Sometimes, It Happens IV, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2 and part 3.
He should also speak with his own father. He should apologize for disappointing him. He is his father after all, he would feel sad and down but he is still his son in the end. It is an addition to the family; the expecting baby, if not babies, even though it was totally unplanned.
Finally, he should also speak with his own mother. Mothers will always be mothers and she might be the only one who might see things differently from the others; call it mothers’ instinct. Her love won’t magically dwindle because he made this mistake. He might even not utter a word while apologizing to the mother and just allow the tears to flow, she will relate well with her son; even the spoken and the unspoken words, she understands.
Also, he needs to be more gentle and careful with his girlfriend, especially at a time as this where she needs all the supports she can get. People will look at her differently, her hormones will be on the high, and she will need more assurance that she is not alone in this. She is at a delicate stage where a lot is going on in her head as well as her body, and she needs to know this won’t change anything major in her feelings for him and also his feelings for her.
She will have another shape now, she will grow a little fat and she needs to know she is still a darling to him regardless of these changes to every aspect of her life. It means a lot to her because she will probably feel this more too. She is sad and devastated as her life has to be temporarily on hold for these new changes to be gotten used to. She has to stop her own education for a while and the guy needs to still continue with his own. It hurts her and that is why I said she would feel this more.
The guy also needs to cut off some tiny holes. He should be careful not to do things that would offend her; like picking her calls on time when she needs him. If he couldn’t pick by the virtue of being in a class, a text would help and he should call back as fast as he can. He doesn’t want to make her feel he robbed her of her own education for the time being, even though they both made the mistake together; we all know how ladies think at the spur of the moment.
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
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A very wonderful word, my dear
Mothers are essential in our lives
We can not do without them
Exactly. They see things differently and view things with a better perspective. They are priceless and a rare jewel.
Shit happens and it pains when it happens. Yes he need to apologize to his parent and best thing for his parent is to meet with his girlfriend parent and know their mind
Exactly. Good point. He needs to apologize to the parents and afterwards ask his parents to meet with them to discuss things over. Communication and cool heads would be better in this case.