Sometimes, It Happens, Contributed By @olawalium.
As usual, I recently heard a story about a guy who has been a childhood friend to this particular lady. Well, I heard it today as I feel like sharing this with you all.
They have been childhood friends and more so, family friends. The parents from both sides have taken the opposite children as their own. You know how love sometimes happen with family friends that are blessed with children that likes each other and got close to each other? That is exactly what happened. The children grew fond of each other and they started dating.
Both parents were aware and they gave their okay to the relationship. They are their son and daughter after all. They both got into the University at the same time and the same university for that matter. The fathers play golf together too and were quite close as I pointed out earlier. Everyone seems to know the children together in school as well. Wherever the guy is, you will always find the lady too; more like 5 and 6 thing (quite inseparable). You know how the childhood love hooks us and turn our heads too back then. It is always a lovely thing to behold, when you see people like this.
They are presently in their second year at the university when she got pregnant. The boyfriend impregnated her girlfriend and they weren’t both ready for it, obviously. They are confused, lost and disappointed if not embarrassed and really don’t know what to do to turn things around. He is not ready to allow her abort that baby because he loves her so much and wouldn’t want to put her through such an ordeal, especially being their first issue together too. He has owned up to the responsibility and seeking for ways on how to go about the whole thing.
In the next post, I will be sharing my own thoughts on it and I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this matter too. It was a mistake, and it can happen to anyone. No human is infallible under the right circumstances, it only take extra consciousness and effort.
…to be continued…
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I don't think there is anything to do than to take the responsibility. He's now a father, they should get them married
It was totally unplanned for and it is normal for him to feel angry and also a bit of panic. This is the time to show support to the lady and show support. This is when she needs him.
Another real life instancd...Family friendlier love....quite good to see how the things unfold. When the families were ready and boys/girls. Though they get into a family of own...not sure how the things will move from here...waitibg for @olawalium take on this.
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Yes, they got into the family of their own quite early and the parents would be disappointed. With apologies and the love they have for these children, i hope it shines through and they give them support because stuffs like this can cause issues between both families as they would start pointing blames.
She should avoid sex before marriage. That is a shameful act in my religion. I have a lot of girlfriends but i never had sex with anyone. Why i spoil her character. I don't like it.
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Yes, their moral perspective is brought into question here. They were let down by their emotions and their view as to what sex is matters.
They should not have done such a thing before the wedding, so now I think they reached any conclusions because now the biggest problem is that the woman is pregnant because she is pregnant.Though the man will not have more problems, but considering the woman, I think they should get married.Now marriage is their only way.
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I think they should marry in a fast time. They can not be restored because of the work they have done. In my religion, this work is seen as shocking.