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in #writing7 years ago

I am not a nice guy or the type that takes last at all. I didn't come to this conclusion just by stumbling on it. I prefer to call it the realization of a dude who mistook a barefaced lack of game for niceness and thought that being nice is the main reason his affection weren't compensated as much as he gave them. You see I lacked, I was a brother with no game at all. In secondary school, I was even voted the most likely to get friendzoned. Pardon me! I glory in self depreciation.


As you can see, there is this notion that being nice means being a pushover. Especially in the cases of relationship, being the nice guy means it involves hanging around the lady that you definitely have feelings for and not letting her know about it(Fool she isn't a telepathic mutant). It entails of waiting and waiting till it's too late for one to tell her. It also consists of not making that sharp move that one time both of you was alone and she had this whole mood of anticipation, yet as a shege when u leaned in, you gave her this bumbling Jehovah witness hug instead of kissing her like she thought you will do. This days, Niceness has been approximated to the lack of Balls. It's the designated home of an idiot who does a lot of things for ladies without expecting anything in return. It's not as if we all guys do things for ladies expecting things in return( what am I even saying,an now confused?)

You and this lady, u are being nice to her, listening to her talk about Jennifer's Diary and how her friends pissed her off, you keep doing all the most gentlemanly things and blowing loads and loads of cash along the way. So long as you feel there is this "Give and Take" or some sortha type of nice guy karma that is a benefit to doing all of that. The blunt truth is that you are just being nice so that you can end up getting laid and this doesn't make you a nice guy at all. And this in the end doesn't count as game.

I'm writing this because at in the early days of Monsieur Hamzeto, he was a timid introverted shy dude with a zero sense of game. I'm still the same in some ways except when there is this spark or ginger in the my system, then I'm sleek, static and kinetic friction is zero and I gat no drag. Either ways what's my point? Stop being nice? Not at all!! If u actually a genuine nice person, keep it up, be a gentleman there is nothing wrong with that. Mix the niceness with assertiveness, wit, style and be yourself and you will court that lady you have your eyes on.  Asstalavista....

With all that's being said!
What's is your own views of a nice guy?
Does he wash ur undies?
Do being nice comes with a cut of no game?
Do nice guys take last?

 


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A nice guy is nothing negative
A nice guy is one that respects his lady
A nice guy is one that cares
A nice guy is everything sweet

The nice guy gets the heart break 😃

Of course nice guys finish last... in the bedroom anyway

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Just good to hear

Bad!
Bahdo!!
Baddest!!!
Were do you fit in among d bad guys?? 😂

I love nice guys.They love you and care about you genuinely with nothing expected in return.They feel what you feel and want to help.They go through fire for friends.We have nice guys here in steemit , that i know.

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