* It seems fashionable not to say what we feel *
It seems that nowadays we play not to show what we like, not to throw ourselves out of fear of rejection, to wait for the other to tell us what it feels like to say it. It seems that we play to that we do not care who we have next, to live on tiptoe with fear to deepen. It seems fashionable not to say what we feel.
It scares us to have to show our soul, to have to strip to see who we really are. We are terrified to teach our fears and touch souls; let us fall and have someone hold us. We are so afraid to cross the surface of everything that surrounds us that we prefer to shut up and shield ourselves behind a shell.
It seems fashionable not to say I love you. How many times have we said it today? How many people do we really want? Surely more than we have said today. Not saying what we feel does not protect us from anything, it simply covers our mouths but does not diminish our feelings.
Not saying what we feel is not a good fashion because it takes us away from ours and prevents us from showing what we want and who we love. Saying what we feel should never go out of style.
The fear of saying what we feel
The fear of expressing ourselves, of releasing our deepest feelings is a defense mechanism. A way to protect ourselves from disappointment and the feeling of abandonment and, in short, to feel vulnerable. It is normal for us to say we love you when we start a relationship or that we are happy about it and hopefully it lasts forever. Like to thank the love that our loved ones give us. Even sometimes we do not because we think they already know, but what's wrong with saying what we feel?
What we do not say stays stuck in us, forming a knot that sometimes hurts. What we do not say persecutes us and makes us burdens because it makes us prisoners of ourselves, since it takes us away from the people we love and disconnects us from our emotions.
Let this fashion pass by now. Let's end the relationships of not showing love as we want, those in which they think they know everything without talking. Let us try to say it and prove it, to show our interior, to undress the soul. Let's remove our armor. Let us open ourselves without defenses to show others what is inside us.
It may be late tomorrow
What are we waiting for to tell the other that we love him? What are we waiting to launch and see what happens? A rejection is always better than an eternal doubt about what would have happened. Showing what we feel does not make us worse, weak or ignorant, just the opposite. Saying what we feel makes us free, authentic and sincere because we show ourselves as we are, let us see our essence.
Do not wait until tomorrow, let's not let time pass. Let's not make it easier for someone to get ahead of us. Let's say it Let's express what our heart feels and show everything that we carry inside. The fashion of not saying what we feel ends when we choose to do it. Do not forget it.
Say what we feel and feel what we say, the connection is bidirectional, that is, it is not cut in any of the parts. Let's try to show ourselves and free ourselves. Let's let go of that which burns, that invades us and that wants to go out. Let's try to say what we feel and experience as calm takes hold of us having managed to overcome fear. Having managed to be as we are and feel ...
"We think too much and feel too little." --Charlie Chaplin
Indeed, if one does not express their feelings because of thinking too much about how will others think, then what else to expect? Humans are beings that live in groups - if we fail to even express our feelings, it's almost impossible for us to communicate properly and reach further goals as we are already trapped within our own heads.
Nice writing :D
P/s: This is not a vlog, use the tag "blog" instead :) and if possible, cite the sources of your images too.
good comment .. thanks for the advice of the label I have always had problems with them to choose which label to put my publication .. and what of the images at the end of the post I always say where I take the images
Ah sorry, I didn't notice the "from public domain" thing down there :)
We are silent for fear of the reaction of others, for fear of showing what we feel, but in the end those who feel bad are us. If we do not say what we think or what we feel other people will not be able to guess and we will feel worse and worse
Inspirational very well written