Sad fishy investing

in #investing5 years ago

We just arrived back home from our night away on a boat and our daughter went down to sleep pretty easily considering she slept for an hour in the car already. It is about 3 hours past her bedtime though and last night it was around midnight that she fell asleep too. Sleeping rhythms might be a bit out of whack for a few days no doubt.

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One surprising thing happened during the trip and that is my wife's nephew asked me about investing into crypto and by the look in his eye, I am being very wary. Of course I am going to help him, but there was that "quick money" gleam and I will try to make sure he doesn't fall into the trap that so many others do - there is very little quick money in this world.

I don't want him to end up a sad fishy.


Interlude:
My wife was getting something from the car and an old drunk guy just attacked her outside our building and I went out to have a word. My mood has changed a little since 3 minutes ago. Finland is a cesspit of bad drunken behavior accepted by culture, but I don't play that shit.


Where was I...

So... The problem is much like this guy explained where his friend heard that Bitcoin was going up, put all the money he could into it and then watched it fall and he "lost everything". First rule, don't ever invest what you can't afford to lose completely. Sad fishy otherwise.

People his age are looking for shortcuts to wealth and rarely do they couple their aspirations with a healthy understanding of the work put in or temper it with risk modeling. It is easy to say, "I know it is risky" before the feeling of losing 90% of the value over the space of a few months hits. I have tried to explain the volatility briefly, but I will get into this with him later. Watching the markets drop by 30% just after buying... Sad fishy.

He is working hard and getting paid "okay" considering his age and his girlfriend is working too, but they have just both moved out of home and are a young couple looking to have a life, as they should. This is why I suggested that he puts a small amount away each week or month that is his investment money and make sure that whatever he spends it on, it is something he believes is going to go up in value.

I tried to explain to him in basic terms how debt works and how it traps people in and I will explain this further with him later but, I hope he understands it enough now. I also used the question, how much have you bought in the last year that you expect is going to go up in value? The answer for nearly everyone in this world is; nothing and he was no different.

I don't know how much you hold in investments or ho old you are, but imagine being able to go back to being 20 and putting 5 or 10% of whatever you earned into some kind of investment that you expected to increase in value. Some might be traditional low-yield, some might be in more high risk or startup and crypto areas but, you would likely be better off for it. Not only would you probably have a higher worth, you would also have a much better understanding of investing than most people and have a habit that facilitates the investing mindset o powering up.

Unfortunately, too many are sad fishies.

It is going to be interesting to slow down and spend some time with him and I am of course going to onboard him to Steem, but I am going to also teach him the things that I didn't understand when I first started, which is everything.

This industry is expanding rapidly even though most people in it think it is running at a crawl and it is funny to hear someone say, "It is probably too late to get into crypto and make a profit" without that person understanding the tech, the possibilities, the use cases and just how few people are currently "in crypto" today.

When is too late?

I don't think there is a too late because not only are there going to be so many people coming in, everyone is eventually going to be in and there is still going to be opportunities, just like there are opportunities in this world now to start up and invest into new businesses all the time. What I do believe is that those who are actually going to be able to take advantage of blockchain and crypto industries will be similar types of people who are able to create and take opportunities now.

There are many opportunities but for most who look for quick money, they are likely to be sad fishies along the way as either they will sell early or get burned in FOMO at some point. Perhaps it is a good lesson to experience it a little at least, but again, don't invest what is needed to live upon.

I will finish it up here as while my mood has improved a little, my head isn't where it should be. On a happier note, my daughter is awesome and when asked what two soft toys she wanted to choose from a large selection on the boat, she chose a dachshund she called "Riski" (we have a dachshund named Viski) and the fish she called "Kala Karvonen" (Fish hairyish). In her games with them, the fish cries a lot and she tries to cheer it up so it isn't always a sad fishy.

Well, it is very late. Time for bed.
I promise to catch up with the comments I have missed over the last few days tomorrow.

Taraz
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"It is probably too late to get into crypto and make a profit"

This is what a lot of people think when they enter the space, Including myself. Then I came to realize that as long as fiat lives crypto has infinite potential.

Thinking it's too late to get into crypto is like thinking it's too late to invest in iPhones when 99% of the population still uses a flip phone.

Even when Fiat is dead and gone crypto will still increase in value, as it is impossible for centralized authorities like the Fed to inflate gains away from the community and back to the top of the pyramid.

The impending paradigm shift is going to be bigger than anything humanity has ever seen in it's entire history. It might be on par with going from hunter/gathering to farming. Imagine the change in lifestyle and the ability to scale.

Thinking it's too late to get into crypto is like thinking it's too late to invest in iPhones when 99% of the population still uses a flip phone.

This is a good way to imagine it I think.

The impending paradigm shift is going to be bigger than anything humanity has ever seen in it's entire history.

I am certain there are going to be many conflicts along the way but I am hoping at least that this time it will swing the pendulum in the other direction. The biggest challenge is the trained mindset of the average.

Wise advice. Easy comes, easy goes.

Interesting interlude. So, did you fight the guy? And we thought that latinos were the most impertinent drunks :)

No actual fight. He was too drunk, but he took a swing and got a little push back.

I used to recommend certain coins for my relatives in the bull market. Then you know what happened when the bear market came...

So now I don't want to be anyone's financial adviser anymore.

I completely understand understand that abd The ground rules are going to be firm.

Invest what you believe in and most importantly, understand that in long term, it will appreciate but short term wise, better don’t expect much. Short term players require a lot of effort to do all the buy and sell which then increase the risk as well (unless they have bots to assist). As for me, I go for long term, putting bits by bits on things that I believe in like Steemit :) putting some fiat to invest and also my time to build the profile. Well, since I joined until now, it had grown quite a lot, not to what I expected but at least is not a total loss. So Steem on :)

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As for me, I go for long term, putting bits by bits on things that I believe in like Steemit :) putting some fiat to invest and also my time to build the profile.

I think this is a good approach as it puts skin in the game but also channels of discovery and activity of use case.

Learning from the gurus here. It definitely helps when we believe and put effort to build something. Thanks being consistently here to inspire too 😎

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He's a smart guy and with some help from you will get on track I reckon. Will be good to see him on steem. So many looking for reward with no effort these days...Sounds good in theory but in reality not so much.

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I am going to onboard him slow and set his expectation for return low. I think he might enjoy playing a game or two and slowly learning the ropes.

Yeah, good plan. He's a good lad, and you're a good Yoda. 🤣

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A new Finn to Steem? @suomibotti will be happy :)

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Hope so. :)

Bah I hope your wife is okay and that you were able to move the tool along with minimal trouble. I don't like aggressive/angry drunks >_< (happy drunks are at least amusing even if they are mildly annoying)

Too late is when you're dead (or incapacitated which I think is worse).

I still didn't have money at 20 to have been able to buy anything that anyone else would have considered an investment.

So was "it's not fast money" the first thing you told him? XD

Many aggressive and obnoxious drunks here. I am a happy drunk.

I still didn't have money at 20 to have been able to buy anything that anyone else would have considered an investment.

Just think about a some BTC at 10 cents, Steem at 7. How much was really needed to invest and benefit and how much went on drinks :D

So was "it's not fast money" the first thing you told him? XD

Yes. :D

Didn't have much drinks at 20 because I didn't have much money XD

Crypto is spreading like wildfire, I think that it's necessary to implement more financial and investing education in Mid school students. If Crypto does go main stream we will need to educate the population to properly handle all the subtleties of this wonderful ecosystem.

Best regards.

I think that it's necessary to implement more financial and investing education in Mid school students.

I have a feeling why it isn't included now and as a result, I think it is up to parents to larn and set an example. Most don't.

Is your wife OK? I couldn't finish reading your post without asking you this first.

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Yes, she is okay -thanks for asking. I made sure before I went downstairs.

Phew... Now I can read the rest of your post at peace (abundance and liberty). 😀

:)

I agree with your interlude.
Our country, Finland is a cesspool of bad behaving drunk people.

In other means, I believe that investing in cryptocurrencies isn't too late. And I am inspired by this Steemit community and it's giving me a chance to invest in myself and in cryptocurrency

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Welcome in, it isn't too late by a very long way. Still another 7 billion people to join into the crypto festivities.

Have you met up with @suomibotti yet? @apsu?

Thanks a lot for the welcoming in.

I have met @suomibotti and I follow him.
And as I looked at @apsu I begun to follow him(?) also.

And seems like a lot of people are intimated by cryptocurrencies, and I was ready to jump in and take a chance if I saw an opportunity like Steemit gives.

Also Steemit isn't that known, I'm on YouTube and my 60 subscribers didn't make a sound when I talked about this in there.

I'm going to try to invite them here, but I am not at all sure if they will come.
For example, nowhere else it will take 7 - 14 days to get an account or pay for it.
And I know that I can invite them by paying, but I have been in only 10 days.

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Do you have a discord account?

https://discordapp.com

my discord:
tarazkp
#5792

I can set you up with some accounts for free when you are ready.

Hey Tarazkp, I hope that I won't wake you up now. Although I've woken up at 4.30 and can't sleep.
And I am in the discord app, by the name Brandnameora

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