Sometimes, It Happens III, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1 and part 2.
Naturally, both set of parents would be disappointed to say the least. This was something they never planned for or expected. It altered their own plans for their respective children. On one part, they will think they have failed too, especially if they are well known people with some reputation to protect, especially when it comes to moral or spiritual issues.
I think he needs to go to the parents and tell them he is sorry. That shows his character to address issues head on and also never to shy from responsibilities. The parents love him; they see him as a son too, so he should approach them as his parents too. Of course the parents wouldn’t think he exploited her because not only were they in the know about the relationship, but because they love him just as a son too. They have practically watched him grow over the years and it was good votes of confidence from them to allow him date their daughter, even that early. They know things happen between boys and girls and they would desperately wish it wouldn’t be their daughter.
Like I was saying, he should go to the father of his girlfriend and apologize to him. He would obviously show his disappointment but he will appreciate the honour. They will talk it over during their golf training sessions but the reality they will both come to is, they will soon be a grandfather. He should show his character since they have shown faith in him in the first place. He should go and meet with this man and apologize. He shouldn’t wait for them to find out by themselves, if they haven’t already.
Then he needs to also go to the mother and apologize. She might relate a little bit since she is a woman herself but that doesn’t mean she won’t feel disappointed and look at him with the kind of look that shows you have stolen something from her, but she will appreciate the fact that he is not sweeping things under the rug and he showed responsibility.
…to be continued…
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Why he should appologize?? Only because he made the girl pregnant without the parents consent. Or because their parent feel awkward of being into a grandparent too early. Everyone know they love each other. And loving does not mean that they keep moving around here and there holding their hand. Such thing do happen when the boys and girls were confident enough to carry on the relation till the end.....this thing may come up may be in bext 2 years..how then they going to deal with. I am feeling glad that the boys were taking up the responsibility bold and not backing off...great👍
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Yes, it delights me to know he is not shying away from responsibilities. It helps in the long run and shows his character as a man. How they handle this would prove to be how long they would last together since emotions would be high right now and disappointments apparent.
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Yes they both need apology to make and that should happen from the guy first then the lady and it should happen in time so the two parents would come together and plan what next
Yes, that shows they are aware of their mistakes and only when you lift your hands can you be helped. They need to apologize, then reach a logical conclusion on this matter.
I think what has happened is now they need a plan because both of them have made the mistake that they think are equal criminals.Now the families of the two sit together and have a plan that I think will be good later.
Now, for the release of frustration in their frustration for the work they have done, I think that they are sitting together in a plan or settlement of their families, so that they do not have any problems later because they will suffer the biggest disappointment in this direction. She is that lady because she is pregnant.