"Beware of Bullying"
During your life, have you ever received bullying? If so, in what form? physical, verbal or through cyber bullying. Provide your review? |
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Yes I have received bullying before and I was very depressed and bad The kind of bullying I received was Verbal bullying, I don't think I can ever be a victim of Physical bullying even though I normally act calm and wear eyeglass, within me am physically fit and I can't just sit and watch my peers or anyone bully me physically because I don't waste time to fight with such people, once they hit me twice them the story turn to a fight.
The worst type of bullying I hate is Verbal bullying because am not the kind of guy that will just fight people anyhow just because of the nonsense they said with their mouth without hitting me. When I was in my 5th year in high school, I received alot of verbal bullying from my classmates. I always save my money and I don't eat in school at all, I also trek to school as well as home just because I always save my transport fare as well.
My reasons for saving was to buy myself a android phone so that I can join steemit. My classmates began to call me a poor boy, some of them knows that am saving and they also call me savings, saving box and others 😓. They always say that I like walking fast whenever am going back home and sometimes they imitate my movement in a very more bad way.
Deep down in me I was 100% depressed but I was always smiling each time my classmates were saying all these to me, sometimes when I laugh at what the say, tears will unknowingly come out from my eyes but I will clean them immediately before anyone notice.
I would have gotten physically bullied if wasn't among the top 10 brilliant students out of a class of 40. I work hard everyday here in steemit just to ensure my classmates stop insulting me anywhere they see me.
How do you equip your children to avoid bullying either at school or in their social environment. |
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I don't have children but I will answer this question based on my siblings. Am the first child of my parents and I always advise my siblings to mind their business in school at all cost. If they get bullied verbally the way I was, I don't think they can ever withstand it the way I did. Verbal bullying is the worst because we can't see it on the victim's face but when someone get's bullied physically, they received injuries that other people can see.
I also advice my siblings to always report any actions of bullying from their classmates, to their teachers. Another thing I didn't forget to do is to warn my siblings against bullying other people as well, is not good to bullying people and my siblings has been listening to me and I haven't heard much stories of bullying from them. Teachers and parents really need to monitor their children in other to quickly know when they are bullied because some of them commit suicide as a result of it.
Give your opinion on how to overcome bullying in form physical, verbal or through cyber bullying |
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Physical: To overcome such bullying, we don't need to go anywhere alone anymore, we need to always be in the midst of responsible and good people. Another thing is that we need to always report any cases of bullying that has to do with us, to our teachers, parents or guardians.
Verbal: To avoid such bullying just the way I did, ignore these bullies totally, don't laugh with them at all, but you can talk with them if they are brilliant and quite responsible. Don't tell everyone everything about you, keep some things as secret. Smile when they bully you so that they will see you as a strong person.
Cyber: Just reply with emojis if you want to reply to these people, once you see that they keep on bullying you, just block them and also report their account to the managers of the social media platform if you wish to
Hello @saintkelvin17 thank you for the invitation here.
From your story, i can see how you were bullied and evwn got depressed in the process. Its a realieve that you were able to overcome those times.
Bullying of any kind is not adviseable at all. I hate bullying.
We must teach our children to report any form of bullying at all to the teachers and also to us the parents.
I wish you success in this contest.
Good evening dear, how was your day? Back then in high school I was verbally bullied alot and this really affected me emotionally but I kept my feelings private.
Is not good to bully someone because they might end up commiting suicide because of depression. Thanks for the comment.
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Hello @saintkelvin17
Your courage in sharing your personal experience with bullying is truly commendable. Your resilience and determination to focus on your goals despite the verbal bullying showcase your strength. Your advice on overcoming different forms of bullying along with your commitment to guiding your siblings reflects wisdom and empath.. Keep inspiring others with your positive outlook and determination Wishing you continued success and strength on your journey...
Hello friend, thanks for your wonderful comment, I really had tough times in my days in high school. Am happy everything is over as am no longer in high school and am working very hard now in other not to be poor in the future.
Thanks for reading my post.
Thanks alot for the wonderful comment my friend, I really appreciate it, I really had a tough time then but am happy that everything went well at the ending.
I have been guiding my siblings as if they are my children and they all deserve my guidance. Thanks for the good wishes as well. I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.
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¡Saludos amigo!🤗
Bajo ningún concepto podemos permitir ser víctimas del bullying y tampoco, nosotros ser acosadores porque, este mal hábito hace daño daño y a nivel social, no transmite la buena educación humana que debemos tener los seres humanos hacia nuestros semejantes.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica, un fuerte abrazo💚
Saya sangat menyentuh dengan kisah anda semasa kecil yang menerima bullying secara verbal, sudah seharus bullying tidak dibalas karena hanya akan menghabiskan tenaga untuk melayani orang yang tidak penting. Tetap semangat...
Dealing with bullying requires resilience. Your experience highlights the impact of verbal bullying. Encouraging kids to report incidents and fostering empathy can mitigate its effects. Your advice for different forms of bullying is practical and underscores the importance of seeking support and staying composed. Valuable insights shared.
Yes, By putting these tactics into practice, people can be more equipped to prevent bullying and foster a more secure and courteous environment in a variety of situations. Children really need to know about the various dangers of bullying because if they are ignorant they will fully become victims of bullying.
I wish you good luck in this tough engagement challenge. Thanks for reading.
Bullying is an act that needs to be screen out.
It's interesting to know how you were bullied and how you've acted towards such situations.
Mine was verbal and physical that's during my childhood age.
Currently now, I can't give room for such to happen, once it starts I strike immediately by hitting the nail on the head and end it.
I can't withstand bullying nor see another being bullied.
Good luck sir
Thanks alot for your wonderful comment bro, we need to avoid being bullied.