Dr. TLK _ Perspectives _ LOA #5

The LAW of ATTRACTION (LOA), what is it and how does it work?

From the perspective of Dr. TLK

D. The Fourth Principle of LOA:

Always use positive words

For example:
Instead of saying "I Don't want to be fired"
Say: "I want to stay at my job and get higher position"

The reason for that is

1. The Universe DOES NOT hear negation words. In the above example, if you used "I Don't want to be fired", The Universe will respond to the affirmative request, which is "I ** want to be fired"

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Also, like I discussed my last post, being affirmative tells The Universe that you know what you want, NOT what you DON'T want

Another point is, when we speak in negative way, the negative energy of our words will stay with us and we will always live in fear of that what we DON't want.

We have a saying in Arabic "Those who fear the devil, find him" which has a similar meaning to the English proverb "Self fulfilling prophecy"

A personal story on that topic...

Most of my life was basically a manifestation of these proverbs. I always knew what I DIDN'T want because I was living with it.

One of the particular habits I was disapproving in my family life was the fact that my mother (and of course all females in the household) will have to serve the males of the household. Hence, we were trained to please men and serve them with a smile. Because of this, most males in Saudi Arabia are self-centered, disrespectful and lack kindness and care (I am trying not to generalize too much in the chance there are good men out there I haven't heard of)

When I came to Canada and started dating, the main thing I would look for in a man is that he is the exact opposite to Saudi men I grew up with "My brothers". I was so obsessed by that, to the point that any small gesture comes from the man I dated which could remind me of how my brothers behaved (even if it would have been normal otherwise) will make me run to the opposite direction without hesitation.

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Needless to say, that impacted my ability to meet good men because I was focused on finding things I didn't want which basically made Jesus the only candidate for me and even then I may find something about him that reminds me of my brothers.

All that to say, even my brothers were not 100% evil (They are really good looking for example :P), but because I was living in a negative environment, I became obsessed by disapproving and rejecting their behavior to the point that I created a perfect image of the person I wanted to meet, which of course doesn't exist

The other side of my negative obsession appeared when I met a guy I fell in love with, I immediately wore the dress of the Saudi female who is obliged to serve her master. One day he got very angry at me and said something like

"I don't need you to serve me everything. If I need something I can get it or ask for it. I am not a Saudi man!"

I was very shocked by his words!!!!

I didn't understand them immediately until we broke up. Strangely, the moment that happened, I felt like a heavy weight was lifted from my shoulders and I started laughing and talking very normal like we have been great friends forever. My ex-boyfriend was standing speechless looking at me! He said something like

"You look different, your air, the look in your eyes, the way you stand and even your voice sound different than just few minutes ago!! What happened?"

The funny part was that I had no idea of these changes myself. I wasn't aware that I was doing exactly what I was rejecting for a long time, which is serving men like a slave. I was trying HARD to please the man I liked because that is what a good woman do (Which is how I was raised!!).

Don't get me wrong please...

I am in general very loving and kind person. I like to have fun and serve other people. I would love to serve my partner/husband and spoil him from time to time, but at the same time I want to be spoiled and loved. I do't want to do it out of obligation but out of love, respect and mutual co-existing. It is not my job, but it is something I want to offer because I care.

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But the problem with the way I was raised was that it made serving my partner an obligation which defies my way of thinking and being. Having an obligation made me extremely stressed (To the point that I had severe constipation during that time, believe it or not!!!)

That night, I was physically and psychologically relieved. Which was an amazing feeling and amazing discovery. Unfortunately it came at the expense of a relationship that could have worked differently if I had been acting myself, not someone I was trained to be.

Anyway, the bottom line is... If you keep negative ideas in your mind, you will transform them to reality in no time!

(E = mc^2) Remember?

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