We Fall, We Fail, We Learn, We Overcome, We Heal.......
Life continuously keeps throwing challenges at us. Every one is fighting their own battles at different stages of life. It is all about learning the lessons and progressing. There is nothing like I am stuck up forever in a situation. The stuck up is all only in the mind. If we decide to keep drowning we will for sure drown, but if we decide that we will learn to swim and move ahead, we will surely overcome the obstacles and progress.
Many a times we are stuck up in certain patterns, like that of failed relationships or constant health issues or problems at work place. All we need to do is pause, reflect and become mindful of our own actions. Where am I going wrong. If I am always having difficulty handling relations, is there something that needs a change in me? Till the time the learning does not happen, we will not be able to overcome the failure patterns and heal our self. We will fall, we will fail, but if we do not learn from our failure we will not overcome and we will not be able to heal those patterns.
For years I was stuck up in a pattern of failing at my work place, I did not have career progression for a very long time and I used to always blame my bosses and my company for it. I always use to feel, that everyone is being unfair to me. But the real problem was me, my ownself, the way I was handling my job and my own attitude and hence I was always failing. But from the time I realized and accepted that I was the one who was my own problem and I had to learn and overcome, things really started changing for me. And after that what I could not achieve in 10 years I achieved in a matter of 2 years. From my own life lessons I have learnt, there is nothing like a constant struggle or a constant fight in life. It will be there if the mind is stuck up to it. The moment we decide to liberate ourself, we will start flying and then sky is the limit. When the healing happens at one's core level the freedom is magnificent.
A lot of people get too much stuck up with drama in life, wanting self sympathy making everyone around them feel they are the victims all the time. There is a very simple saying "You attract what you Vibrate at" so if you attract these frequencies you will keep circling in it forever till you yourself do not want to raise up. What we keep feeding to ourself will keep coming back to us. If we continuously feed failure, that is all that will come.
Failures will happen, we will fall, but the more important is to get up learn, fight and overcome. No one can heal us but our own self. If we learn the art of healing our own bodies life will be peaceful, loving. Everything that we want to achieve will be possible. There is no need to be melodramatic all the time in life, just get up, kick it up and start moving fearlessly. Life happens to those who live with a open heart and mind.
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I believe we create the challenges for our own learning, rather than "life throwing them" at us. I also KNOW from my deepest heart that fighting is the last thing we should do. We need to breathe, release, appreciate, flow and relax. And we need to envision the world - and outcomes - our hearts seek.
Grateful for your courage, dear. Be gentler with yourself and it will be easier.
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Thank you my dear for your wise words, which are so very insightful. I see you have come a very long way in the experience of life and have so much to share. Love and Hugs :-)