How I found part of my family on Steemit - The Alliance - and how to joinsteemCreated with Sketch.

in #thealliance7 years ago (edited)

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Hi All,

I am very sure that you have come across a post or two or more in the last while or so that highlighted a group that you may be unaware of, called The Alliance. Now, a while back I mentioned how I thought about making a video to tell people how finding this group changed my view here on Steemit. I never got around to it and thought it over and decided that even if I am not making a video now I will at least share my experience and all for those who are looking to belong somewhere.

How I found The Alliance

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In all honesty, I didn't find them. They found me. I started writing on Steemit in July 2017, so about 6 months ago, and I had gone ahead and been commenting and really trying to figure myself out on this platform as to be honest I have never blogged. So, since I tended to be making myself go towards things that I had never done before or that made me uncomfortable, I went ahead and joined in a Karaoke contest that was run by @killerwhale. Why did I do this? Because I have loved to sing since I was a little girl but have always been shy about doing so in front of people by myself. In my 20's I would regularly go to a karaoke bar and sing one or two songs but was always nervous even when doing so. However, as time went on I got a bit more comfortable.

Now, just before I joined Steemit I wanted, and made myself get out of my comfort zone and did something that I was really unsure about, and that was me putting myself on video and putting it up on the internet for the whole world to see. To some that may not seem like a big deal but it was to me at the time and I even share that in some earlier posts on my blog, but anyways, I decided to push that further and do 2 things that scared me...putting myself on video AND singing, all of which were going to put me again on the internet possibly in front of other people who watch, who can judge. That cracked open my shell and I repeated that. Apparently, after that initial song, I was then being watched by a few from The Alliance. Then it happened, a couple of weeks or so after that original karaoke submission, I happened to comment on a post of one of the people I follow and I was then invited to check The Alliance out. I will be honest, I wasn't sure at the time if I wanted to align with a group. I wasn't really familiar with too many groups at the time and wasn't seeing how it could be any different from a few of the ones I had heard of. I also will admit I had come into Steemit with a tad bit of a chip on my shoulder, wanting to do it my way and solo and thinking that if you put the work in it will be enough to skyrocket you up. Please note that you can be alone on this platform and do well if you comment and put tons of time in and people are interested in what you write enough. Having said that though, I will say...WHY? Why make yourself be alone when that really isn't necessary and the alternative (even if you are unaware of it) is better?

Having thought about the opportunity to join a group, I decided to take the chance and felt that it could definitely help me, so I joined. What follows that will be one word...WOW.

How The Alliance changed my life and view on Steemit

I won't sit here and say that I ONLY follow or interact with people from The Alliance, but I will say that I have definitely found some family that I never thought I would have. I have made wonderful relationships with people that I probably wouldn't have had the chance to come across in any lifetime. I have been so overwhelmingly supported in so many ways because I came in with a full heart and wanted to support as much as I can and found such a great group of people that I genuinely vibe with.

I have seen so much support, so much love, so much caring come out of this group of people that it is phenomenal. We have people from all walks of life, different areas of the world, different languages, different interests and things we all write and share, it is a wonderfully diverse family community.

So, other than meeting people that I wouldn't have come across and made fantastic relationships, you are probably wondering how The Alliance changed my life here on Steemit, so I will tell you. I have gained confidence in having such strong support behind me. I have learned additional skills because those around me knew more and helped encourage and teach me along the way. I have become a better leader because I was so invested in this group that I became one of the leaders of the Alpha Syndicate of #thealliance. I got more comfortable in front of the camera and with my singing and am now one of the judges of the karaoke contest (which I take very seriously I might add). I had support when I started my Art Contest which is now in week 15, whether through members resteeming and some even donating to it, as well as it being cross-promoted on other contests. I have been entered for contests and wildly supported. I also received so much love when I was Feature member that is nearly brought me to tears. I have had the opportunity to input my opinion during meetings, to pursue and collaborate in musical endeavors, as well as begin my own radio show. I have become a better content creator, a better Steemian as a whole, and been able to go after dreams that I had wanted when joining here and now actually see them coming to fruition. I might also add that I am just warming up, so keep a lookout.

How can you join The Alliance?

First off I will start by saying that you will get as much out of this group as you put into it. If you are coming to join this community, no, let's say family group and you are coming just for yourself so that you can get better and do better and make more money and have no interest in supporting others, then this group is not for you. Do we all want to do well? Of course! Do we all want to get better, be more popular, make a bit more Steem and such? Of course! But, you will do the best if you are genuinely here to find your home. To find your group, your place, and it shows by the enthusiasm you bring, the support you also show as you will be shown. I just thought it would be better to get that out of the way.

So, let's say you are enthusiastic, and you want to find your place/home and a family type group, and you want to do better and get better and support others and make genuine friendships, then I say...What the heck are you doing still reading this?! Get your butt over to us and come join in!

I suppose after all this long winded post that I should tell you how to do that. Here we go...

  • Get ready to make a post/or make a post first totally up to you.
  • In this post, which is essentially an application to join us, we ask that you answer these 3 questions, and feel free to add whatever else you want too to show us additionally who you are and share your enthusiasm, but at a minimum these:
  1. How did you find #thealliance?
  2. Why do you want to be here (in the alliance)?
  3. What qualities do you have that would make you a valued member of the family?
  • Come into one of the Syndicates and post your link in the applications room in order to be considered to become a member

Come join one of the 3 Syndicates we have (Alpha, Beta, or Gamma)


Alpha Syndicate is run by @topkpop (me) and @saffisara - Join me at the Alpha Syndicate here

Beta Syndicate is the Spanish speaking group run by @sol25 and @leyargoz - Join Beta here

Gamma Syndicate is run by @tattoodjay and @edthecanadian - Join Gamma here


Want to hear what other members say as well? Check out these posts

#thealliance who what why and how
Why I Joined the Alliance
La Familia Thealliance, Quiénes somos? Family Thealliance, Who we are?
Why I Joined #thealliance - Wait, What?
#thealliance
My #thealliance Thoughts!


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Great post makes me want to join 😎

Joking aside this is so well written

hehe, I wonder if I could steal you from Gamma..shhh don't tell them. :P Well thank you, I am glad and I hope people can see how much I appreciate it all. Very very happy to have met you and wonder if it wasn't for #thealliance if I would've, of course, I can't think like that cause then my world would be more grey and without such amazing photographic pieces to admire.

Your always so sweet how you put up with a grump old man like me

I am sure Gamma would be happy fir me to move to Alpha 😎

It sure comes across on your post how appreciative you are without a doubt

Psht! Grumpy old man?! Are we talking about the same person? Please, no way are you in those categories. Hehe, Gamma would at least partly crumble without you, although I would steal you in a heartbeat.

No Gamma would be fine but of course I have to stick in Gamma
Would be like a captain deserting his ship and it’s not even sinking lol

Sorry dude, we have standards... 😁

ohh really Now I am hurt and offended 😫

😂 just kidding

hahaha me too!! Want to join!1 Wait, I did! lol

That was really well written and not rambling like you said 😉 and it's also fun to read about how you feel more confident and have come out of your comfort zone and you really have come along way. Great how the alliance has changed all of our lives in different ways.
You really are amazing darling and I'm so honored to be your partner and sister 🤗😘
Yes this is just the beginning for you ✌️
Love you my soul sister 👭❤️

Well, I think I am rambling but that's cause I seem to talk/type a lot. I told you I had a lot to say, and I even cut it down lol, I was looking for some images and clips of some stuff but I couldn't find it so this will do. You are certainly one of the important people I was talking about. I have to wonder if I ever would've found my soul sister let alone my partner in crime ;) if it wasn't for this group. I mean given you are EXTREMELY active in commenting so you probably would've found me, but without me joining the alliance I don't think I would've gotten the chance to know such an amazing person as well. Love you darlin!

This was a perfect results and even if you did cut it down you got much said that inspired many and me to as always.
You are such a wonderful person and a fresh air 🤗 you bring so much joy to us all and you Friday show 😂😂hahaha
Don't get me started. Best show EVA!
I love you and it's a true blessing that I got you in my life. 😘👭💖💗💟

Awwww you make me smile and make me on the verge of tears. Don't you start with me you sweet talking genuine friend of mine. 😜 I love you you know it! Sometime reminded me of something they read that your friends are a reflectionof you /define who you are, that in steemit and discord is exceptionally true. 😘

Awww.. Do I really? 😊 then you know how I use to feel when you talk all sweet on me 🤗 just being honest.
I know you love me and you know I always love you More 😜❤️
I like that.. Your friends are a reflection of you.. I'm grateful every day for you!
Have a wonderful day and I will se you later. 😘

❤️❤️❤️❤️

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👭👫👭👫👭👫👭 (Family instead everyone is lost with what I meant by this 😂😂😂😂)

Woohoo! Love and Pizza and family! I can't guarantee the people coming in will get pizza, actually, I can pretty much deny that that will happen haha, but a family they will get indeed. So happy to have you aboard darling, and the chance to get to know you even more. Go Alpha!

Where is the dotted line for me to sign on? I'm sold!

You didn't even ramble! I was waiting for it! All kidding aside, it has been such an honor to be part of all this and I am not sure I would have met any of you without it.

Well, except JJ. I have been attached to him since TSU

I am so low key on here and do most of my work in the field, but, that is where it works best for me.

You are such a positive force and I just adore interacting with someone who shines like the sun. Thank you for all you do, all you are and all you will become.

Now if we could only work on the sleep problem...

Upped and Steemed tip!

Haha, no rambling this time huh? Hmmm seems to me I might be losing my charm. Of course, I am kidding even though I have my own little heckler here, whom I adore of course. Well, I am so glad to have met you and gotten to know you my gosh. To think that even when you came on in I didn't get a chance to really know you but all that changed and now wow is it ever great! One of my most trusted co-leaders of steemusa and just an amazingly bright person. And sweet, all that stuff above is so sweet. Thank you for being a supporter and a friend, and miss chatty cathy ;) Oh and I got a tip too!

💗 💗 💗 You're the best.

Great Post! Yeah we totally love our group it's great, and the family vibes keeping the positive alive. Supporting the tribe sending the vibes and growing the space keeping it fun on the ride to outerspace.

Be well and we hope to see your face... Haha and share our existence in this taste of life we choose to share, so steem on... Friends
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Absolutely! Love the positive vibes, family feel, craziness, it is all magnificent. So glad you hopped on board with us, even if you are in a different syndicate :P

Excellent, and we are loving having you here sweets. I've never been one to believe in coincidence, so I think we're all finding each other for a reason :) Great write up, you honor us.

You know that is probably pretty true, I do believe that things happen for a reason, at least in most cases. Glad to have done it and meant it all :)

Amazing post. I'm with @tattoodjay. Sign me up :P

Thank you :) Glad to have you onboard already. An amazing teammate indeed.

Wow @topkpop this is really amazing. You are certainly a top voice in #thealliance!

Wow, well thank you so much for that! Really all I do is just try to be honest and put my heart out there, glad it goes over well. Glad to have had the honor to come to get to know you better as well and be a fellow syndicate leader (even if we are separate ones). Keep it up Gamma! :)

The usual mentality when going into any partnership is, "what is in it for me"?
I love your description of the benefits you derived from thealliance, I am definitely going to read about them and see if I can qualify to be part of giving back to the community.

Thank you :) I do hope you check us out if it is a good fit for you. I am so thankful for your comment.

I will check it out.

Meanwhile, since you are in charge of Alpha syndicate and may likely adopt me, I will benefit a lot.

I love what you are doing, keep it up @topkpop.

Good for you for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone like that! I myself have never been a blogger or never thought I would be one! But here I am and still pushing myself. My next challenge would be making videos -as a few suggested that I make but.... wow, thats really going to be a big step for me to do ! 😆
But hopefully soon :)
Im happy you found great friends here, especially the alliance! Havent came accross this group yet so thanks for sharing!

Wow, well thank you for stopping by. This is definitely your introduction to #thealliance then, glad it was mine. Yes, I have done nothing but push myself out of my comfort zone from the moment I got here and it feels amazing. Glad to hear you are as well as it surely is no easy feat, much easier to stay put. Yes, videos are a new thing, definitely, take some getting used to and editing if necessary and whatnot, but when you are ready (and if you want to do it) then it is a great experience. Thanks so much for your comment :)

Thank you for inspiring and giving me a new opportunity!
Heres my application: 😁💃

https://steemit.com/thealliance/@cooknbake/my-application-to-join-the-alliance

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