People Who Are Always Silent Not Because They Don't Talk

*God created man varies from one to another, from appearance, nature to behavior. There are high, fat, nose-shaped, round-faced, and so forth. There are also those who have anger, patience, relaxed, chatty to calm.*

For those of you who have a quiet nature, during this time you are often associated with a hard figure hanging out, introvert, like to be alone and so forth. Though not everything like that. Just because it rarely tells stories, does not mean introvert, just because not like hanging out does not mean social, and because lazy chat also does not mean aloof. This is what you might feel as a quiet person as well.

In addition to bad labels hanging out, you are often considered anti social. Although the assessment can not be based on estimates, people should know you first before embedding labels. You are just different from most people who can easily laugh or talk at length with anyone. Because you are often confused to find people who can connect if spoken to, whether to like or have the same hobby. And when you feel comfortable with others, you can be a funny person.

Sometimes you do not care about people who are busy taking care of your social life. Because they are more wrong and pretentious. They say you have no friends. There is also a very easy saying if you like a picky friend. Although this is just a matter of personal principle, you choose to have few friends, but your friendship qualifies. There is no such thing as a friend of a friend. No one also ngakunya friends but in the back menjelek-ugly. Moreover, there are times when it is needed. The friend you have is obviously of a high loyalty, who can be invited to learn to improve and share.

I am so quiet, you are often labeled as arrogant or shy. But these qualities are not in you. You are the only person who would prefer to refrain from speaking, if the situation and conditions are not correct. Like being in a bad mood. Or when you are in a new environment, where you need to adapt first. While in an environment you already know intimate, yes your attitude is like most people, who can tell a long story or laugh.

The most calm in the social environment does not mean you do not know anything, but there are times when you are less comfortable with their chat material.

In addition to the fact that you match people in the search for friends, the choice of topics also often influences you to hang out while socializing with friends. When you feel less like the topic being discussed, you tend to choose to silence rather than pretend to be interested in the theme of the chats. Especially the themes that are too often discussed.

Likewise in other discussion forums such as community. Often your silence is misinterpreted as your lack of attention to the conversation. The reality is not like that, you like to observe and do not like to ask whether it is not really important. In addition, because you are lazy to argue in public, more comfortable when talking directly to the concerned.

Those are some quiet things that people rarely know about. Many assumptions people who actually wrong address. One thing for sure is that the quiet man is a great observer. In silence he often observes all things, so do not be surprised if you have a lot of knowledge though rarely talked about.

***Thank you for those of you who have read my writing, and hopefully my writing can be useful to you, also motivate you. greetings from me @ shin-hana, happy to be useful to others.***