溝通是件需要一直學習的事

溝通是件需要一直學習的事!
我是問題少女, 基本上很少問題也想要徹底搞清楚
然後想要解決問題.....
但有時候..我發現..這只是自己的想法
別人覺得沒有問題..也沒有覺得需要改變...
確實我不能改變別人的想法!
但時間久了...慢慢問題便會越積越大...
而溝通卻是一件解藥/毒藥!

Communication is something that needs to be learned all the time!
I am a gal with lots of questions! Need to make everything clear even it was just a minor issue, and want to solve it immediately…
However, It was just my view!
Others thought it was not a big deal…and not necessary to change anything…
TRUE! I cant change anybody’s mind or view!
But the issue became a problem after a period of time….then Communication could become a cure or poison of this problem.

People always have a common problem…that is “I assume” or “I believe”
I assume that you understand…(Why you don’t understand this easy stuffs??)
I believe you know about it….(I don’t want to explain anymore)
I assume you follow this way…..(Actually I think you should follow this way)
I believe this is RIGHT!...(This should be the only RIGHT way)
Those “I assume””I believe” will easily affecting our perception of others..
TRUE! Some of the “assume” or ”believe” could accepted by others.

But did you try to think at the opposite side?
If I don’t understand on something, what kind of description I would appreciate to hear?
If there is another nice way, how can I suggest in a polite way instead of ban the original one?

For Me, I always choose to blame on others and cry…
Then keep thinking in a wrong way, like “Why everyone don’t understand my mind??”…actually…I am just enlarging myself!! Then think others are wrong….only I am the right one!
Or maybe keep raising questions at a wrong timing!
After a period of time, I found that I was wrong and felt sorry~
always been a bad cycle in apologize..

”We always leave their good temper to strangers, but leave the bad temper to our dear frds and family!”
Communication…one thing that I need to be learned all the time!

Wanna say Thank You! & Sorry! to one who keep endure such a person like me!