Now what women! don't play with us men, we smart too!

No, we aren't. We are dumb. You told her, that wasn't smart. She would have never told you.

Sorry, that is the wrong tact for me to take, lets try this better.
Men and woman have different smarts. Men its things, and women its people.

The way your baby-mama acted towards you was calculated. The amount of bitchiness was computed by a whole slew of emotional inputs. And if she broke into your phone, she would never have told you. She may not even confess when you catch her with your phone.

The whole thing about not prying into other peoples shit, that is a man thing. That is honor between men. That has no value in the women's world. Women will assume you have gone through their phone. And, so, remember that, when a woman is telling you a story, she has made it up assuming you have gone through her phone. She will get away with what she can get away with.

Having been a computer tech, most people's passwords are stupidly easy to figure out.