tell us the scenario and how you felt.

It is not unusual to be embarrassed in life because we know that people make mistakes at any time. Based on this topic today, I will share a college life event that is still memorable to me, though it may seem like an easy task to many, but in my case it is different. These days I was so embarrassed to do what I did.

I was admitted to Engineering College after my SSC exam. Then I finished the first semester, and then the big brothers of the Institute arranged a fresher reception program . And our class teacher encourages us to participate in various events at that program. But from my childhood, a problem was with me, and that was my impossible shame for which I swallowed to speak. When sir insisted on participating in me, I agreed to curb. And I agreed to give a speech on the subject of the newcomers reception.

I usually memorize my speech for two to three days and practice myself. I usually memorize my speech for two to three days and practice myself.On the day of the program, my new friends and I came to college earlier and we kept practicing ourselves. Our program starts at 10am and first our respectable teachers give their lectures. Then one by one started the lecture and at one point I went to lecture. Everything was fine but suddenly our sir said, "Suppose you are an alumni, so now talk somthing about fresher students."

The problem is that many students have given speeches on the topic of freshness and so the teacher suddenly changes it. However I was very shy and after hearing this I was a little surprised and I told my prepared speech because I had no experience of lecturing and this was my first speech. However, after the program was over, I met Sir and I told Sir about my problem and Sir encouraged me and provided some very important tips on how to manage smartly in this type situation.

Do you think you deserve the embarrassment or it should have been someone else?

Basically neither I nor Sir is responsible for this incident because we students were giving speeches on the same topic that seemed boring to hear at a time and so Sir would change it and it happened to me. It could have been with someone else without me, but I was happy later that it would happen to me. While it sounds ridiculous to hear, yes, this phenomenon makes me more active and helps to eliminate the shame of giving speeches among many people. When people make mistakes and he receives education from there, he becomes more knowledgeable and proficient in that matter and I also learn from there and try to introduce myself in a new way.Of course this was an embarrassing moment for me, but I remember that as an educational chapter in my life.

What have you done to avoid such a scenario from reoccurring?

You can never be sure that something you plan will always happen that way. Even though I was well prepared to give a speech, I ran into problems for other reasons that made the incident seem like an embarrassment to me. Of course this was a very important point because it is very important to have the mental strength and confidence to speak in front of many people. I may have been a bit behind in this at that time.

Also I think it is necessary to have a smartness to handle any situation. A man becomes smart only when he can handle the situation with his knowledge, smiling face, nice and well-spoken words. And so I am trying to master these things slowly so as not to face such incidents.It is neither an easy task nor very difficult. But must acquire knowledge, practice and apply it properly only then it will help to handle the situation and avoid embarrassing situations.

I really like this contest and I am happy to participate.Thanks to my beloved friends for reading my article.I hope you all read and enjoyed my article.. Before I finish my article I would like to invite my friends @solaymann @waterjoe , @pelon53, @msharif & @goodybest for this nice contest .*

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