No pressure, it’s just learning

in #unschooling5 years ago

Something happened today that was a real turning point in our families unschooling adventure.

Today, my 5 year old son drew this.

(a clock tower)

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Now, to anybody else this might look like a very very average kids drawing with no discernible qualities, other than a kid drew it.

Whoop-de-doo Ash. Nice one. Whataboutit?

Well the moment he showed this to me was the moment a fire lit inside and I felt a huge sense of pride (and a pinch of relief)

You see, home education (or unschooling as we choose as our particular lifestyle path) is hard to explain to other people.
It doesn’t make sense to them. It can look like chaos and be difficult for most to try and define.

But my 5 year old drew that picture today.

He has never been to school or class - but that doesn’t mean he won’t learn.
The thing is he WANTS to learn. He is so hungry.
And this drawing is the first example to me of some bigger developments to come.

He did that drawing 100% on his own, of his own idea, completely unaided and completely unprompted. He just said “Let’s play a game. I’ll draw something and you guess what it is”.

And so, from memory he drew the tower and the proceeded to spontaneously write the numbers 1 to 12
(well, ‘21’ on this occasion, but you know what he meant, right?)

He said the numbers were a measure of how tall the tower was.

I haven’t seen him write more than two or three numbers on a page before, and I didn’t even know he could remember the shapes. But he did.

You see; my son has been quietly working away, building his understanding of the numbers. Thinking about how they look and what they represent.
All to himself.

No pressure, no fanfare, no gold stars.

Just quietly figuring this crazy world out that exists around him.

And when he was ready he could show us what he could do.
That is very powerful.

Learning is everywhere. I mean everywhere.
We do activities at home, that are all child led, on any subject - sometimes around numbers and letters, but mostly on wildlife and exotic animals.

He wants to learn and he can learn - and he certainly has proved that right now he doesn’t need anyone to tell him HOW to learn. ❤️

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Hey @ashtv! Keep being the primary educator in son's life and the biggest advocate for his continued learning.

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Really awesome.

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It just goes to show that kids will learn well at their own pace. It's funny really that we don't consider how much psychological effect that the pressured environment of school can have on kids, especially those who're introverted, creative or just think differently.

I remember hating school for the best part of 3 years before something clicked in my mind and it all became a lot easier right at the end of infants. I often wonder what it would have been like if I could have learned intuitively.

I respect you for choosing to school your son at home 👍

Thanks for the thoughtful comment @raj808.
We too believe that school is too much too young. It can, and does, work for older kids, but the pressures aren’t worth the undertaking.
Children who don’t fit, those who are extremely creative, have different ways of seeing the world or just need more time to take things in tend to suffer more.

Not to knock school - it works for some and not for others, and I’m sure if my boy wants the school experience when he is ready and understanding then he can.

But for now, he’s doing just fine 💪🏻

The drive to learn is hard to resist! 😁

Can’t stop someone who’s hungry to know more

Thanks - he’s a brilliant kid

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That a really cool story. It's pretty cool how kids learn, especially when they have a bit more freedom to learn naturally in a way that suits them - not like being forced to learn a certain way like what can happen in the education system. The picture is really cool to. Sounds like a happy and proud moment for you.

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Absolutely - it’s all about not applying that pressure. It’s learning at their own pace, in a way that they can understand the world around them.
It’s sometime fascinating to watch them piece the puzzle together all by themselves

This is a lovely post, there's so much in here, I don't know where to start. Maybe the social and organising skills to suggest and carry out a game, the idea of measuring and concepts like tall and imagining units of measurement - and ranging them from small to large - never mind drawing and memory! Lovely! 😊

You’re absolutely right - the concepts of using units to measure the scale of something is really amazing too and should be acknowledged!

Awesome brother....simply awesome. Put a huge smile on my face. My son loves being out of the system and having dad as teacher. Congrats brother! You are doing an amazing job!!!

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