Did Massage Envy Save My Life?

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What makes massage one of the best things that's ever happened to me before?

Massage is an amazing part of my life today that I'm very grateful for. At one of the points of critical pain in my life, I got a massage and I have felt absolutely amazing consistently since then.

Let me tell you the story of that.

Read this post or watch the original video of day 153 of Happier People Podcast on YouTube to find out!

Thank you very much to @gmichelbkk for converting the transcription of the YouTube video from GoTranscript into this beautiful post for Steemit, which is much faster to read than the video and has beautiful illustrations! I make the video first and then get help transcribing it into a blog post because this is three times faster for me than doing the post first and then making the video!

Did Massage Envy Save My Life?

It begins with my life being a disaster, on the brink of going over the edge into suicide. I went to Alcoholics Anonymous because I could see that it wouldn't likely happen if I would not drink anymore and yet, I couldn't quit drinking because drinking alcohol was the most consistent reliable stress relief that I had experienced in my life.

I didn't hardly know a way to really calm down, to really get some stress relief sometime without that constant rat race up in my head going, "What are you going to do next? What did he say? Can you believe she said that? What are we going to do tomorrow? Are you going to have enough money for the next day?"

Instant stress relief

I had one thought after another after another, and when I drank alcohol, "Okay, oh! Now…" It knocked me down into a simpler state of being. After three months of not drinking and going to Alcoholics Anonymous I was insane. My whole body was rigid and locked up and all I did was think, all day every day, and that's why I'd never been able to stay sober as an adult because I knew drinking would give me instant stress relief. Without drinking, I had no stress relief.

Sure, there were other things that worked a little bit here and there for a few minutes, but I'm talking about the stress relief on the body level, complete and lasting stress relief. I'm grateful today that I was so insane when I went to get my first massage. I literally was split, there were two of me.

One part of me wanted to just get drunk and circle a drain: "Let's just get drunk and die. That'd be a whole lot of fun on the way out and you can't handle it any other way."

Yet, I was terrified of that because I knew, I had this intuition, whatever you want to call it, that to drink again for me was to die, to commit an act that would set me on a path where I couldn't avoid then taking my own life while ruining lives of others in the process.

As that part of me guided me to this parking lot like, "Hey, there's a public liquor store right there, you can go."

The other part of me was desperate for stress relief. I heard one day in an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting, a lady shared that, "I go get a massage and I feel so good afterwards." She must have been like 60 and at that time I didn't process that at all, but then when I got home like all by myself I said, "I need some stress relief, what I'm going to do? That old lady said a massage. All right, it was right next to the liquor store. Either way either I get drunk or go get a massage. I'm going to get some stress relief, one way or another."

I ended up in a parking lot where the liquor store and the Massage Envy literally were next to each other. I was looking at both of them wanting to do both. I wanted to get drunk and I wanted to go in and get a massage. Half of me wanted to do one thing, half of me wanted to do the other, like a good angel and a bad angel sitting there. This time I had a different experience than, "You should do this!" like you might imagine a God pointing down from Heaven, "You better obey me or else!"

I had a different experience than thinking, "You better stay sober or else," I thought I understood why I was afraid to go in that liquor store. I knew because I've paid the price for it: hundreds of hangovers, sick, vomiting, thousands of stupid things, shameful things, stupid posts on Facebook at 5 in the morning, thousands of things I've suffered from alcohol.

I knew why I didn't want to go in the liquor store and as I looked over at the Massage Envy, I realized that I felt the same way about it. That didn't make sense because I knew why I shouldn't go in the liquor store. I knew the predictable result I'd get out of it, more pain and suffering, but why was I equally afraid to go get a massage?

That was unexpected.

I thought, "Why am I afraid to do something that might help me and might not have any other consequences than spending money. That's ridiculous!"

And for once, I just went in and did the right thing, I said, "Well, it's just stupid that I'm afraid of going to get a massage, I'm just going to walk and do it." What I realized as I was walking in is that I was afraid of the unknown, what would my life look like if I quit making the same stupid mistakes over and over again?

What would my life look like if I tried something new?

What if it actually worked?

And it did.

My first massage

As I laid down for my first massage, I started focusing on my body.

Now, Eckhart Tolle talks about going into the body instead of just being stuck in the head, in his book "The Power of Now" and his retreats. He's one of the top spiritual guys, I guess, in the US and has a global following. I learned how to go into the body by getting a massage. I had no idea how to go into the body, and no interest in going into the body.

As the massage therapist had me lay on the table and just lay there, then she continued to push different things here, pull different things there, and rub knuckles in, I was curious and I stopped thinking, I don't know for how long, I just quit thinking for 10 or 20 minutes, and paid attention to what she was doing.

I didn't comment on it or judge it the whole time, my thoughts just stopped. That's true self-relief to have a blank mind -- I said self-relief as almost a slip, I meant stress relief, but I said self-relief. It's both, it's relief from self. You see, when there's no thoughts, there's no self either. There's no me, there's no Jerry Banfield if I'm not thinking it. I'm just here. I am, I am that I am, I'm here.

I have to think for there to be a me, there has to be, "Okay, what's my name? Jerry Banfield. What am I doing? What am I talking about? Okay, we're doing this podcast."

I have to think for there to be me when there's no me, there's no stress. When there's not all these thoughts, there's no problem.

The amazing thing after 10 or 20 minutes of stress relief, in the form of the massage, I received three original thoughts in my head. At least they felt original at the time. Up until that point, my adult life, I had had almost completely compulsive thoughts.

Therefore, I was extremely defensive about what new things I would let in because I was essentially consenting to think about it for the rest of my life, "I'm going to read this book. Well, I don't want to read any new books because then I'm going to have to think about everything they said the rest of my life. I'll just keep the same old, compulsive thoughts I've got and that's who I am."

I had three thoughts coming to my head about working my Alcoholics Anonymous program. After months of going I hadn't had a sponsor, I wasn't reading the book and I was only going to two meetings a week.

In the middle of the massage, it was as if God spoke to me. I got three extremely clear and peaceful, but very loud thoughts, "Ask this man to be your sponsor, go to five meetings a week instead of two, and read the book." Very simple instructions like you might read in a cookbook, "Put this in the oven at this time after setting the oven and this, and get it out at this time, bam."

What I experienced though, was enough cessation of thinking, enough paying attention to my body where I was able to have everything that I needed come into focus and stop all these useless compulsive thoughts, "What's going to happen to me? What do I want? What am I thinking? What did I do yesterday?" All these thoughts that are just a waste of time.

I just got a massage today!

I'm grateful that some people alongside watching my videos share comments like, "How do you do so much? You upload all these videos every day," and I spend a lot of time with my family and I go to a AA meeting every day.

I spend probably two to three hours a day with my family. I go to a AA meeting, I spend an hour or so a day reading and watching video classes. I take an hour or so to walk with my dogs every day. I do what you might call a lot in a very short period of time and it's because my brain generally is not garbaged up with all these other compulsive thoughts. It's wide open. When I go to do something like this podcast episode, I step up, it rolls through and that's it. Now sure, I've had a few thoughts about it beforehand, but I didn't sit there to think, plan and live the whole thing out beforehand.

I'm grateful today because I just got a massage. That's why you can see there's this round thing on my head from laying face down getting a massage.

A fantastic tool for meditating

Massage has been amazingly powerful for me since that first massage. After I walked out of that first massage, I was just shocked like, "What just happened?"

I felt so much relief.

Now, I didn't consciously notice this because I don't think I was hardly thinking about it. There's a funny thing when you're not thinking about things you can essentially be oblivious to what's going on.

My wife said that I was way more relaxed at dinner that night and she's seen a lot of different sides of me. Then a week or two later when I realized what happened I said, "My God, I'm enlightened. I had a spiritual experience. I heard God," or however you want to put it. I reconnected with the whole.

Massage for me is a fantastic tool for meditating. If you have a hard time meditating, get a massage. There's nothing like a teacher to help. If you have a good massage therapist, they're very much like a meditation teacher. If you have a massage therapist who's a lot like I was most of my adult life, they'll be trying to hurry through your massage. They won't be really paying attention to you, and you may not feel a whole lot better afterwards.

Most of the massage therapist I've been to are present. They're actually paying attention to what they're doing carefully. They're with me, they teach me meditation and by now I've had 20 or 30, or maybe even 40 different massage therapists. I've had 100 of massages in the two and a half years since I got my first one.

They told me that I should probably come back within a month, I came back a month later and it worked again. I thought, "My God, this is great.

Then I started thinking, "Well, why get one once a month? Why not do once every two weeks?" Now, I get a massage every week. I'm thinking about doing it twice a week, but for now it seems once a week is good.

For several days after getting a massage, my body feels way better. After about a week, my body starts noticeably tensing up again and it's ripe for a massage. I just get a relaxation massage normally. Although I've had some deep tissue massages. I've had lots of therapists do lots of different kind of massages.

They consistently provide the stress relief. They consistently help me focus on my inner body, focus on my breathing, focus on practicing all these spiritual principles, focus on giving up my thoughts, letting go of who I am, what I'm thinking about, and just lay there and pay attention.

Massages also helped me to appreciate my body

Many of the massage therapists actually do a massage on the butt or the "glute," as it's called, without even having a towel over it. I have noticed in massages that I started learning to love my body again with the massage therapists who were very good at what they do, and the massage therapist I had today was amazing. You can tell that she's paying attention, she's there and she's doing what she's doing out of love. She's not doing it just to make money or just to have a job, she's there because she loves what she does.

Massage is one of those things that I would imagine is quite unpleasant if you just want to work it as a job because it might be quite unpleasant to give lots of different people a massage and to essentially not get to do anything with your head. It seems massage attracts good massage therapists. I've had a lot of great massage therapists that have helped me love my body again.

One of the things that stinks is to be up here in the neck up and to be looking down at your body as some disgusting thing that basically has to carry your head around. Like the whole body's purpose is to provide some occasional pleasure and carry your head around. That was my experience with my body most of my life. Something that was annoying, fat and slow, caused all these problems and hurt, that occasionally gave me a little bit of pleasure and was mostly there to carry my head around.

Going to massages helped me to love the whole body again and that gives me literally the difference in just having this part of the body versus getting to experience the whole thing. For relaxing, it's much easier to take a cue from the body.

There's this positive feedback loop between the body and the mind. If the mind looks in the body and sees a bunch of tension, a bunch of stress and a bunch of pain, the mind comes back up and says, "Oh my God, we're stressed out. Everything's all messed up."

The more the mind says that, the body feels like, "Oh my God, we're stressed out. We need to prepare for the end of the world. There may be a tiger or a bear coming, prepare. Continue staying stressed out."

What's nice about the massage is that when you get a massage it helps the body relax and when the body relaxes, the mind checks in and says, "Damn, the body is nice and relaxed now. Good, we will relax up here. All the voices in the head will take a little while off. Clearly there's no big problem, the body is relaxed therefore we will take a little vacation, will see you tomorrow morning first thing when you get up and start thinking about your day. But for now, you have the rest of the day off of compulsive thinking, of worrying about your finances, of ringing your hands over what your mother or your children, your siblings or your friends, are going to do."

Life is suddenly good and you don't need any alcohol and drugs to induce that effect. I've had lots of people ask me, "Are you on drugs? Have you been drinking again?"

Massage provides many of those same benefits completely naturally. The feeling I used to get from having those first two drinks is the feeling I simply wanted to sustain all the time I was awake, and it's the same feeling I get of relaxing, letting go, where life is good. I get that same feeling from a massage.

I'm extremely grateful for that, which is why I've taken the time instead of doing some video that might make money, help me sell and buy a bigger house, and pay off my debt, I decided here to tell you about massage.

Questions and fears about massage

A few questions you might have about massage or a few hesitations. You made it this far in, and I'm thinking that you might be serious. Either you've never got it before or you'd like to learn more. A few likely questions and fears you have if you are similar to me.

One of my fears was that they were going to do something to me sexually in there. It's Massage Envy, it's a franchise, but I still had this idea in my head and was afraid they were going to do something to me.

I've had hundreds of massages, all with women, many different women of all different cultures, sizes, ages, et cetera. I've had no issues with that. Now, I encourage you, if you want to get a massage, to look for the kind of massage you're expecting. If you're expecting to have a sexual massage, then you would want to look for that in a different way.

I think it's nice, a massage is purely an asexual experience. It's nice just to be touched and to be loved. Most of us don't have enough of that in our lives.

I go to MassageLuXe now because I moved and Massage Envy is five minutes farther away and that was 10 minutes of extra driving. I'm trying to cut down on driving as much as possible and MassageLuXe is like three to five minutes away from where I live.

You can get a great massage at MassageLuXe and Massage Envy, and at any similar type of franchise massage place, and at plenty of independently owned massage places. There's no worry about any of the sexual stuff going on unless you specifically ask for it, in which case there may be an issue. I'm grateful today that it was one of my biggest fears, I'd go in and somehow get shamed, but there is no problem with that.

Another one.

I used to hate spending money. The massage you might think is expensive. It is $49 or so for me to get a massage plus a tip of anywhere from $10 to $40 is standard because someone just literally felt and massaged your whole body for an hour.

This is some pretty personal service and I try to give a good tip when I go for a massage. So my massage on average costs me between $50 to $80 every single massage, and I go every week. Someone asked, "What do you like to buy yourself?" My answer is, "I spend all my discretionary money or nearly all of my discretionary money on massages."


Because they have a lasting effect.

When I get a massage, I feel good for days afterwards. I've had a lot of people tell me, "Oh, that's too much money."

How much would you pay to avoid going to the doctor, to avoid taking medications, to avoid getting drunk and wrecking your car, blowing up relationships and calling people on the phone all suicidal, and all the other things that happen from being stressed out.

How much would you pay to avoid that?

That's worth $50 to $80 a week. Absolutely, without question.

The money is an outstanding expense and outstanding experience. I've spent probably close to $10,000 on massages.

Meanwhile, I've spent very little money on many other things for myself. I continue to try to give my material possessions away. Massage is well worth the money. If you still aren't sold on the money aspect of it, cut out some other things you're spending money on that don't provide you honest and comprehensive stress relief.

I cancelled the cable. That was $100 a month that I've got very little stress relief out of having cable TV. I've ruthlessly cut out other expenses in my life to make room for massage.

Massage is one of the very last expenses I would cut. I would cut out going out to eat completely before I would cut out getting massage. If the money was extremely tight, massage is one of the very last things I would cut down on. That's how useful it is for me today.

Other things you might be afraid of, "Oh, the therapist won't like my body or it's going to hurt," but it feels really good when you get a great therapist. I consistently found great therapists and they have taught me how to love my body. They've taught me how to feel really good about my body. They have shown me what it feels like to love and accept my body. That is a huge and invaluable service. It's worth it.

You might also think about massage, "Well, I don't have time for that."

What do you have time for?

To blow up and get angry at your friends and family?

To get mad at your pets, "Get out of the way, shut up!"

Do you have time to zone out and watch TV for three or four hours a week?

Do you have time to play video games, put on a headset and scream, "You stupid mother F?"

Do you have time to do that?

Because I had time to do all that other stuff before I went to get massages. I had lots of time to do all that other stuffs: scream, yell, throw fits, get nasty, fight and argue.

Since I've started getting massages, I've had a lot less arguments with my wife. I mean like 10% of what we used to have. If we had ten arguments, since I've started getting massages, we've had about one.

Do you have time to fight and argue with the people in your life?

Do you have time to get pissed off and be all stressed out?

See, that time thing is one of those defense mechanisms that in my experience, my mind puts in place when it really doesn't want to do any better. This is in my opinion the biggest barrier to getting a massage, at least trying it. I find my mind honestly wants to keep things messed up because then it needs to solve problems all the time.

My life is pretty simple today

There's not a lot to think about. Almost every aspect of my life is good. I'm surrounded by people who love me. I have enough money. I have debt, but I have enough money today. I have plenty of food, I have at least three if not six months of food in the house. No matter what happens in terms of the economy. I can eat, so can my family for six months. It only costs a few hundred dollars to buy six months of food. Great food, food that I love the taste of: oatmeal, peanut butter, and canned spinach, which are extremely nutritious, full of vitamins and minerals.

Today I have a wonderful life and massage has been one of the most valuable tools. I'm grateful for that, I'm so grateful that I've dedicated this limited part of my day to share what works for me.

Being stressed out, in a hurry, frustrated, causes unbelievable carnage. It's one of the greatest evils that exists on this planet. People, just like I was most of my adult life, racing around, in a hurry, frustrated, alone, feeling like they hate their bodies, feeling disgusting inside, massage helps with all that.

Shortly after I got my first massage, I started reading The Power Of Now, then book after book. The miracle of these things is that taking one suggestion often breaks the ice. In getting a massage, that was one of the first major suggestions I'd taken in a long time. After that, I started getting more comfortable.

I got a massage like that old lady said. The same lady who recommended the massage also recommended The Power Of Now. After I've verified that her massage tip works, I read The Power Of Now. She recommended more books, I read them, many of them I've shared with you.

I'm so excited to share about massage with you today because I just had another fantastic massage. I'm so grateful for that.

I love you, I want you to have the life of your dreams starting now. Everything, just the way you would craft heaven right now around you.

I'm honored you've summoned me to assist with that, as I've summoned so many others.

My exercise for today was to get a massage. I cleared my schedule and did that.

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Jerry Banfield

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Not bad.

its worth reading

cryptoeera - your comments are short but AWESOME!!! Love you my Steemit Friend - SUNSHINE247

  ·  2 years ago (edited)

Thank you for posting @jerrybanfield

I now have a signature membership here in Chicago to a 5 start 5 diamond spa! I will have to make a post on this as well, but having this spa with steam room, sauna, relaxation lounge, and more has really made a difference in my life. I have never been more relaxed than when I go there and take time for myself. Thanks again for all of your support!

Joe Parys

That's heavenly sound @joeparys , I wish I have time to do that. The only massage I had was 6 months massage for back pain after car accident

so take a little more time and get another ... sounds like you are due one! haha

Mmm good for you @joeparys. Here in the tropics I take massages on the beach with a cool sea breeze - just amazing!!!

Did what do what?!
Oh. I see :) Great way to get out of one's own head. Since a massage is harder to come by, I'm gonna do some mediation now instead.

@fisch Whenever I do meditation, my bills are lining up in my mind ... So I prefer not to !!! @sallybeth23 I'm done with that.

I think it moved!

That episode was one of the funniest 😂

"The Opposite" is my favorite episode of TV, all-time, and I don't think it will ever be unseated.

Mannnn those were some classics, does that mean we're all old 😂😂😂

It means we're old school and we know what real comedy is 😌

That what I like to hear, people full of wisdom lol

I think Einstein would probably agree that genius is at least semi-timeless!

It is lol

No one does that...ever to a customer...that's kinda as if he's ragging with him...lol...but still a great clip to watch...lot if undercurrent...:) :)

Is this you @drakos?

No, that's Jerry getting a massage 😏

haha, cool!

Great Post Jerry , always love your blogs . This one is quote interesting. I haven't had a massage in my life , but I will sure have one some day. It's worth trying . You enjoyed it completely . Keep having fun and enjoy buddy.☺

Who does not love a great massage!!!! We actually do have Massage Envy here is Roseville/Rocklin California - I received a gift certificate from one of my hard working Agents and waited and waited and waited to use it!! Finally when I was in dire need, I got in for my massage :) I was experiencing acid build up in my body which was settling in my knees and thighs (something I had never experienced before). After my first massage, I can tell you I hurt so bad that I could not get a fork to my mouth the next day ... cried like a baby :) I went once a week for the next 3 weeks and I cant be more happy and of course thankful for the results. I feel amazing!!! The massage in combination with the change in my diet, I feel lighter, clear headed, happy, and no more aches in my legs :) Great post Jerry - making me realize how meaningful the massage was makes me want to head in and get one before I desperately need it again :) Love you my Steemit Friends - SUNSHINE247

followed you cutie :)

Why thank you my Steemit Friend!!!! SUNSHINE247

agreed... massages changes us... thanks sun shine girl

I always love your responses - this one made me giggle!!!!! Happy Thursday :)

I was just thinking yesterday to get a massage. I badly need one right now:( great post jerry. Have a great day.

I can help you out hugh;

I love massages too

Thank you for posting this, Jerry. Very good advice. I've found Massage Envy to be a great way to relieve stress as well. Thank you for the confirmation. Keep up the good work you're doing!

  ·  2 years ago (edited)

Lovely post! The power of a good massage! Im also a massage therapist and combine many modalities together including reiki and healing. The combination of bodywork and healing work is truly powerful!

The most important thing is to have a good practitioner! The difference is night and day between a good massage therapist and a not so good! My personal favorites are thai massage and head massage. Oh head massaage puts me out right away!

Nice to see u back all refreshed. Xx <3

After reading all this, I need to get a message... relaxing is needed especially for entrepreneurs who grinds about 100 hours a week.

P.S. "the power of Now" is also a must read for everyone... people must learn to live in the moment and have tons of self awareness 😎

Your posts are always wonderful to read and keep pretty engrossed with lots of twists n turns.
Yes, massage is absolutely wonderful for mind, body and soul.
But all the pressure points must be taken care of by the masseur to provide truly effective massage, that will relax the body.
Ideally once a week...massage is required to uplift your spirits.
Go guys !!!

Jerry, did you gain a little weight? xD

Maybe I'll have to give it another go around... the first time I ever received a massage was about 6 months ago. I was so focused on the possibility of being judged while I laid there shirtless by the therapist, I couldn't get relaxed enough to enjoy the session. Womp womp. Great post though!

Thanks @jerrybanfield! I'm gonna forward this to my friend who works at a MessageEnvy now :)

Thanks for sharing such a personal story - I also LOVE massage. Tomorrow I'm going to receive a "workaway" volunteer in my house who'se going to swap food and lodging for a daily thai massage - mwa ha ha ha! It's a good strategy, I've already previously received a masseuse in the house with the workaway website, it's great. :)


I hope you saw thorough reply to your "I Need Help!" post.

Did you consider massage in helping to resolve your overworked/feeling stressed issues? I guess that's probably an academic question, given this post.

@Jerrybanfield I resteemed your post
You are my best teacher in steemit love you
You are great person

Thank god u were saved, without u, i wouldn't progress in online marketing (every type, crypto,affiliate etc) and even not just me but lots of other people.

I love getting massages. A good deep tissue massage will last for weeks of relief compared to a chiropractor where the back starts hurting again as you are walking to the car.

Massages do help us sleep better so much. It is truly therapy and chicken noodle soup for the soul and body at the same time. Jerry, thanks for writing this. Jerry, you are great. We love you, Jerry. And massages do save lives like Baywatch, I'll be there. So awesome. Thank you. I'm Doctor Original Oatmeal, the One & Only Joey Arnold from Oregon. I'm the WOLBI Ghetto Joe, the Cool Kid of Hawaii Vietnam.

Great post. I can relate to this complete. I can't always afford a massage, but I find that yoga gives me the same feeling of stress release. It has completely changed my life.

Also the power of now is great, I'd suggest 'The untethered soul' If you haven't read it already.

All in all Jerry....sounds like a happy ending...love your posts!!!!

Its always happy ending, after all he always closes with "Love, Jerry Banfield".
He is a good fellow. We love you too Jerry.

Massaging certain points in the body can even help in lowering stress, sugar level and much more.

  ·  2 years ago (edited)

Sometimes when I exhausted at work, I count on my wife to massage and rejuvenate me, that will recharge me instantly.

After work, your dreams come true?)))

Yes, a massage is so relaxing and invigorating!

Had this done before
It was awesome

Ya same. I read a study a whale back showing that massage is way more effective than chiropractic.

  ·  2 years ago (edited)

Massage is great for the body and mind and soul.
When you need to relax and unwind from a stressful day, nothing like getting a therapeutic massage.

what about happy ending? just kidding! massage is really good to heal

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Very interesting actually

Wow, looks like your going to have a lot of people out there looking for a massage!
Actually that's not a bad idea, everything you said is perfect, in that we all need a break, a time of meditation and relaxation from everyday fast moving world events.
Great article.

Great post dear...👌
Thanks for sharing.
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Well said Sir!

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My friend also gives the green flag, so its all good:P

Best thumbnail ever!

Felicidades por tus sabia decisión, la cita sobre los masajes de "hablar de entrar en el cuerpo en vez de quedarse atrapado en la cabeza", esta buenísima el masaje es una excelente opción para combatir el estrés y mejorar la salud.

Wow what a long blog! :D was it not you that gave the tip to keep blogs short which I did since? Had a yoga-massage 2 das ago, not the best feeling but the best results :)

nice story

agreed... love massages

Nice story, ONLY on STEEMIT! Oh, Jerry and followers, can i ask that you have a look at https://steemit.com/@jakeag Here is a cool headed 18 year old with a regular steemit and crypto show worth your comment, review or resteem i believe. What do we steemians think? Thanks.

Jerry this is the kinda life i have always wished and would like to live, having lesser arguments with my wife and getting myself busy with lots of jobs to do ... when a man is busy making more money it brings and keep most families united.... Nice piece Jerry. Bless.

Top up the massage session with a happy ending and you will feel like a happy man

Jerry you tried all types of massage?

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Quite funny, i'm sure she's saying work work work work work and not vote

Très bon article. Je vous remercie.

Massage is a big part of my life both on the receiving and giving (I'm a skincare spa owner). The benefits of massage and lymph drainage are underestimated at times. So glad you have benefited from this!

Oh... I'm a mannequin... and I can't have a massage :-(

I need them upvote money !

Nice read about your massage experience. Now I need one after reading this long article lol

Yes, massage save your life:)

wow massage..
i alwasy have maasage to make me relax
nice story jerry

Amazing helpful to us... thanks

massages are amazingly beneficial! I have back issues they help with, but I can only afford to get them once and a while. its better then none

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Haven't had a massage in a while, they do have a Massage Envy not for away, I'll check it out. Thanks Jerry!

@jerrybanfield Hey there!! First of all applauds for your work.
Your way of presenting is way too professional at the same time very funny and engaging too.
Moving on to your article, who doesn't like massage??In my opinion, massage is a heavenly bliss given to us. It was originated in China and Egypt in 2700 BC believed to be holding it's medical benefits. Massage uplifts your mood from all the stress and tension, it soothes your mind and soul. I go to SPA quite often to relax my body and after the massage I feel all charged up and fresh. One must definitely try "Swedish Massage" it is one of the most popular therapeutic massage type. The light to medium pressure helps relieve stress, reduce pain, boost mood & promote relaxation.
P.S. Thailand's "Green Bamboo Massage"is the best place one can visit for massage.
BuBye for now :)

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I am sorry to read you've been trought such hard times Jerry. Glad you managed to raise again. You seem to be a really nice guy!

Very relaxing mood, while in a massage therapy.

Excelente hombre todos ocupamos un buen masaje alguna vez

We all need a massage sometime

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Great post. I use Massage Envy as well. Great service, helps in so many ways.

Loosens you up after you get too tight.


Interesting post Jerry! I feel like since I've been working online pretty hardcore I always find excuses to skips the gym or work on my health.

That's a helluva story that massage saved your life and helped you stop drinking! I love the moment when you are in the parking lot faced with the decision...next to each other are the liquor store and the massage establishment. Moment of truth!

No really, this is such a great story, Jerry. Few folks make their health and wellness a top priority, but when you are at the end of your rope, your other coping mechanisms aren't supporting you any more...what choice do you have?

I've struggled sometimes in the past feeling guilty if I spend a few hours a day making time for exercise, meditation, maybe a massage or painting my toes...but my wellbeing and self care are priorities! That's the stuff that keeps me stable and sane and if it takes a few hours a day and I get less other stuff done, well then so be it.

Through our yoga center Sean and I are now owners of a "licensed massage establishment." Your post makes me proud to think what we offer really helps people beyond just a indulgent pleasure. 🙏🏽

Great article. I'm a massage addict myself and when I'm in Southeast Asia, I have a massage every day. If everyone in the world got a massage just once a month, there would be peace!