YOU ARE THE OWNER OF YOUR HAPPINESS; NOT BY THE SURROUNDINGS

Hello Steemiens,

Just thought to share some positive vibes as it is weekend, Please read on some happy thoughts from a happy mind.

What Does happiness means?

Happiness is a subject that has been put on research to identify what exactly it means for a long long time, all over the world by scientists. researches, scholars, philosophers, pschycologist.

Does happiness level for each person remain same except at the stages when they used to experience that excitement like being in a party, getting into the pocession of some material stuffs they were longing for a long time?

The fact is that as there is saying like There is no light without mentioning what is Darkness, or say Darkness is complete absence of Light where as it can also be consider like THERE IS NO HAPPINESS WITHOUT SADNESS. Different people face sadness across their life which cast a shadow of sadness in them.

Every individual's ultimate aim in this universe whether it is male or female is To Be Happy Always. But can they? A naturally creating mood to being in a happy state of mind is always out of the reach for many people even if they would like to.

Can people set a bar for themselves to be happy always, I doubt. though it is one of the easiest way to do. Is happiness means more money one have?, or The car they wish to buy or the home they were dreaming for quite some time? or The executive designation in the job profile which the society look with jealousy. A positive YES answer seems to be the right one, is it?

But it never works out in that way. If it is work out in that way this world might had been more lovely to live with. The fact is that human beings are not used to be in a frame to keep the same level of happiness for the rest of their life once they achieved what they were wanted to get for a long long time. Most of the cases the level of happiness of people - say after buying a new car or a home - gradually decreases and over the period of time they would be back in the same state of mind. So in such cases do the material pocession is equal to happiness-

No, it is a state of mind they themselves creating for. The logic is such that we are unable to control the causes of what happens to the outer world for making us happy or sad. For example disasters occurring due natural calamity or even in the case of one of our dear one losing in an exam, most people in such scenerio gets disappointed, feels sad or in other words lose happiness.

Even I do same and feel same, but was it in our control to avoid it or was there any benifit of being in a sad state of mind by losing our happiness in such circumstances when we cannot control anything on the basic cause for it. So was it better to understand this and remain happy rather than losing sleep over it?

Also modern life is making many people selfish, most of them are filled with negativity and those who wish to remain in always happy try to identify such people and avoid their company.

I would like to conclude that Happiness can be certainly achieved, a person van be creator of his own happiness.

EVERY INDIVIDUAL IN THIS WORLD TO DESERVES TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS

Hope you all liked it and please let me know your thoughts.

Warm Wishes

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