Scold Me ALL YOU WANT

Dear Steemians....

Anyone of you are not happy with me, angry with me here? Haha... I am just joking...

In life, I believe all of us got scolded before. How many of you would get sad for being scolded? I was one of them. But the thing is this, sometimes we got scolded might not because we are the one that are in fault, sometimes we are getting scolded for no reason, things that not relevant to us. Just because something was done not in favor of another person, we got scolded. When this happened, we are definitely angry about it, but why are we getting affected by others inability to control their own emotion and lash it out at us?

Let me share with you my "GIFT CONCEPT".

In life, we will always received gift from others. When someone pass us a gift, we say thank you and the ownership of the gift was transfer from the owner to us. Think a bout this, when someone give you the gift and you never accepted it... The ownership of the gift belong to who??? Of course, it is still belong to the initial owner.

Now let's apply this gift to all the Scolding, Curse, and whatsoever it is. When someone scold you, you accept it, it means you really did something wrong and you accepted the fact and hence there is a chance where you can learn and correct. In the other side, when someone scold you and you know that you are not the one that did wrong, you are not accepting it, so same thing, the ownership of the scolding and curse is still with the one who is scolding... Does it sound it he / she is now scolding himself / herself?? Haha..

When I am not accepting some scolding, what I will just do is say "Ah"... indicating I received the communication, but I never agreed with what you have just said. Just don't feed into the drama to continue the argument. Because whether you win or not, it is still not good for your upbringing. When you did right, someone people will know and you don't need to prove it to anyone.