Ah yeah now I got it! Well to be honest I have chosen a controversial title on purpose. They usually gain more attention :-)) But you are absolutely right. From a logical point of view winning isn´t really a choice - it´s the desire to win. Thanks for clearing that.
And yes, I have an apostrophe problem :-D I don´t remember who was it, but there was another user who commented that some weeks ago. We had a quite good laugh about it actually. But it seems that I don´t want to learn the lesson, haha
Again, thanks for your time and support spent!